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Anonymous Nov 19, 11:54 PM

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I know alot of people will judge me based on my actions because even I feel I was stupid and childish with everything I did.... I regret every action of mine and I am asking for forgiveness from God. yet I still feel the urge to do what I have in mind. I don't know if it's just the devil playing with me.... some months back my dad sent me some money and asked me to keep for him till he needed it. being the youngest in my family and the closest to him. he trusted me to keep it for him.... the money was in my account and I didn't touch anything.... a friend of mine who got married had alot of issues in her matrimonial home. and at such they parted ways with her husband. because the marriage was not up to a month. the husband demanded she paid back for the lefe and some other things he spent on her.... she didn't have the money neither did her parents.... she was very disturbed and she spoke to me about it.... I thought so hard and had so much pity on her. I told her I could lend her the money. then she pays back when she is settled just to clear everything with her ex husband and she was happy. she was very thankful.... I gave her part of the money in my account hoping she would pay back after a while.... a month passed by and she didn't say anything about it. then two months past n still no word from her.... then I decided to ask her... she said I should give her time.... which I did.... another month passed and still she didn't pay the money. when I spoke to her she said I should come and collect it from her by force. because I gave her money so I won't allow her rest.... I still kept talking to her and she blocked me on WhatsApp.... she is a very active person on social media and that too a known person because she is always all over social media. it would be too humiliating to publicly announce her name....... I need advice on what next to do with her.... I felt I was being a good friend by helping someone who her husband treated like a no body... just so he could get off her back coz he even threatened to take her to court if she didn't pay him..... I can't open up to my dad....last month I started having the thought of paying back myself before he ask for it.... a friend of mine hook me up with an older man who was willing to pay me money but only if I slept with him.... my conscience kept hunting me that day n I couldn't bring myself to do it.... I am a Muslim n I have never thought of sleeping with a man just to get what I want.... but I just feel like I don't have another option..... I'm supposed to meet someone tomorrow n I can't sleep right now.... coz my whole mind isn't at right...I have a million thoughts... what should I do to get out of this mess I got myself into....
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Bhillyamin Nov 20, 12:32 AM
sorry 💔💔
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Anonymous #1 Nov 20, 04:09 AM
I will say this because you admitted to be judged, this is total craziness and madness OR are you just forming a story for the sake of a story?? How can any of this ever be real, what do you want in this life? what kind of person are you and what kind of friends do you keep? Do you even know your self worth and value? Do you know that this Life is just a transition to the hereafter ?? Do you know that when you're doing zina, your iman is removed from your heart until after you finished?? what will you do if the angel of death meets you in the man's house? Are you willing to jeopardize your hereafter for a single problem you're just in?? Even if you didn't get your money back the worst thing your Dad can do is to lock you up in a police station or disown you may be....do you think that's as bad as doing zina, what iff the man you're going to his house is a murderer, what if he's a ritualist? Fear Allah and be the Muslim that you are, turn all your affairs to Allah, He owns the whole world, not just the money the lady is owing you, even the lady her self, not just your Dad but even his heart Turn back to Allah and ask Him to give you a way out, it's high time you stop relying on your intelligence to navigate through this world, you should know that there is a higher power that you can always turn back to when things are beyond you....Do "La haula wa la quwwaata illa billahil aliyul adhim" do " hasbunallahu wa ni'imal wakeel" do a lot of "Astaghfirullah" and also know the meaning of this things as you are saying them... with no doubt, I'm 100% certain Allah will give a way out for you....Fear Allah and be patient, Allah will ease your affairs Insha Allah.
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Anonymous #2 Nov 20, 06:00 AM
Advice! ita ki barta idan tagan dama ta biyaki. udna batagan dama ba kada ta biyaki. and don't fo where you're supposed to meer someone today. toyu rather tell you dad the truth of what exactly happn than to sleep with a man because of money! what of the man did the same thing she did to you. after sleeping with you kuma yace bazae baki kuddin bah. you'll loose ur virginity a bnza, ga azaban allah nd gashi ya hanaki abnda kika buqata wajenshi 😥 nidae shawari guda 2 nike dashi you either tell your dad the truth today or kice anyi scamming dinki andebi wasu kudaden😴
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Ahmad Muhammad kamba Nov 20, 06:47 AM

kama daena fadan hakan bcz he'll not lock her up jn a police station, nd he won't disown her inshallah! lass lass dukane fah sae Kuma fada fah, sai kuma yanuna mata ransa y baci sosae
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Ahmad Muhammad kamba Nov 20, 06:50 AM
gskia dae mistake kin rigaya kinyishi na dad dinki y yrda dake da har y yarda dake y dauka kuddinshi y baki ajiya nd ita wannnnan qawar taki y kamata ki fada mata ko kuddin waye nd ko kuddin miye don't meet with me man today! bcx bala:in zinah ynada yawa pray nd pray nd pray again, kiyi sallah kiyi adduah allah zai baki mafitah inshallah
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Anonymous #3 Nov 20, 03:38 PM
what I can advise u s dat, just go n meet ur dad ND explain everything to him, u ve already did d mistake as a good Samaritan, js show remorseful to dad ND ask for forgiveness, d Zina part remove it from ur mind please 🥺, thank u
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Anonymous #4 Nov 20, 04:19 PM
Dear poster, I will say this just once open up to your father and tell him nothing but the whole truth, whatever or however the outcome is it will be better than committing a grave sin in the sight of ALLAHU SWT fear ALLAH and the day you will stand in HIS presence and kindly for your own sake stop keeping bad companies for they bring nothing but destruction, stop claiming to be what you are not for God's sake this money is an Amana to you, why would you lend it out all in the name of being a good Samaritan when obviously you are incapable...
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Haidar Ali Nov 20, 06:06 PM
Two wrongs can't make a right. If there's a way you can source for the money by halal means before your dad asks for it please do. If you're able to replace the money before he does falillahil hamd. If he asks before you could, just tell him the truth. I don't know if your dad is the harsh type or not or if he is understanding or not. But he will understand. Maybe he will lose his trust at most. Even if he won't understand or you fear the consequence, what you're planning is not the way out. Think about how he will feel if he is to find out that you used his money for something without his consent and then think about how he will feel if he finds out you used his money then went ahead to commit zina to repay the money. Then you decide on what to do. That's just by the way. Then there's the aftermath of committing zina which is a whole chapter of its own. I'm glad you came here with this issue. I pray the comments of these wonderful brothers and sisters get through to you and Allah see you through.
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Haidar Ali Nov 20, 07:41 PM

You're welcome
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Aiichatour Nov 22, 11:03 AM
seriously 🤔. what type of marriage is it that you have to return lefe and other properties after divorce? when did this one start kuma🤔?is she the one that demand for the divorce da za’ace a maido lefe and some other stuffs? dear poster, the first mistake is already done, and advisably, dont go for the second one because you its haram. you can report ita wacce taci bashin to the right authority da zasu karba maki kudinki, inkuma kin barta da Allah then you get a halal way of getting your dad’s money back
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