Jul 19, 10:57 AM

How can I get rid of sexual feelings

I am a male, mid 30s not married and quiet doing fine. I thank God for having a lot of my life together but I am getting bothered from sexual feeling that are distracting me and making me do things that i usually wouldn't do. I am sick of it and tired. I am really sick of it and i wish to get rid of it permanently. Any suggestions please. Thanks.

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Jul 19, 11:26 AM
Fasting
Jul 19, 12:05 PM
chaste tea from alchemy of souls😂 abeg get married
Jul 19, 12:38 PM
Yes that's means ur system is reliable and functioning very well🤣malam kayi aure kawai shi ne magana
Jul 19, 12:38 PM
Anon 123 Jul 19, 12:05 PM

chaste tea from alchemy of souls😂 abeg get married

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yes shi ne kawai wlh body no be wood
Jul 19, 01:12 PM
since you are doing fine guy jst get married.
Jul 19, 02:38 PM
ae mafita daya ce kayi aure kawai Allah ya hadaka da ta gari
Jul 19, 02:59 PM
get married May Allah bless u with a pious spouse
Jul 19, 04:07 PM
Masha Allah Jul 19, 11:26 AM

Fasting

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that is temporary and not very practical on the long run. I am looking for a permanent solution, once and be Done.
Jul 19, 04:11 PM
Mjee Jul 19, 01:12 PM

since you are doing fine guy jst get married.

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I love my life the way it is, and i just don't want to get married for personal reasons. If i can get rid of this sick feelings then it would be great for me
Jul 19, 05:11 PM
Get married Mr
Jul 19, 05:53 PM
Fasting, Regular Exercise but the exercise should be focus more on control, but I strongly suggest you get married since you have the means to unless you get another problem with that.
Jul 19, 06:13 PM
Anonymous Jul 19, 04:07 PM

that is temporary and not very practical on the long run. I am looking for a permanent solution, once and be Done.

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why dude please kayi Aure ka huta kaji..
Jul 19, 07:17 PM
please get married …. fitnah may come from places a person does not realize, so you should be keen to close the door before it is opened without you realizing it. The Messenger of Allaah said Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me. Since you are capable and healthy you should🌚. Sorry for the advice you didn’t ask for
Jul 19, 08:51 PM
Anonymous Jul 19, 04:07 PM

that is temporary and not very practical on the long run. I am looking for a permanent solution, once and be Done.

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Permanent solution gaskia sai dai castration
Jul 19, 08:55 PM
Anon 123 Jul 19, 07:17 PM
please get married …. fitnah may come from places a person does not realize, so you should be keen to close the door before it is opened without you realizing it. The Messenger of Allaah said Whoe[...] please get married …. fitnah may come from places a person does not realize, so you should be keen to close the door before it is opened without you realizing it. The Messenger of Allaah said Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me. Since you are capable and healthy you should🌚. Sorry for the advice you didn’t ask for
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I know getting married is an option and many people have told me that, I just really enjoy me lifestyle as it is now, my house from outside looks like a family house but i mostly live alone except if i have guest. so i am used to comments from people. My question is if there is actually any way i can just get rid of it, its much more better than getting married i think. I am just trying to find a way out, my last option is marriage but i won't give up until i can't any other option
Jul 19, 08:56 PM
Ummeserlmerh Jul 19, 05:53 PM

Fasting, Regular Exercise but the exercise should be focus more on control, but I strongly suggest you get married since you have the means to unless you get another problem with that.

