Assalamualaikum please your advice neededπ I met this man I was dating last two months and everything was going fine I love the vibes between us Kuma Bai Wai Mai arziki bane ama Yana da Rufin Asiri the problem is he has a wife with five children my problem is even if I agree to Marry him will he be able to take care of us all, Kuma will he treats us equal wallahi I am confused if to continue or walkout of the relationship
Just pry istikhara I think is d best π€π» π₯Ί
Note these things from him.
1. idan Yana kawo miki complain akan matar shi bata iya kaza ba Koh tana yi Mai kaza...
2. ki lura idan Yana kashe miki kudi Amma Yana Hana matar shi Koh kids nashi.
3. idan Yana miki alkawarin zai fifita ki akan matar shi ta gida.
all these 3 things are BIG RED FLAGS don't ever fall for that... otherwise you will be the victim.
Dear poster, if you love him and he loves you give it a shot.My fiance is married with kids too, he is very responsible, doesn't bad mouth his wife, treats me well. All in all alhamdulillah, i never imagined polygyny but with him, I'll gladly take this bold step. Read him well and pray fervently, may Allah make the best choice for us.
Toh kuma ba budurwar da zata kula Ka a matsayin me aure, indai bakayi mata wannan abun! π
Hmmm ai mata sai a hankali... they think with their emotions.... they don't just want to hear bitter truth and they like turning blind eyes to Red flags.....shiyasa idan mace tazo tana kukan mijinta sai dai mu Bata hakuriπππ
Wllh kam! π
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