Nov 20, 08:38 AM

Sometimes it gets so lonely

Everyone of us is tested with one thing or the other. I believe my test is love/marriage. And Alhamdulillah I I have accepted my fate/my test in hope of being rewarded for my patience. Ever since I was little I have always loved the idea of a happy home. Kullum in muna drama I always play a mother/wife role. So my tests are the two things I love most. To find love and to have kids. My love for kids ko. Hmmm you guys won't understand before I got very busy with work, I always go to the hospital in ana wa yara vaccine. And I come back being so happy. The whole day zan dame yan gidan mu da kunga wata baby MashaAllah. Kunga kayan da aka sama ta etc. I try to be happy rather I will say I am happy and alhamdulillah I have a business that engages me . But when night comes and I lay down on the bed... With my phone checking messages it feels so lonely and sad no personal messages just business related or group chats.. alhamdulillah am not complaining. But having no one to talk too ba dadi. Dan chatting din nan before sleeping dan good morning text dinnan. 😆. And this aya also breaks my heart... "We have created you, males and females, from one type, so that each of them may find comfort in the other, so that there may be affection and compassion, which will result in offspring." Ince Allah kai fa kace haka... Unite me with my comfort too. Alhamdulillah ala kulli halin.

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Nov 20, 01:29 PM
The end of your msg says it all, alhamdulila Ala kulli halin, i can understand how u feel dear, but believe in every difficulty there is surely ease, it's not too early or too late just be stead fast in prayers and insha Allah it shall come to pass, some are destined to marry early, give birth early and some are not, i got married early gave birth to my kids b4 29 and now am close to 40 divorced. so u see its not too early neither it is too late, it's just by d will of Allah. May Allah make it easy for us all and chose that which best for us
Nov 20, 01:54 PM
wani jikirin alherine sis nima tun abun bai damuna har yazo ya fara, abun haushi ma mutane bazasu barka kaji da damuwarka ba sai sun Kara da nasu, dis month nayi 23 Amma ji nakeyi Kamar 45 nayi saboda maganar mutane , kodan younger siblings Dina sunyi aure ne oho
Nov 20, 03:02 PM
May Allah grant us spouse who will be the coolness of our eyes
Nov 20, 03:34 PM
User -} Nov 20, 11:23 AM
hmmmm thought I was the only facing these,and the surprising thing is,ba dogon buri, like for me i never say Sai Mai mota,Koh Sai Mai kudi just rufin asiri,but till date no responsibile guy to hold on[...] hmmmm thought I was the only facing these,and the surprising thing is,ba dogon buri, like for me i never say Sai Mai mota,Koh Sai Mai kudi just rufin asiri,but till date no responsibile guy to hold on to,most especially at night like you said,no chatting,no good night messages,no morning messages,I really want to get married but I believe is not yet time😩now like these I have to continue school because I was given option to bring husband but there is no one to present so I have to continue with my Masters,even though deep down am not interested, Because wallahi am scared with the way things are going now,a girl with degree sef is struggling with husband talk more of the one with masters,the only thing is for us to keep praying 🥰🥰 Allah ya Mana zabi mafi alkhairi 🙏🥰
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Ameen ya Allah wlh u touch my heart am short of words but insha Allahu everything will be fine God never forget you and anyone in search of a good husband my advice to u is please keep it up by praying sadaqa it helps insha Allahu
Nov 20, 04:27 PM
User -} Nov 20, 01:54 PM
wani jikirin alherine sis nima tun abun bai damuna har yazo ya fara, abun haushi ma mutane bazasu barka kaji da damuwarka ba sai sun Kara da nasu, dis month nayi 23 Amma ji nakeyi Kamar 45 nayi sabo[...] wani jikirin alherine sis nima tun abun bai damuna har yazo ya fara, abun haushi ma mutane bazasu barka kaji da damuwarka ba sai sun Kara da nasu, dis month nayi 23 Amma ji nakeyi Kamar 45 nayi saboda maganar mutane , kodan younger siblings Dina sunyi aure ne oho
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wallah ba dadi watarana.but pls make yourself busy.it really helped me
Nov 20, 04:31 PM
User -} Nov 20, 11:23 AM
hmmmm thought I was the only facing these,and the surprising thing is,ba dogon buri, like for me i never say Sai Mai mota,Koh Sai Mai kudi just rufin asiri,but till date no responsibile guy to hold on[...] hmmmm thought I was the only facing these,and the surprising thing is,ba dogon buri, like for me i never say Sai Mai mota,Koh Sai Mai kudi just rufin asiri,but till date no responsibile guy to hold on to,most especially at night like you said,no chatting,no good night messages,no morning messages,I really want to get married but I believe is not yet time😩now like these I have to continue school because I was given option to bring husband but there is no one to present so I have to continue with my Masters,even though deep down am not interested, Because wallahi am scared with the way things are going now,a girl with degree sef is struggling with husband talk more of the one with masters,the only thing is for us to keep praying 🥰🥰 Allah ya Mana zabi mafi alkhairi 🙏🥰
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Allah ya kawo nagari
Nov 20, 04:35 PM
User -} Nov 20, 01:54 PM
wani jikirin alherine sis nima tun abun bai damuna har yazo ya fara, abun haushi ma mutane bazasu barka kaji da damuwarka ba sai sun Kara da nasu, dis month nayi 23 Amma ji nakeyi Kamar 45 nayi sabo[...] wani jikirin alherine sis nima tun abun bai damuna har yazo ya fara, abun haushi ma mutane bazasu barka kaji da damuwarka ba sai sun Kara da nasu, dis month nayi 23 Amma ji nakeyi Kamar 45 nayi saboda maganar mutane , kodan younger siblings Dina sunyi aure ne oho
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ai ke baki wani girma sosai ba. ayi ta addua ana aje email ko number sai kiga an dace
Nov 20, 05:09 PM
User -} Nov 20, 11:56 AM

