A large number of Muslim now consider it a must to snap lots of picture during their visit to the Holy land even during performing the rites of Hajj/Umrah, Please this is wrong, our mind should be on our ibadah not on snapping pictures just to impress some people or for show off, Please we should do the right thing. Kannywood Actors/Actresses should take note. And Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

for about 3 years yanzu muna tare, no kids and i met this lady at my workplace that i seem to like alot and realize we have alot in common ni bazan iya auren 2 wives ba so i can only choose 1 at a time kuma dama we have had issues with my wife many times naga kamar tamu bata zo daya ba. so i am thinking to divorce her so that i can marry the person i want and enjoy my marriage life. har yanzu bata san i have this plan ba so whats the best way to divorce her in a nice way. bana so inyi mata wulakanci.

I am 28years old and the first born in my family, ni gaskiya ba irin yarannan bane da keson shashanci, naso aure tun ina university amma mamana ta hana wai sai na gama masters, ina samu samari singles masu sona da aure amma taki, a yanzu haka dai na gama masters shekara 3 har na samu aiki shima na shekara 2 kuma inada me sona tsakani da Allah kuma nima ina sonshi amma tace bata son me mata wai saii single, ni kuma rabona da haduwa da single tun ina degree. Yanzu haka kuma cewa take in jira sister na ayi mana aure tare, bayan ita bata da me sonta ma balle ayi maganan aure. Don Allah me zanyi?

SalamaAlaikum everyone. i just came across this platform and thought by sharing this i can get help to make better decisions i dont like sharing my problems with people around me or face to face. I am to get married by november kafin azumi aka saka ranar amma naga bf dina ya canza sosai especially during ramadan naga yana text da wata idan na tambaye shi he will say she is just his friend he only calls me 4 times a week ni har auren ya fara fitan min a rai. i tried to tell my mom she showed me that an riga an saka rana baza suji kunya ba dama ni ce first born kuma sun qosa in je gidan miji. i never thought i would find my self in this situation i use to hear stories about it. yanzu ban san me zanyi ba tun kafin ayi aure yana mun haka balle idan munyi kuma i am not one of those girls that will tolerate wulakanci from any Guy kuma all this happened a week bayan a saka ranar. its is true that Men are SCUM (except the reasonable ones). if anyone can suggest me a wise way to resolve this i'll appreciate.

i am 27 yr old male recently i am having pressure from family to get married and i am not interested in it but i have a lot of sexual urge many times i almost commit zina but Alhamdulillah. i know sooner or later i will have to commit the sin because i dont know for how long i can hold it. i am not interested in having a wife right now. my family has arranged someone for me but this is my plan. i want to marry her to have sex and after a while i will divorce her. is it wrong to do this? i don't know what to do or if there is anyway in islam to have sex halal way someone please suggest to me. i read you can do it with slaves but now a days there is no slavery. please advice me. Thank You.

I have this problem of porn addiction for about 5years now I can't do anything about it. I do all my religious obligation and try to stay good but sometimes I become scared that this may lead me to hell. Please for those with religious knowledge can watching porn lead a person to hell? Thanks

