Mar 6, 08:24 AM

Genotype has been an obstacle for me in Marriage

no one emphasizes on genotype,I feel cheated at some point, you find love -Genotype You leave and find love again then Genotype again, you get the one that’s at least compatible but they start lying, misbehaving and trying to control your life or our parents does not find them worthy, you have to literally beg for attention, care and all. I’ve lost all hope of actually finding love and getting married at this point , I know I’m loosing myself slowly, I’m very well outspoken but I can barely start and end a conversation and we are looked upon as unserious or ruwan ido🤧 at a point i just feel like going for the incompatible men but the disadvantages attached are disheartening

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Mar 6, 08:29 AM
gal don't worry what is urs will find u d person dat will love and cherish u and keep praying to Allah to grant u pious spouse
Mar 6, 08:38 AM
Genotype is overrated, its not everyone that wants children
Mar 6, 12:44 PM
that's what I'm facing also May Allah bless us with the righteous spouses, Allah is there for us, let's keep praying
Mar 6, 01:32 PM
Allah yabaki ikon cin jarabawarnan.
Mar 6, 02:47 PM
don't settle for less gurl
Mar 6, 04:29 PM
Asslm… the problem of this world is just too many and sometimes we just wonder… why me? well, I also do not have an answer to that but what I’m 100% percent sure is that it makes Allah very pleased with us when we directly pray to HIM and relate our problems to HIM and to HIM only… no matter how difficult it is or how terrible you feel… may Almighty Allah with HIS infinite mercy grant your heart desires and mercy upon us. Ameen 🙏 stay strong sis na 😊
Mar 6, 05:02 PM
Anonymous #1 Mar 6, 08:38 AM

Genotype is overrated, its not everyone that wants children

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Really?
Mar 6, 07:54 PM
Hmm as me that my genotype is AC I don't even know what to say in this matter may Allah bless us with good spouse's Amin.
Mar 7, 05:56 AM
If you feel like they're below your standard, you can upgrade them, that's if you really love them. It doesn't have to be men having it all the time
Mar 7, 10:09 AM
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To me, kowa de yana son ya samu yaron shi. In mace ko miji basa haifuwa zaga ka ba mai auren su. Sai sun sha wahala kafi so sami partner
Mar 7, 10:13 AM
Isma'il Abdullahi Mar 6, 07:54 PM

Hmm as me that my genotype is AC I don't even know what to say in this matter may Allah bless us with good spouse's Amin.

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my own genotype is APC don't even know what to say about ellupe76
Mar 7, 03:16 PM
Anonymous #3 Mar 7, 10:09 AM

To me, kowa de yana son ya samu yaron shi. In mace ko miji basa haifuwa zaga ka ba mai auren su. Sai sun sha wahala kafi so sami partner

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Yes, but there are many men and ladies that don't want children, and can meet through matchmaking
Mar 7, 04:44 PM
Anonymous #1 Mar 7, 03:16 PM

Yes, but there are many men and ladies that don't want children, and can meet through matchmaking

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Just like kawai kace baka son kids? Maybe that person has enough kids or has some medical issues.
Mar 7, 04:46 PM
Isma'il Abdullahi Mar 6, 07:54 PM

Hmm as me that my genotype is AC I don't even know what to say in this matter may Allah bless us with good spouse's Amin.

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Ameen. May Allah bless with a person with AA genotype
Mar 7, 06:09 PM
Anonymous #3 Mar 7, 04:46 PM

Ameen. May Allah bless with a person with AA genotype

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Amin ya rabbil Alamin
Mar 8, 06:01 PM
Isma'il Abdullahi Mar 6, 07:54 PM

Hmm as me that my genotype is AC I don't even know what to say in this matter may Allah bless us with good spouse's Amin.

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what does Ac Genotype mean please and with which Genotype group are you compatible
Mar 8, 06:11 PM
Anonymous #5 Mar 8, 06:01 PM

what does Ac Genotype mean please and with which Genotype group are you compatible

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me too It's recently I found out all my siblings are AA except me but do check Akwai AC And SC instead of AS or SS
Mar 8, 08:05 PM
Isma'il Abdullahi Mar 8, 06:11 PM

me too It's recently I found out all my siblings are AA except me but do check Akwai AC And SC instead of AS or SS

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Ohh ban san akwai ba ma, I'll research about it... May Allah make it easy for us all
Mar 8, 11:01 PM
same here Allah dai yasa hakan shiyafi alheri
Mar 10, 12:14 AM
well i think its an indication that despite all odds you both arent compatible. the genotype issue is super delicate and please do not compromise becauseof love, you ll get that special guy who is compatible soon Meanwhile i am AA
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