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Sep 14, 10:12 PM

Living with ADHD! the unseen struggle

When you finally understand why your brain’s been a puzzle piece that didn’t fit - Hello, ADHD People see the mask , but not the chaos beneath- adhd is silent struggle and invisible challenge they usually say am overthinking or exaggerating Noo- "Kawai bakin hali ne" "bata san mutane" or no she's too western ko " Meysa kin kasa fidda miji kiyi aure?" bla bla bla ya'll I have adhd the most unnoticed and neglected, a mental health disorder not an illness or disability though , just that it's difficult, draining , and exhausting. Hey, have you ever felt like your brains racing ahead while you’re still trying to catch up? Or the feeling of constantly thinking your life is a failure? sadness , emotional numbness , unexplainable emotions . mental health wellness deserved to be shed more light on Okay I knw more about myself and the conditions triggers and everything after much struggle but guess what I can do anything !! therapy nope can't access bcuz I live in Zamfara state very nice developed city lols... and online therapy is no joke. relationships I can't keep nobody understands, friends I don't have ,family ? traditional who thinks answer to everything is just get married bcuz you have degree already... okay it's not my fault that am 23 and zero rlship not even bf, yeah don't remind me my mate has kids Ikr in conclusion I am sad and terribly down also bored af.

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Sep 14, 10:29 PM
subhanah 🥲 am sorry sis besides you are still young fh just 23 keep praying plz
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Sep 15, 01:14 PM
User -} Sep 14, 10:29 PM

subhanah 🥲 am sorry sis besides you are still young fh just 23 keep praying plz

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thank you 🥹
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user -
Sep 16, 08:17 AM
wait.. why do you think you have ADHD? who diagnosed it? hope it’s not the internet.
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user -
Sep 16, 09:47 AM
User -} Sep 16, 08:17 AM

wait.. why do you think you have ADHD? who diagnosed it? hope it’s not the internet.

