Anonymous
Oct 18, 01:09 PM
why do Abuja guys think it's okay for them to just invite a lady to their place?
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I'm not an Abuja babe, however I do stay in Abuja sometimes. I've met a few guys here in Abuja, mostly on social media, they seem nice then as the conversations start getting deep my guy will now say I should come to his place mu yi hira and mind you he doesn't even know me well enough to know whether or not I'm "that kind of girl", and I don't dress anyhow o I'm always in my Abaya. Wallahi there's this person I started talking to, respectable looking person and mature too. I told him I'm in Abuja, we exchanged contacts and all I was blushing thinking maybe I found my future husband😂 he gave me a call and we talked fine and the next thing that came out of my niggas mouth was that he would do Uber for me in zo wajen shi mu yi hira😳 on the first day we started talking o!! Honestly ayam tired, I find it very disrespectful Wallahi. What's this wayward behavior? Mutum na murna thinking an hadu da responsible guy then suddenly sai ka ce in zo wajen ka? Haba! It's a HUGE TURN-OFF, you guys should stop this nonsense please. But come o, why do they actually think it's okay to just invite a lady they don't even know to their place? Is it an "Abuja" thing? I mean where are our Morals as Muslims? Where's our Hausa/Fulani cultural teachings? Our ancestors must be rolling in their graves right now!😤
