I need people's opinion on this matter
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Anonymous Nov 10, 05:45 PM

I need people's opinion on this matter 1

I'm a university student living with my stepmother and her daughter (step sister). I recently started a small business, since the first day i announced to them and started the business, my sister then claimed that she also wanted to start the business, something in the business line of what i was selling. I even made up my mind i wont try selling what she's going to sell in the business line.Two weeks after i started my business, my sister told me that she also bought what i was selling and she'll be selling it also. I called my mother and told her what happened, and even told her that I'll just stop and leave the business for her, she told me i shouldn't, ai hassada ce kawai suke mani,they're trying to intimidate me and i shouldn't let them get to me. I still feel like i should just stop the business, what do you guys think, i hope I'm not overreacting. daman kowa a family ya san su da halin su, had i been the one that saw her start the business and decided to start also, I'll be the talk of town from them. what do you guys think?
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Anonymous #1 Nov 10, 06:47 PM
Hey, don’t give up on your business just because of this. Focus on what makes you unique and keep going. I know it’s frustrating, but don’t let her actions push you to quit. Talk to your mom and friends who support you they’ll help you stay strong. This challenge could make you even stronger. By the way, what kind of business are you running? Try connecting with trusted suppliers and building a network. Brand your business to make it stand out. Save new contacts (join contact groups), join business groups, and go to events like trade fairs to spread the word. Connect with other vendors and friends in business who can help you grow. And don’t see it as a competition; focus on your goals, wish her well, and keep building.
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Anonymous #2 Nov 10, 09:03 PM
my sister have say it all don't give up. what I will advice you is praying. try to find azkar to be doing especially for God to protect against your enemies known and unknown. because people can go to any length to hurt you. e.g if you can recite (yaseen) daily is good. or ayatul kursiyu, qulauzi birabil falak and qulauzi birabil Nas. and lahaula walakuwa ta illabil lah Aliyu azeem each 3* or 7 * every day. with intention god to protect you
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Haidar Ali Nov 10, 10:04 PM
Kowa rabon sa yake ci. You can go to the market and see all the shops in one street selling the same commodity. Yet none of them is out of business. In ma gasa suke da ke ko hassada, a bar su da kayan su. Focus on your own, be good at it, pretend it's just you. Compete with you to be better than you. Improve on your service. Sha just focus on your business religiously. Besides you have your mothers blessing. I don't joke with parents opinions or advices even if I don't like them or they don't make sense to me. Na kan danne zuciya ta na rufe ido na bi. And in the end I hardly regret. Maybe I'll long for what I had intended on my own initially, but sticking to theirs won't be a bad idea. Kin ce halin su ne. In dai don a yi gasa da ke ne aka tsiro da biz din ko da wata manufa daban, ba lallai ya yi lasting ba.
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Anonymous #2 Nov 10, 10:22 PM

is good you should keep it up insha'Allah nothing will happen to you
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Anonymous #3 Nov 11, 04:38 AM
The sky is too big for every star to shine, just do your business with pure heart and healthy competition.
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Uncletee Nov 11, 11:17 AM
others have already said it, but I will say it too. DON’T GIVE UP!!! and please remove the idea from your mind that hassada suke miki, what ever their plan is, if it is bad, it will return back to them…Allah yasa Albarka a cikin business dinki
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