My girlfriend parents refused me to marry their daughter because I'm from a different state and tribe. Please how can I convince them since they won't allow me to come to the house? Please help me.
Also note that we are both Muslim
i know this might not be what you really want to hear but I suggest you don't push it too much and jst let things be while continuing to put your trust in Allah... if she's really your wife no man will marry her.
whatever it is that Allah has destined to happen will surely be accompanied with ease now or later on so just trust Allah, let things be for now and do not do things that will jeopardize your chances...
Thanks so much for the advice. It's really painful letting go of a 3 year relationship just because of her family members. I'll continue to pray and hope for Allahs intervention.
you're welcome
I wish you all the best and may Allah do the best for you as well
Astagfirullah... Same way I lost a 6 years relationship earlier this year cause of ethnic difference, he is Yoruba and I am from the north, we have been fighting for our love all these while thinking we could conquer but I had to just accept my fate cause I won't keep waiting and hoping.
I understand your pain but you should keep in mind that if something is meant for you no one can deny you and if Allah denies you something then it's not khayr In Shaa Allah, I keep consoling myself too.
I have tried getting into a relationship after him but I still don't know how to stop comparing him with other men, for the last 6 years I have loved only him.
Allah knows best, Allah Ya hadamu da mafi alkhairi
sorry
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