YA AZUMINSU YA KE !? YA SADU DA IYALINSA A DAREN RAMADAN, HAR ALFIJIR YA KETO BAI SANI BA: ------------------------------------------------------------ AMSA: Lokacin da mutum yake saduwa da iyalinsa a daren Ramadan, ba tare da ya sani ba har alfijir ya bullo, ko kuma aka kira sallah, ko kuma suka ji an tayar da ikama, to sai mijin yai maza ya zare gabansa daga farjin matarsa. Shike nan azuminsu yana nan daram, kawai sai su yi wanka su ci gaba da azuminsu, matukar ba su ci gaba da saduwar ba bayan sun fahimci bullowar alfijir. Amma bayan sun ji an kira sallah, kuma sun tabbatar da hudowar alfijir amma sai suka ci gaba da saduwarsu, to azuminsu ya karye. Don haka bayan Ramadan duk su biyun za su rama azumin wannan yinin, sannan kuma su yi kaffara kamar haka: 1. Ko su 'yanta baiwa/bawa (sai dai yanzu babu bayi). 2. Ko su yi azumi 60, idan ba za su iya ba, saboda wani uzuri na shari'a, to... 3. Sai su ciyar da miskinai (mabukata) guda 60. 4. Idan tsananin talauci ya sa ba za su iya ciyar da mutum sittin ba, to kaffarar ta saraya a kansu. Wannan ita ce amsar da malamai suka bayar, kamar sheikh Bin Baaz da Sheikh Uthaimeen da sauransu. Wallahu a'alam. Gae neman karin bayani daga malamai, to ga abin da SHEIKH UTHAIMEEN R. Ya ce game da wannan mas'alar. ﻭﺳﺌﻞ ﺍﻟﺸﻴﺦ عثيمين ﺭﺣﻤﻪ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ : ﺇﻧﺴﺎﻥ ﺣﺪﻳﺚ ﻋﻬﺪ ﺑﺎﻟﺰﻭﺍﺝ، ﻭﺃﺗﻰ ﺃﻫﻠﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺁﺧﺮ ﺍﻟﻠﻴﻞ ﻇﻨﺎً ﻣﻨﻪ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﻠﻴﻞ ﺑﺎﻕ، ﻭﺇﺫﺍ ﺑﺎﻹﻗﺎﻣﺔ ﺗﻘﺎﻡ ﻓﻤﺎ ﺗﻘﻮﻟﻮﻥ؟ ﻫﻞ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﺷﻲﺀ؟ ﻓﺄﺟﺎﺏ : " ﻻ ، ﻣﺎ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﺷﻲﺀ ، ﻻ ﺇﺛﻢ ، ﻭﻻ ﻛﻔﺎﺭﺓ ، ﻭﻻ ﻗﻀﺎﺀ ؛ ﻷﻥ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ ﻗﺎﻝ : ‏( ﻓَﺎﻵﻥَ ﺑَﺎﺷِﺮُﻭﻫُﻦَّ ‏) ﺃﻱ : ﺍﻟﻨﺴﺎﺀ ‏( ﻭَﻛُﻠُﻮﺍ ﻭَﺍﺷْﺮَﺑُﻮﺍ ﺣَﺘَّﻰ ﻳَﺘَﺒَﻴَّﻦَ ﻟَﻜُﻢُ ﺍﻟْﺨَﻴْﻂُ ﺍﻷَﺑْﻴَﺾُ ﻣِﻦَ ﺍﻟْﺨَﻴْﻂِ ﺍﻷَﺳْﻮَﺩِ ﻣِﻦَ ﺍﻟْﻔَﺠْﺮِ ‏) ﺍﻟﺒﻘﺮﺓ .187/ ﻓﺎﻟﺜﻼﺛﺔ ﻛﻠﻬﺎ ﺳﻮﺍﺀ : ﻣﺒﺎﺷﺮﺓ ﺍﻟﻨﺴﺎﺀ ﻭﺍﻷﻛﻞ ﻭﺍﻟﺸﺮﺏ ، ﻭﻻ ﺩﻟﻴﻞ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺘﻔﺮﻳﻖ ﺑﻴﻨﻬﺎ، ﻛﻠﻬﺎ ﻣﻦ ﻣﺤﻈﻮﺭﺍﺕ ﺍﻟﺼﻴﺎﻡ، ﻭﺇﺫﺍ ﻭﻗﻌﺖ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻭﺟﻪ ﺍﻟﺠﻬﻞ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻟﻨﺴﻴﺎﻥ ﻓﻼ ﺷﻲﺀ " ﺍﻧﺘﻬﻰ ﻣﻦ " ﺍﻟﻠﻘﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﺸﻬﺮﻱ " Dalibinku: Bukhari Musa Adam 17/09/1440 = 22/5/19

my friend was telling me wai idan kayi laifi a ramadan zaka samu less zunubi idan kayi aiki me kyau zaka samu more lada kuma ko da kayi haram you will easily be forgiven soboda rahamar watan and i think it makes sense. dama akwai abubuwa da nake san yi amma i want to be sure it is true first. please anyone with knowledge should confirm for me. Thank you

My Dear Sister, Ur Best Friend Boyfriend Or Husband Can Be Ur Future Husband! So, Plz Don't Ignore D Signs? Coz Ba HARAMU Bane?

