Men of nowadys and Relationship.

I am here to say this Wlh maza kuji tsoron Allah,muma matan muji tsoron Allah,the issue of Zina yayi yawa, it is so common ynzu,maza Ynx they are all after our bodies not all honestly, there are good men out there and I hope to be with one,ba duka aka zama daya ba and banyi adalci idan nace all but majority, kallon porn videos yyi yawa amd shima Wlh is zina of the eyes and yana leading to aikata barna,kuji tsoron Allah maza mutuwa ake yi, what if zina is the last thing you did ka mutu? what if watching porn was the last thing you did ka mutu? What if? are you really not afraid? you have cousins,sisters and zaku haihu what if abun da Kake aka ma nka? How will you feel as a parent ka kama yaron ka yana kallon porn videos? kuna yi wa iyyaye ku adalci kuwa? Dan Allah ku daina lalata tarbiyyan da parents su ka shafe years suna badwa, Wlh wasu matan fin karfin su ake yi ba wai bada kai ba ne,Allah ya hallice mu da rauni and sai kuyi amfani da weakness din mu ku lalata rayuwar mu, kuyi destroying image din parents din mu,Wlh our parents really tried wurin bamu tarbiyya, ya za su ji idan wani abu ya faru da yar su?Ta ya xka yi rayuwa da Allah ya isan wnda aka zalunta? Akwai kwanciyar kabari wnda duhu da azaba ke ciki,akwai zafin mutuwa,akwai mutuwar da mutum zai yi ya wulaknta,akwai karshe Marar kyau,kuna gnin ynx ba komi ba ne Wlh we all don't know what will happen next in our lives,wni lkcn Allah ba xai bka damn neman tuba ba har ka mutu bku jin tsoron hka? A mtsyin ka na musulmi ko yini daya Kayi a wuta kyi asara. Akwai bad girls out there please look for them ku daina bata rayuwar innocent girls kuna ska iyayen su kuka,wata a hka zata rasa iyyayen ta kuma ka ce Allah zai kyle ka? Wlh ba hka Allah yake ba yana bin hakkin Duk wnda aka zalunta,kun san baxa ku auri mace ba but end up destroying her life, betraying her trust, Wlh i onced post my profile looking for a partner ready to settle what I saw really scared me, I got a lot of DMs from men, especially from kano but marriage is not what they are after, some will just drop their numbers or handles asking to contact them,some asking for your pictures to see how you look,different mutane, do you really know how hard it was for mace tyi posting tana neman abokin rayuwa? Wlh she must have thought about it and it wasn't easy for her, some are not here out of desperation,wasu it is because of pressure from their families, was genotype has been there challenge, wasu kuma anyi betraying din su and afraid of love again,wasu kuma they are always at home ba inda suke zuwa bare su hadu da mijin, ba wai rashin kamun Kai ba ne ko rashin kunya ba ko because she is desperate to get married, Wlh mata we really faced a lot but sai maza suyi amfni da wnn damar, someone will say this is an opportunity let me give it a try and see, wni kuma zai ce maybe she is desperate this is a chance, ko Duk mazan duniya ba mai sonta sai ta zo neman miji, Wlh out of all the DMs I got it is only one person that is serious about marriage and ready for marriage but Genotype was a barrier because I am AS so it didn't work out, I want to find love for the sake of Allah but everything is not working out,I gave trust and loyalty but I was betrayed, my loyalty caused me nothing but pain,Alhamdullilah nayi kokari kare mutunci na da taimakon Allah because a wnn zamnin is not easy, I am afraid of love again because heartbreak is not easy to heal from, I took a break from love and prayers are all I can ,sometimes I think maybe if I meet someone that was betrayed he will love differently because he knows the kind of pain caused by betrayal but maybe I am wrong,maybe the time Allah plan is yet to come his plans are always better than mine,but I hope one day I find someone that will love me for the sake of Allah, someone ready to build love with trust and respect because I strictly respect boundaries, I want to give love that is pure and honest, a wife that my husband will be proud of having, a home build guided by Allah, I want simple nikah because Albarka nake nema a ciki,I hope one day my dream will come true. Dan Allah maza stop using opportunities akan mu if ba aure zaku yi ba. if someone is really ready to settle down and ready for marriage,looking for a wife mai addini because Alhmdlh I have all the qualities nayi saukan Qurani, nayi harda yafi 30 hizib in sha Allah in a short period of time I will complete the Quran, I have my degree, I can't say much here because wnda ya ce shine to ba shi ba ne, someone God fearing, mai addini and stable. if there is he can ask for my handle I will drop it but even kind words and prayers I will appreciate it,because Allah yana Karban addu'ar strangers. May Allah protect us and make it easy for everyone of us. Allah ya mana zabin Alkhairi.