I made a post days back regarding having issues with my girlfriend due to my unavailability as a result of my work schedule.
I've listened to advice I've received and I've started finding a way to balance work with my relationship.
Yesterday,we had a quarrel and I'm thinking of ending things. I want to know if I'm overreacting or not . Below is the conversation
(She called and I didn't pick due to work )
[5/1, 4:40 PM] M: I can't make call right now
[5/1, 4:40 PM] Princess: I didn't even call to talk 😕 i know you don't want to talk
[5/1, 4:41 PM] M: Point of correction
You know I'm at work
[5/1, 4:41 PM] M: And We are talking now
[5/1, 4:42 PM] Princess: Abeg Mr work 😒 i know you're the only one working and I'm not stop reminding me
[5/1, 4:42 PM] M: Mmm inferiority complex
[5/1, 4:43 PM] Princess: Thanks ok
[5/1, 4:44 PM] Princess: anything you like you can talk i brought myself here so you can insult me all you can
[5/1, 6:12 PM] M: When did I insult you ?
[5/1, 6:13 PM] M: Why will you even say such
[5/1, 6:14 PM] M: If your looking for talk abeg bad news not this time
[5/1, 6:15 PM] M: You said you know I don't want to talk
I replied you know I'm at work .
Is that the insult ?
Is inferiority complex insult?
[5/1, 7:16 PM] Princess: It's an insult and you know it
Honestly I think she was being over dramatic or probably looking for a quarrel .
I risk my work to make myself available to chat during the day because when I'm free at night she'll bring up excuses that she's tired and she wants to sleep . I reach home by 8 or 9 most of the times and I don't go to bed until maybe 11 or 12 just so we can talk proper but I've noticed we'll barely talk for 30minutes before she stops responding . The next day when I should be working that's when she wants my attention. I'm the manager where I work ,it's highly unethical for me to chat while working but I still create time to do that for her . That certain day ,we were chatting, she fully knows I don't make calls at work yet she had issues with it . If she can't understand that I need my own personal time then that relationship isn't for me
You already know what you want. we're not going to advice you to end it. calm down and weigh your options, pros and cons and then decide what you want
please what kind of work do you do?
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The thing is I have so much problems on my head ..... The last thing I want to do is deal with unnecessary dramas
Thanks for the advice
seems like u already made ur decision
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