Anonymous
Nov 17, 02:06 PM
Why are sickle cell people treated this way?
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Salam
It took me a whole lot of courage to write these, I dont know if its right but i just had to somehow open-up anyway…
I am an SS
I dont usually fall sick, I am as strong as other genomes unlike ‘we’.
I have encountered a couple of suitors whom l later on found out they’re only trynna take advantage of ‘me being a success in lifetime achievements but not because they love me for who and what I am…
They attyms say things like “ai sickler ce, taimaka mata kawai zanyi.” “ai rabin mace ce saboda sickler ce.” “ai sai dai kawai na aureki dan kar ace bakiyi aure ba, amma zan auro wacce ba liability ba.” etc, too many more to list out here.
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These quotes
These quotes had traumatized me for almost 5years now, I suffered depression for 2yrs and alhamdulillah am now comin out of it lately.
I would like to voice out this because i felt it is important to make men see reason, we did not chose to be SS, we were born that way.
And instead of being understood & cared for, we only get to be emotionally abused, Used, Lied to and make feel not enough (irin lemme say-half packaged dinnan😊).
I am pretty sure that am not the only SS that has gone one or more of a relationship scenario.
So please, if you clearly know you dont love us as we are, then, please🙏🏻 I beg of y’all, dont add more salt to our wounds, dont use us, dont take advantage of our successes (pretendin to like us bcoz of our achievements), Tell us straight forward that you cant and will not have us as r/ship partners so that we can zero our minds and let go & move on. Dont let us get attached and later on dump us (to d extent of callin us names or downgrading us)