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My reason for not wanting to get married is simple, just a lifestyle choice i chose for myself. but its really eating me up and making me lose hope in the life i wanted for myself. I hate that nonesense feeling, i just want to get rid of it, abun yana damu na sosai.
Jul 19, 09:17 PM
Anonymous Jul 19, 08:56 PM
My reason for not wanting to get married is simple, just a lifestyle choice i chose for myself. but its really eating me up and making me lose hope in the life i wanted for myself. I hate that nonese[...] My reason for not wanting to get married is simple, just a lifestyle choice i chose for myself. but its really eating me up and making me lose hope in the life i wanted for myself. I hate that nonesense feeling, i just want to get rid of it, abun yana damu na sosai.
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To get rid of it permanently your body has to stop producing testosterone permanently, the testicles and adrenal glands are responsible for testosterone production so duk abnda zai stoping production nashi will help stop any sexual feelings.
Jul 19, 10:00 PM
Anonymous Jul 19, 08:55 PM
I know getting married is an option and many people have told me that, I just really enjoy me lifestyle as it is now, my house from outside looks like a family house but i mostly live alone except if [...] I know getting married is an option and many people have told me that, I just really enjoy me lifestyle as it is now, my house from outside looks like a family house but i mostly live alone except if i have guest. so i am used to comments from people. My question is if there is actually any way i can just get rid of it, its much more better than getting married i think. I am just trying to find a way out, my last option is marriage but i won't give up until i can't any other option
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Don't you adore babies when you see them. Toh dai Allah sa you won't do something that you will regret later in life. . Marriage has never been a barrier to achieving things, rather in most cases it is a support and a help .
Jul 19, 10:56 PM
Anon 123 Jul 19, 10:00 PM
Don't you adore babies when you see them. Toh dai Allah sa you won't do something that you will regret later in life. . Marriage has never been a barrier to achieving things, rather in most cases it [...] Don't you adore babies when you see them. Toh dai Allah sa you won't do something that you will regret later in life. . Marriage has never been a barrier to achieving things, rather in most cases it is a support and a help .
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Well, I like babies but i can't trade them for the life i am living now. I am really satisfied the way i am, and to be honest, i just really love the lifestyle. I have food, shelter, cars and all the things i do, from work to recreational activities, ... most days i wake up happy, people even ask me why i am always smiling.. but until i start getting this unwanted feeling, sometimes my mind closes up and i sleep for hours just to suppress it and when i see women, i will start thinking of some stupid things and that's not who i am but i am helpless, i can't control my thoughts and urges. If i can get rid of it then i can see myself living comfortable with little worries Alhamdulillah. Marriage is my last resort but i believe it is possible to resolve this without marriage, hence my reason for this post.
Jul 19, 11:31 PM
AURE!!!😭😂
Jul 19, 11:42 PM
Anonymous Jul 19, 10:56 PM
Well, I like babies but i can't trade them for the life i am living now. I am really satisfied the way i am, and to be honest, i just really love the lifestyle. I have food, shelter, cars and all th[...] Well, I like babies but i can't trade them for the life i am living now. I am really satisfied the way i am, and to be honest, i just really love the lifestyle. I have food, shelter, cars and all the things i do, from work to recreational activities, ... most days i wake up happy, people even ask me why i am always smiling.. but until i start getting this unwanted feeling, sometimes my mind closes up and i sleep for hours just to suppress it and when i see women, i will start thinking of some stupid things and that's not who i am but i am helpless, i can't control my thoughts and urges. If i can get rid of it then i can see myself living comfortable with little worries Alhamdulillah. Marriage is my last resort but i believe it is possible to resolve this without marriage, hence my reason for this post.
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Ok then since you don't wanna get married now we have nothing else to tell you. Just pray kawai
Jul 20, 12:38 AM
Dear poster, I'm in no way to advise u as regards marriage but I will say you be careful of your utterances, you never can tell what the future holds. Remember words are stronger than we may think of it... You might think your fine and doing great rn because you are single but what if you suddenly develop the interest later but you already took drastic measures regarding it?? pls do not make hasty moves and jst kip praying to Allah for ease and the good out of it all🤷
Jul 20, 06:38 AM
Anonymous Jul 19, 10:56 PM
Well, I like babies but i can't trade them for the life i am living now. I am really satisfied the way i am, and to be honest, i just really love the lifestyle. I have food, shelter, cars and all th[...] Well, I like babies but i can't trade them for the life i am living now. I am really satisfied the way i am, and to be honest, i just really love the lifestyle. I have food, shelter, cars and all the things i do, from work to recreational activities, ... most days i wake up happy, people even ask me why i am always smiling.. but until i start getting this unwanted feeling, sometimes my mind closes up and i sleep for hours just to suppress it and when i see women, i will start thinking of some stupid things and that's not who i am but i am helpless, i can't control my thoughts and urges. If i can get rid of it then i can see myself living comfortable with little worries Alhamdulillah. Marriage is my last resort but i believe it is possible to resolve this without marriage, hence my reason for this post.
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Nema zabin Allah a duk lamarin ka
Jul 20, 08:16 AM
Anonymous Jul 19, 08:55 PM
I know getting married is an option and many people have told me that, I just really enjoy me lifestyle as it is now, my house from outside looks like a family house but i mostly live alone except if [...] I know getting married is an option and many people have told me that, I just really enjoy me lifestyle as it is now, my house from outside looks like a family house but i mostly live alone except if i have guest. so i am used to comments from people. My question is if there is actually any way i can just get rid of it, its much more better than getting married i think. I am just trying to find a way out, my last option is marriage but i won't give up until i can't any other option
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engage in sports and make your schedule busy at least
Jul 20, 10:07 AM
Anonymous Jul 19, 04:11 PM

I love my life the way it is, and i just don't want to get married for personal reasons. If i can get rid of this sick feelings then it would be great for me

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ok ooh. Exercise more and get yourself busy as a bee.
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