How can I get rid of sexual feelings
Anonymous Jul 19, 10:57 AM

How can I get rid of sexual feelings 0

I am a male, mid 30s not married and quiet doing fine. I thank God for having a lot of my life together but I am getting bothered from sexual feeling that are distracting me and making me do things that i usually wouldn't do. I am sick of it and tired. I am really sick of it and i wish to get rid of it permanently. Any suggestions please. Thanks.
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Anonymous #3 Jul 22, 11:53 AM

My friend believe me there is no, greater enjoyment than to embrace your God given nature, u cannot escape it. You wouldn't know the bounties that God have for you in the marriage u are running away from until you are in it, have an open mind. And always remember that thing that u do that u will not normally do is hurting the ppl u r doing it with. How do u think it's your insecurities and life style effecting them!
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Anonymous Jul 23, 10:04 AM

Well, what if there is a way to alter the body against those urges? that's what I'm asking. i believe it is possible and i want to weigh my options
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Anonymous Jul 23, 10:08 AM

I think vasectomy has to do with fertility not sexual urges, people who did vasectomy still have sexual desires but they can't give birth, correct my if i'm wrong, else there is another type of vasectomy than the conventional one. Doing vasectomy doesn't make one a crazy person, its a choice. I like my lifestyle and demeanor & marriage is going to alter that for me.
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Anonymous Jul 23, 10:22 AM

Okay, well. I understand your point and ofcourse i am aware of Marriage as an option, but i am just trying out to see if there is another way to overcome this , in this age or modern science and technology.,,, I have not been in any relationship for the past 10 years or so, and i can't even remember how my last one went, My reasons are mostly personal on my internal self and beliefs not because of bad experiences i've had or anything, and besides, I just feel relatively satisfied the way i am, and not looking for anything more, except more success, you seem to be a victim of some bad experiences.. its not every man that's like that, but i get the angle you are coming from, Yes! many men in our type of society subject ladies to emotional maltreatment and they don't value their wives. Agreed. That is why a-times it better to just face your life because there are many horrible people roaming as normal people, and you are vulnerable to being a victim.
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Anonymous Jul 23, 10:25 AM

Well, I am aware of marriage as an option, my questions here is asking for alternatives if there are any available. If i can nullify my desires its much better than getting Married, to me. Else, maybe i can consider marriage but i have to decide.
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Fadeela Bello Jul 24, 12:16 PM

ikon Allah with all dis and still u are not interested in getting married 🤔....dis is surprising dnt get me wrong buh every responsible person wants to have a family of him own tlkless of u dat have a problem, bruh think very well oo
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Fadeela Bello Jul 24, 12:21 PM

don't do what u will regret later, marriage is d only lagal solution apart from fasting since u are capable y nt get a responsible lady and marry....u will thank us later
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Anonymous #3 Jul 24, 06:26 PM

I guess u r the only one that have answer u know yourself better and what's best for u, most responsible personality will tell you to stop allowing yourself to over think, there is no better solution for a healthy well doing man like u said u r than marriage. there is always someone for everyone
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Anonymous #4 Aug 3, 11:23 AM

so many advices have being given to you sir, I wonder what option are you looking for again and besides through out the islamic findings there's Non religious solutions have you acknowledged so far given. I'm already lost in my thought of what type of Man are you ! sorry to say but I strongly doubt your faith (or you don't have a faith either🙄), because a good Muslim won't take this stand you on. May Allah show you the way. Ameen
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Anonymous Aug 6, 02:53 PM

Let me explain to you, since before i asked the question i know marriage is an option, my reason for asking is if there are other means. Let me tell you, I don't see Marriage as just going to get a lady and get Married without considering the liability and responsibility aspect of it. Its easy for people to tell you get married, get married as a Man just because you have a house and cars. but its not about that, i'm not going to say much but i am not selfish to marry someone for my own agenda without considering other important aspects of it, its very unethical and i will not want to do that. Incase your wondering what type of man i am. I am a man with strong principles and everyday tries to be a better a person in an environment with some many temptation and negative influences.
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Bashabdul0 Aug 7, 11:02 PM
if you're not ready to settle, fasting is the only means to ease away such sexual pleasure. so kayawaita azumin nafila
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