Ina cikin masifa, i need help
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Anonymous Jul 23, 10:24 PM

Ina cikin masifa, i need help 2

i have been addicted to porn and masturbation for about 1 year, i have too much sexual urge and can only escape it by doing that. so recently i have been trying to stop it so i thought if i go and have the sex i have been craving and masturbating for, then i will become satisfied since i will get the real feeling. so i went and had sex with a girl i met selling fruits akan hanya cuz i find prostitutes disgusting. at first she did not want to do it but i offered her up to 3k it seemed alot for her and she agreed, i took her and booked a room somewhere after i was done, i felt fullly stafisfied and went back home happy and promised to stop porn and masturbation. The next day i started feeling a stronger urge to do it again, ashe abin ba haka bane kuma bana so da wasa sex din shi ma ya kama min jiki in kasa dena wa, so to avoid my self from becoming addicted to sex i went back to porn and masturbation again. yanzu i don't know what to do. please is there any way you can remove your sexual feeling, ni inda zan iya cire wa zan cire abun ya zaman min bala'i wallahi its affecting my life.
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Anonymous #3 Jul 24, 06:32 AM
Wannan wani irin masifa neh. Dont watch porn u wont hear, dont masturbate you wont hear. Allah says la taqribbu zinah, al these are close to zinah. Islam forbade you to do the all these things but nooo you wont hear. Gashi nan yanzu. If you are reading this and you are doing all this please stop, wallahi you are destroying your life. In kune ya ji, jiki ya tsira. Kai kuma ka ringa yin azumi. Burn your porn Cd’s buy a black and white phone the type that you cannot browse with. Kayi ta salla da karatun qur’ani Allah ya yaye maka. Get married if you have this means. Else wallahi zaka halaka
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Deejangala Jul 24, 09:57 AM
Sex is as addictive as cocaine and other hard drugs, so is masturbation too, they both ruin and destroy one's life, see ba the truth is that you can't pray to get rid of them you have to help yourself, make a resolution to stop and try hard in controlling yourself, i can't advice you to get married too why because a lot of masturbation addicts still practice that in their homes despite being married, self restraint is the key then you'll pray for Allah to assist you in getting rid of them make sincere repentance only then can you think of marriage. It's not fair to marry someone knowing you have this problem, many couples are complaining of this issue already. Plus STDs are real did you for once stop to think about the possibility of that girl you slept with being offered money to sleep with others before you? Do not destroy your life for few minutes of pleasure, wish you all the best.
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Hamidat Yusug Jul 24, 10:25 AM
Brother, dis is a very serious problem,but u must b d one to help urslf out of dis mess,addiction is hell,avoid movies wit sexual scenes,if possible change ur phone for d meantime,avoid being idle,try making urslf busy doin one important tin or d oda and pray as much as u can for d Almighty to remove d urge of such act in you...May Almighty Allah protect us all
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Ummu-Khulsum Jul 24, 03:52 PM
You should try fasting at least everyday or maybe consider getting married. That’s the only thing that I feel like will help you
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Anonymous #4 Jul 24, 05:13 PM
Ok first may you recover from this and calm down because you to wakts to end it. Go to YouTube search for how to stop porn addiction in Islam or effect of porn addiction in islam, some things like that, you will find tips and lectures, mufti menk, nouman ali, etc are all there on how to stop it wisely not even forcefully. But everyone that tell you you have to control your self is true
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Anonymous #1 Jul 30, 11:40 PM
mutumina you are not the only one in this deep problem. i have given up on mine hoping if i get married ending of this year is my last hope to stop. for 3 years i have been addicted since during my university time. i have commited zina like 10 times which i regret but i still watch porn and masturbate. praying and fasting cannot solve the problem. i hope when i get married i would stop.
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Anonymous #2 Aug 1, 12:47 AM

A musulunci you can have halal sex without marrying. Islam permits a man to have sex with his wife or female slave. Ka samu yarinya me aiki (Maid) as your slave and then you can have sex with her. not so many people know about this alternative, you dont have to marry because of sexual urge, unless kai kake so
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Anonymous Aug 1, 02:37 PM

na zata mai aiki ba baiwa bace soboda you don't own her kuma ba siyan ta kayi ba. salary kake bata. i think you are wrong soboda yanzu an daina slavery.
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Anonymous #2 Aug 1, 03:18 PM

akwai inda zaka je rural areas ka siya maid from her parents, you will own her as long as kana feeding dinta da shelter no salary until idan kaga dama ka sake ta. idan ta kai certain age kuma sai ka maida ta kauye i dont know if you know that people do this. so in this sense kaga ai ba employment bane she is your slave for that perioid of time kuma even during the time of the prophet anyi slave trade and he didn't prohibit it which means it is halal
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