Why are women Generally in our society so obsessed with Marriage these days
Anonymous Feb 8, 06:13 PM

Why are women Generally in our society so obsessed with Marriage these days 1

Marriage is Good, but the obsession just gets on my Nerves. You will see a girl of 22yrs or there about complaining that she is worried for not having a boyfriend, like WTF. You will see many all around having relationship and boyfriend issues. WHY WHY WHY? I am a male approaching 30s and have never been in any relationship, i am focused on my work and career, i am not even interested in that thing, and it really gets on my nerves seeing women fall into this hallow hole of delusion. If you don't have a boyfriend, so what?? get a life and do something please and don't be stuck. I know the post sounds aggressive its really just getting on my Nerves. All they want to achieve is Aure, Aure, Aure, shikenan nothing on the other side. Please know that there is more to life!!!
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Ahjummaah Feb 9, 09:33 AM
hmmm poster kenen you hv a point but it’s not our faults 2-3yrs back wlh idan akacemun wai zan fada cikin wannan yanayin wlh sai na karyata zanyi idan da kowace mace taza bude bakinta ta fada irin pressure din da family din ta suke mata wlh sai kun tausaya mana amma munsan komi lkc ne san nan shi ubangijin mu ba mantawa yayi damu ba yana sane da abunda ke faruwa Allah dai yasa mu dace
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Anonymous Feb 9, 10:25 AM

i don't understand how that relates to health problem, because i am 30 and never been in a relationship? you see this is how the obsession has affected your mind, because you cannot see beyond relationship and marriage. there is more to life. I am very comfortable Alhamdulillah, I live in my 1 bedroom apartment, working and developing my self for more success. i like my lifestyle and thank God. When i feel ready then i can consider but i am not obsessed
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Anonymous Feb 9, 10:27 AM

Hmm, i still can't understand why some of your are relating this to health? How? atleast say something logical. Someone that has never been in a relationship needs to see a doctor? really? that's not how everyone thinks Mr/Mrs Anonymous!
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Anonymous Feb 9, 10:30 AM

That is another reality you have mentioned, you are one of the few people that have said something logical, i created this discussion to be in the form of a discussion.
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Anonymous Feb 9, 10:32 AM

I know you asked ur quesiton with sacarsm/mockry but i will still answer. My net worth is around quiet Good and i am being truthful, having an average monthly income of 400k - 500k
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Ahjummaah Feb 9, 12:09 PM

some of them are right to be honest bcos that is their believe but in dukkan mu muka duba halin rayuwa kowa nada nashi experience din But wat am thinking is it's true wat dey said that cewa is not normal idan mutum bai taba relationship and he/she is matured enough to cos am confuse now my believe is I see no reason to start a relationship if he/she is not read together married or ace rashin samun wanda ya kwanta ma a rai Allah ya mana mafita ta alkhairi kawai
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Ferteemah Feb 9, 12:36 PM
is not his fault but it’s Allah timing😊chill man, Allah’s timing is the best in Sha Allah..... just adopt an “if God wants it to happen, it will happen” mood towards everything recently😊and everything happens for a reason
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Khadeejert Feb 9, 12:46 PM

Tell me another thing I don't know 😒😒 guy i know ur type, after years now u wih say i wanto settle down bt i need a lady who is young lets say from 20yrs nd below abi. Toh mu kuma mun ce idan kanayen mu suka tashi aure su yan 22yrs dinan, zamu taya su rawa da farin ciki, kuma idan suka yi fada da samarin su, zamu shirya su su dawo suna soyaya 🌚 mu kuma zamu taya su da awwwnnn God wen. Go nd get urself a best friend nd life partner huncle E get why😒😒#COMPLETEYOURDEEN find a wife huncle
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Haidar Ali Feb 9, 12:54 PM

Yes Ma'am 😅
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Haidar Ali Feb 9, 01:01 PM

😂😂😂😂😂 Abeg o. It's not my handwriting. You no go understand my comments ai. Poster come and bail me out.
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Amsah Feb 9, 01:01 PM
help me ask ooo
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Haidar Ali Feb 9, 01:05 PM

Allah ya ƙara rufa asiri. Ya kuma ba kowa abokin zama na gari at the best time. Su kuma masu sa mana pressure 😅 Allah ya ganar da su. Amma su ma masu sa pressure ɗin it's because they're concerned ne yasa suke haka
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Hm tafeedah Feb 9, 01:09 PM
well, you're not completely out of point... but I wouldn't call it obsession, I'd rather call it saving oneself from destruction. Considering the rate at which zina is spreading now, getting married can save you from messing your life up... what do y'all think???
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Anonymous Feb 9, 02:14 PM

Well, personally i don't think not getting a married will make me fall into Zina, i don't even have time for that while i'm busy working on my life.
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Maryam Muhammed Feb 9, 02:35 PM
is it obsession?? i know we ar all entitled to our opinion bt i dont think its obsession. we all grew differently nd our perspective abt life is different. some see marriage as redemption cuz it is, some others see it as sunnah cuz it is, while others see it as I JST WANT TO DO IT or I MUST DO IT. as a guy it may nt mean anything to u cuz even u feel u have time bt its when u get to 50 nd u ar worrying abt KG school fees nd diaper nd u ar close to retirement nd none of ur child is done with school or well grown to support u that u will know nd understand if its obsession or nt. And as for ladies it means alot cuz there is pressure from family, society nd lets nt forget the worries abt being able to conceive cuz of age. Bt we all have reasons why we want to be in relationships. there ar people who live for love, there people who cant stay on their own, there ar people with sexual urges nd list continues. ur perspective is different bt dont call it obsession
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MuhammadS Feb 9, 09:40 PM
gaskiya daii kayi terere Kuma kayi min daidai😂
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Rukaiya Muhammad Feb 9, 09:51 PM
you are talking from the perspective of reality most atimes cuz gaskiya kam tarin mata are so obsessed with marriage shiyasa high number of divorces yayi yawa dalili shine so tari due to domestic and societal pressures sai macce tafada wrong hand and at the end yaxama matsala amma kuma one thing for certained is komai obsession na mace about marriage if time no come no mountain or force can bring it.muci gaba da addua da tsarkakkiyar zuciya.Allah ya cikawa kowa burinshi na alkhairi. also is morethan ok mutum yakai 30 har more than beyi relationship ba is a choice and not a TABOO pls.
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Fatima Alfa Feb 11, 10:51 AM
that is you,it's not easy for others especially the female
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