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Doc... did therapy twice
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user -
Sep 20, 08:45 PM
It may not be necessarily an ADHD, there are so many events in our lives that results to these symptoms of ADHD you've just mentioned. But trace back to your past, there might be an events that led you to this condition,may be heartbreak , academic stress etc .Allah ya sawwake . Amin
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Sep 20, 10:01 PM
User -} Sep 20, 08:45 PM
It may not be necessarily an ADHD, there are so many events in our lives that results to these symptoms of ADHD you've just mentioned. But trace back to your past, there might be an events that led yo[...] It may not be necessarily an ADHD, there are so many events in our lives that results to these symptoms of ADHD you've just mentioned. But trace back to your past, there might be an events that led you to this condition,may be heartbreak , academic stress etc .Allah ya sawwake . Amin
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childhood trauma , lost mother .. ameen tnx
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Sep 21, 08:06 PM
My Dear Sister... I’m really sorry you’re going through such a tough time. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed, and you don’t have to face this alone. Your feelings are valid, and you matter a lot. Try to be kind to yourself—even small steps like resting, taking a deep breath, or doing something simple can help a little. Remember, this hard phase won’t last forever, and brighter days are ahead. Know that you're not a burden, and you are loved more than you know. May Allah ease your affairs for you
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Sep 22, 07:42 PM
User -} Sep 21, 08:06 PM
My Dear Sister... I’m really sorry you’re going through such a tough time. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed, and you don’t have to face this alone. Your feelings are valid, and you matter a lot.[...] My Dear Sister... I’m really sorry you’re going through such a tough time. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed, and you don’t have to face this alone. Your feelings are valid, and you matter a lot. Try to be kind to yourself—even small steps like resting, taking a deep breath, or doing something simple can help a little. Remember, this hard phase won’t last forever, and brighter days are ahead. Know that you're not a burden, and you are loved more than you know. May Allah ease your affairs for you
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thank you ☺️
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Oct 1, 01:11 AM
I feel you sis. In this part of the world when you say you have ADHD it's seen as though you're making it up. When I suspected I had it and told those close to me I think could assist in ascertaining, they all shrugged it off. One was like "na oyibo you be?" So yeah, it's underated or misunderstood. And when it takes effects and affects your daily life, people talk and blame you for the negative outcomes. Thinking some things are done deliberately. Sometimes the harder you try for things not to go sideways the easier they go sideways 😅. But hey looking at the bright side, it has its own perks. ADHDers are somewhat superhumans 😁😁 We can do things exceptionally. Our brains are wired differently, we think on a whole different level, we're creative, talented (sometimes useless talents 😆) we have higher emotional intelligence and could relate to many scenarios or instances, we understand people. It feels like you have lived many lives to be able to relate to almost anything another person is going through. You can finish people sentences in your head before they do. We notice almost everything. Good observers. Your way of calculating or solving problems is weird and even different but on point Kai the list goes on. There's too much noise going on in ones head too. It's hardly ever quiet. One thought leads to another and branches go another like a chain reaction. So sis, as you know and already mentioned, it's not a sickness, defect or a handicap. I personally see it as a superpower, even though the downside of it really gets to me, like the temporary forgetfulness, getting overwhelmed, the procrastination etc. Though not all ADHDers experience all or the same things. So cheer up. You could use it to your advantage. Then again it depends on your environment and people around you.
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Oct 5, 12:51 PM
User -} Oct 1, 01:11 AM
I feel you sis. In this part of the world when you say you have ADHD it's seen as though you're making it up. When I suspected I had it and told those close to me I think could assist in ascertaining,[...] I feel you sis. In this part of the world when you say you have ADHD it's seen as though you're making it up. When I suspected I had it and told those close to me I think could assist in ascertaining, they all shrugged it off. One was like "na oyibo you be?" So yeah, it's underated or misunderstood. And when it takes effects and affects your daily life, people talk and blame you for the negative outcomes. Thinking some things are done deliberately. Sometimes the harder you try for things not to go sideways the easier they go sideways 😅. But hey looking at the bright side, it has its own perks. ADHDers are somewhat superhumans 😁😁 We can do things exceptionally. Our brains are wired differently, we think on a whole different level, we're creative, talented (sometimes useless talents 😆) we have higher emotional intelligence and could relate to many scenarios or instances, we understand people. It feels like you have lived many lives to be able to relate to almost anything another person is going through. You can finish people sentences in your head before they do. We notice almost everything. Good observers. Your way of calculating or solving problems is weird and even different but on point Kai the list goes on. There's too much noise going on in ones head too. It's hardly ever quiet. One thought leads to another and branches go another like a chain reaction. So sis, as you know and already mentioned, it's not a sickness, defect or a handicap. I personally see it as a superpower, even though the downside of it really gets to me, like the temporary forgetfulness, getting overwhelmed, the procrastination etc. Though not all ADHDers experience all or the same things. So cheer up. You could use it to your advantage. Then again it depends on your environment and people around you.
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🥹🥹 fr the first time in 20+ yrs someone who relate pls drop ur means of communication i need to talk to u
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user -
Oct 16, 11:50 AM
User -} Oct 1, 01:11 AM
I feel you sis. In this part of the world when you say you have ADHD it's seen as though you're making it up. When I suspected I had it and told those close to me I think could assist in ascertaining,[...] I feel you sis. In this part of the world when you say you have ADHD it's seen as though you're making it up. When I suspected I had it and told those close to me I think could assist in ascertaining, they all shrugged it off. One was like "na oyibo you be?" So yeah, it's underated or misunderstood. And when it takes effects and affects your daily life, people talk and blame you for the negative outcomes. Thinking some things are done deliberately. Sometimes the harder you try for things not to go sideways the easier they go sideways 😅. But hey looking at the bright side, it has its own perks. ADHDers are somewhat superhumans 😁😁 We can do things exceptionally. Our brains are wired differently, we think on a whole different level, we're creative, talented (sometimes useless talents 😆) we have higher emotional intelligence and could relate to many scenarios or instances, we understand people. It feels like you have lived many lives to be able to relate to almost anything another person is going through. You can finish people sentences in your head before they do. We notice almost everything. Good observers. Your way of calculating or solving problems is weird and even different but on point Kai the list goes on. There's too much noise going on in ones head too. It's hardly ever quiet. One thought leads to another and branches go another like a chain reaction. So sis, as you know and already mentioned, it's not a sickness, defect or a handicap. I personally see it as a superpower, even though the downside of it really gets to me, like the temporary forgetfulness, getting overwhelmed, the procrastination etc. Though not all ADHDers experience all or the same things. So cheer up. You could use it to your advantage. Then again it depends on your environment and people around you.
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found myself logging in every single day to see if u reply me 🥹🥹can you please just reply back and you knw get to talk to u more !!!
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