There's this girl i love with all my life,i knw she loves me equally but im always concerned whenever she goes out,either to school or anywhere,my biggest problem in life is that i don't trust anyone,i try to trust her even though i knw she's faithful but i still hve my doubts,im always thinking about her,please someone should advice me on what i have to do...thank you!

meyasa mata suke addua Allah ya basu miji, su abinda ya dame su kenan a rayuwa? ga abubuwa dayawa da za ka roki Allah a duniya amma se wani miji? shiyasa mazan suke muku wulakanci kun maida miji kamar shine ze cika muku rayuwa.

reason i am writing this is because yesterday i went to my relative's home and wanted to show this 14yrs girl something on her android tablet online and i saw alot of porn site on the suggestions hmm then i went to the history and saw alot of the site visits almost everyday kuma the parents dont know soboda kunya ban fada masu ba na tafi amma abin ya tsaya min a rai. just 14yrs fa

i will be travelling next week and my junior sister will be coming to my home in Abuja to write an exam my place is the only place she can stay to spend 1 day i trust my husband but i just feel like something is not still Alright. please advice me

I wanted to share this to know if it is normal and some few men feel this way sometimes. i don't like women and sometimes i feel disgusted by them especially when they have their period its just so disgusting and all the other nasty discharge that come out of their private part. men are naturally cleaner than women and intellectually better but the annoying thing is they will be dressing fashionable and be doing yanga as if they are the purer gender some refer to themselves as slay queens after all the disgusting things that happen in their body. I wonder why some men marry and decide to be with them. Men pls what do you think about this?

There is this girl that has been asking me that she wants to come and do iftar in my room that I'm renting outside school. Gashi muna watan ramadan ban so wani abu ya faru amma ban san ko kawai as friends bane or I'm thinking dirty. Ni gaskiya banda niyar anything bad I don't mind she comes we have iftar, gist and leave as friends do. My fear is what if she seduce me. My question here is can girls seduce a guy to do bad things? I really want to decide weather to let her come or not

An tabbatar da cewa masu kutse na iya jefa manhajar tattara bayanan sirri daga nesa cikin wayoyi da sauran na'urorin shiga intanet ta hanyar yin amfani da wata babbar tawaya da aka gano a manhajar aika sakwanni ta Whatsapp. Kamfanin WhatsApp, wanda mallakar Facebook ne, ya ce ana hakon wasu "zababbun mutane" da ke amfani da kafar sada zumunta, kuma "wani jigo cikin harkokin fasahar intanet" ne ya yi sanadin hakan. An kaddamar da gyare-gyare tun ranar Juma'a. A ranar Litinin kuma kamfanin WhatsApp ya bukaci dukkan masu amfani da shafinsa mutum biliyan daya da rabi su sabunta manhajojinsu don karin kandagarki. An fara ba da rahoton wannan al'amari wanda aka gano a farkon wannan wata ne a cikin jaridar Financial Times. Ana amfani da fasahar kira ta Whatsapp a buga wa wayar mutumin da ake hako. Kuma ko bai amsa kiran ba, manhajar tattara bayanan za ta makale wa wayarsa, kuma kamar yadda aka ba da rahoton kiran zai bace daga jerin kiraye-kirayen wayar. WhatsApp ya fada wa BBC cewa jami'an tsaronsa ne tun farko suka gano tangardar, kuma suka yi musayar bayanai da kungiyoyin kare hakkin dan'adam da wasu kwararru kan sha'anin tsaro da kuma Ma'aikatar Shari'ah ta Amurka a farkon wannan wata. "Harin na da duk siffofin wani kamfani da aka ba da rahoton yana aiki da gwamnatoci wajen safarar manhajojin leken asiri da ke kwace ragamar ayyukan wayoyin salula,” kamfanin Whatsapp ya bayyana ranar Litinin cikin wata sanarwa ga manema labarai. Jaridar Financial Times ta ba da rahoton cewa kamfanin tsaron Isra'ila na NSO Group wanda a baya ake bayyana shi da "dillalin makaman da ake harbawa ta intanet" ne ya kirkiro wannan hari. Sai dai a cikin wata sanarwa kamfanin ya ce: "Fasahar NSO an ba ta lasisi don bai wa hukumomin gwamnati iko, bisa manufar yaki da aikata lafiuka da ta'addanci". WhatsApp ya ce ya yi wuri a san adadin masu amfani da shafinsa da wannan tawaya ta shafa, ko da yake ta kara da hare-haren da ake zargi ana kai su ne kan manyan jiga-jigai. A cewar alkaluman baya-bayan nan na Facebook, masu amfani da shafin WhatsApp sun kai biliyan daya da miliyan 500 a fadin duniya. Cc: bbchausa

Wa yasan meye asalin tashe? Ko ka/kin taba yin tashe? Wani tashe ne yafi burge ka/ke? Mr. Mallam

Ina so in siya blue eye din Jaruma that gives goodluck I have seen many testimonies about it. Amma someone was telling me wai it's Haram shirka ne kada in siya. pls what do you guys think?

i am friends with a girl very close we are both not married i want to propose to her but i am doubting and i know she does not have a boyfriend. bana so in ce ina santa kuma abun ya juya min ina so in tabbatar first please tell me the signs.

