I am suffering from forced marriage
Anonymous Sep 14, 07:49 PM

I am suffering from forced marriage 1

I have been in a forced marriage for 5 years. I have been suffering from depression since I got married, and how I am having panic attacks when ever my husband attempts to touch me. My parents and my husband have made my life a living hell. I don't know what sin I have committed to deserve this. I have lost my peace of mind and happiness. I have lost all interest in this life. I wish I would just die because I am too tired of everything. Sometimes I feel like just giving up and just live carelessly, I am so lonely and my heart yearns for love. If marriage is done to done to protect one from adultery, then forced marriages makes someone vulnerable to such acts. My husband doesn't get his desires satisfied by me because we've never been intimate in a peaceful way that'll grant him satisfaction. Also, my desires can never be satisfied by someone I despise. Parents should know this. I don't know what to do because I feel like I am going mad. If suicide were allowed in Islam, I would be long gone..


Ahmad Aysha Sep 14, 10:09 PM
Allahumma ajirni fee musi bati wa'a lif nee khairan minha, The issue is huge I don't know what to tell u to make you feel better, sister just pray, can u try to give your husband even if is a small affection? Uhnnnmmm inna lillahi wa inna ilaihim rajiun
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Anonymous #1 Sep 15, 05:55 AM
oh Allah...I know it's not easy at all to be married with someone you don't love ...and it's not even good Islamically for parents to force there child to marry who whatsoever dey want them to be with...but all I have to say is please you don't have to commit suicide, you just have to be patient and Yi hakuri...and inshallah if the marriage was never ment to be then Allah will show you a way out inshallah..... just keep praying dear
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Musa Abdullahi Sep 15, 06:27 AM
Very simple, just go to court, and your marriage will be nullified, because force marriage is Haram, even parents don't have the authority to force you into marriage. This is the only way, why thinking of suicide when you can simply get out of the situation.
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Anonymous #2 Sep 16, 01:08 AM
i wish there’s a more proper way to share contacts to help you out. May Allah Ease all your Affairs
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Aishatu Adam Sep 16, 05:42 AM
Assalamu alaikum I’m Aisha Ina neman mijin aure nagari mai mutunci
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