salam,
for the past years i have been bothered about something very strange about me kawai hakanan bana san mata, i am 28 an fara min maganar aure a gida. i tried talking to someone about it ya fara ce min i am gay abun ya bani haushi shiyasa bana san yin maganar da mutane soboda they will start judging me. there is nothing gay about me infact i hate gay more than females. the last time i made a similar post negative replies na samu so please no bad comments this is something serious kuma ba wai ina yi bane da niyar zagin mata please i want answers from men idan wasu a cikin ku feel this way please comment lets discuss. idan normal ne in sani if not kuma in nemi solution.
thanks.
i don't feel like you i like women but i can help you analyse the problem.
forget your hate for them and answer these questions
1. what first comes to your mind about women.
2. Have you been around them sosai?
Oga you're shy about women
May be you don't have feelings for like
Love feelings that's why
Kuma baka Dan kula mata
But a zama nin nan Kowa gay zeyi tinani SORRY
Just say basu dameka ba
Try and start loving them
First thing that comes to my mind is
they are not as good and clean as men.
no, since childhood i attended male only boarding and even after then i don't have females friends.
ni ma abinda ya sa nake tambaya kenan ina ganin mutane suna aure da soyayya da mata, ni kuma se inji basu birge ni balle inyi relationship da su.
Even though kace you want answers from men amma I will like to contribute something little it might be of help. Nafarko dai since naturally ne bakason mata you can like try to be open with women meaning maybe baka mu'amala da mata dayawa shiyasa try to find koda one friend wacce zakana hira da ita kuma kazama open with her koda you don't like it try hard through that way zakana samun more light akan rayuwan mata dakuma yadda zaka fara sonsu. Bcox gsky abun is not normal burin kowani parents suga dansu ko yarsu tayi aure. kana shiga cikin mata like mingle with them and make friends with some or find a girlfriend basai lallai kanasonta ba try it with someone with time insha Allah zakaji kafara sabawa and eventually you will learn to love her.
ka gani ko. from your answers i can tell.
you see females inferior with disdain because you don't have any experience with them to educate you about their nature.
why do you think they are not as clean and good as men. what makes you feel that way. pls answer for us to dig deeper into this problem.
mostly they have periods always and its disgusting. they cant even pray, fast or touch the qur'an in the days they have it because of how impure and unclean they are.
i dont know how to explain to you amma haka Allah yayi mu. you as a man discharge waste from your body does that make you impure or messy? what matters is if you clean yourself ko? hope you understand.
it is not normal, ko a qur'ani ance men were created with desire for women. it is abnormal. research about it online. mental disorder ne kila
Salam, I’m a woman reading this post. And honestly I’ve got to say I’m impressed by your speaking up. Most men won’t even speak up about this type of issue, they’d rather get married and mistreat the wife as a result of this. But you’ve got to sit down and actually asses and ask yourself.
Is there something traumatic I’ve experienced with a woman?
Have I ever been abused by a woman. I’m not even talking of physical abuse. I’m talking mental and emotional abuse.
Then lastly what exactly do you mean by you hate mata? Be more elaborate, is it a specific behavior, the gender itself or a specific mace that made you that way.
I hope this helps you dai.
we are created like that, haka Allah yayi mu and we are proud of that because it's a blessing from our Creator, dan macen da batayi bazata haihu bah but you hardly find such women acikin dubu daker kasamu daya. TBH I see no reason for you to hate women cause of this, at least you get Sisters and Aunts suma mata neh and am sure you don't hate them. Please sit and rethink well possibly there must be something one way or the other. RETHINK
that is how Allah swt made females and there isn't any disgusting thing about thatt because it's just part of how Allah swt created us, it prepares the body for pregnancy every month and just think about this , I mean no offense wallahii but the way you are saying it, what about your family, I don't wanna mention but even the females in your family that might be the closest to you does ittt and it's not by choice it's just the way we are made plus not having periods can actually be a problem in a ladies life
tohm Allah shi kyauta.
but it still feel disgusted by it
Ameen ya rabbi
it is okay to feel disgusted by the period blood but duk yanda kakejin kyankyami bai kamata yashafi macen ba as far bawai wani rashin tsafta bane takeyi
ok, haka ne
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