AREWA GIRLS NOW AND BEFORE, THE BITTER TRUTH At 24 I have been in a real relationship thrice. One was serious and the others were a waste of time. My cry is not about the relationship I had, it’s about the ones I didn’t have simply because my Arewa girls would not give it a chance. While growing up our parents (Fathers) used to tell us interesting stories of how they married our mothers. Ever since I was a kid, my dream was to get a good girl who is educated enough to take care of me and my kids. Alas, my dream is yet to materialize. Today’s girls are completely different from yesterdays. Are our parents (Mothers) to blame or the society? That’s a question I’ve been burning to get an answer. No generation has witness the birth of beautiful young women like ours. Even with all the heavy make-ups in the market. One cannot deny that the beautiful ones have already been born. Unfortunately, beauty without a good heart is a waste of cosmetics. Our parents (Mothers) were not too pretty, but they got husbands and married at the right time. They didn’t give our Daddies hard time, they simply gave them their hearts and today we are witnessing the last age of real love. I say this because after their generation, there will be nothing like love. Lust will take over. My Arewa girls have made love so expensive, it’s now sold to the highest bidder. Pride; Show me one Arewa girl who is not prideful and I will run a marathon from Kano to Lagos. If a mountain will increase each time a girl’s pride rises, I guess Mars will now be our home. The other day I was at Shoprite with a friend. While we were walking by some girls who were taking pictures and selfies. My friend volunteered to take them a shot or two so they could have a different angular view. Just when he declared his intention to them, my Arewa girls pretended as if their ears where not functional. He withdrew to me and we left. My friend who has a good heart felt the girls needed help and will be better if they had their pictures taken from a different direction. However, his intention was perceived and translated otherwise. Instead of them to politely decline, their pride made them behave like those creatures in the Zoo. Love is a barter of deep sense of feeling and an ocean of emotions not a battle ground for pride. In the olden days, women see fashion as priority only after the issues at home have been sorted out. Well, today it’s a different story entirely. Last week a woman sold the foodstuffs in her house to buy clothes for her friend’s wedding. It doesn’t matter how or where the finances come from, what matters is they must put on the latest designers and accessories. If their boyfriends or husbands cannot afford it, they solicit other means to fill their obsession. This alone is a criteria for giving you their time or affection. If you can’t provide for them, then start learning how to continue living a bachelor’s life. As for the woman who sold her foodstuffs, she slept in a police cell. I can’t blame the husband. I once told a friend that I will marry a girl who had just completed her secondary school. After we’ve gotten a kid or two, I will allow her to further her education. A lot of people view my opinion as bizarre while to many others is a welcome idea. They say educate a man and you educate an individual, but educate a woman and you educate a community. I believe this saying works in the past. If education will become the reason why a girl will disregard totally what the society holds in high regards, I think then that she shouldn’t get that education. Our so called educated girls no longer have respect for values that are of importance to the growth and stability of the society. The education they seek have given them so much exposure and enlightenment far beyond what they need. They no longer care about morals of dressing and respect and values of womanhood and chastity. They have lost what it means to be a woman of dignity, a symbol of peace and tranquility. Nothing breaks my heart than the way contemporary Arewa girls behave in relationships. You can hardly find a guy who is happy with his courtship with Arewa girls. The kind of pain and agony we suffer from them are rarely been experienced by my comrades on the other side of the map. Where have we (Guys) gone wrong? I don’t seem to know. When you date an Arewa girl, you must be mete with any of the following treatment, neglect, disdain, disregard, disrespect and many irrational reactions. To them it is a test of love and loyalty. Even the Nigerian Army doesn’t treat new recruits the way Arewa girls treat guys. This may probably be the reason why some of us misbehave. We are been subjected to harsh emotional conditions so we find solace elsewhere. Sometimes in many places at the same time. I personally believe that if love is what it is, it cannot be shared amongst persons, but only to one who truly deserves it. I like my Arewa girls, but it’s the traits they exhibit that discourage me. I know all of you cannot change at once. However, I am sincerely calling on any of you who read this article to start by assessing yourself and proceed to restructuring how you deal with my kind. We are pillars on which you must stand, why break us when you can make us stand stronger. To love a thing and find it wanting in loyalty and respect is misappropriation of faith. Don’t you think?