😊 30 Kano

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ur email address
Nov 20, 07:23 PM
May Allah make it easy for us. But it's not easy at all. Never loose hope
Nov 20, 07:26 PM
May Allah make it easy for us and bless us with pious, righteous and religious spouses. Las Las Allah yasa jinkiri ya zama alhry 🤲🤲
Nov 20, 07:39 PM
User -} Nov 20, 11:58 AM

Allah ya kawo mana dauki

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ameen ya rabbi
Nov 20, 08:09 PM
User -} Nov 20, 03:34 PM
Ameen ya Allah wlh u touch my heart am short of words but insha Allahu everything will be fine God never forget you and anyone in search of a good husband my advice to u is please keep it up by prayin[...] Ameen ya Allah wlh u touch my heart am short of words but insha Allahu everything will be fine God never forget you and anyone in search of a good husband my advice to u is please keep it up by praying sadaqa it helps insha Allahu
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Ameen Insha Allah 😊
Nov 20, 11:11 PM
User -} Nov 20, 10:07 AM

hello can we get to each other more 😊 please?

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we can u can drop ur email address so I can reach out In Sha Allah
Nov 20, 11:13 PM
User -} Nov 20, 10:07 AM

hello can we get to each other more 😊 please?

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sure u can Drop ur email address
Nov 22, 04:55 PM
User -} Nov 20, 10:00 AM
I’m also facing this too my dream was to be married at 22 max, give birth to my 4 kids , at 35 max I hv close d chapter of giving birth 🤰 den I’ll start enjoying life wit hubby lol.. but guess[...] I’m also facing this too my dream was to be married at 22 max, give birth to my 4 kids , at 35 max I hv close d chapter of giving birth 🤰 den I’ll start enjoying life wit hubby lol.. but guess what I’ll be 29 next month nd I’m single, every man that comes my way wants my body, they say I’m extremely sexually attractive, I do not hv bad character or am I fleet oo.. but still they still want my body first nd if I refuse they go.. the only one who’s not loving me for my kuma is totally broke, no job, no money, no business,no money to even start business, nothing.. I hv accept my fate maybe I’m not destined to marry in my 20s only Allah knows .. may Allah make it easy on us all. Aminn and grant us that which is best for us in this duniya nd hereafter. Aminn
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Allah sarki same issue with me Allah ya kawo mna mafita
Nov 27, 10:06 PM
User -} Nov 20, 10:00 AM
I’m also facing this too my dream was to be married at 22 max, give birth to my 4 kids , at 35 max I hv close d chapter of giving birth 🤰 den I’ll start enjoying life wit hubby lol.. but guess[...] I’m also facing this too my dream was to be married at 22 max, give birth to my 4 kids , at 35 max I hv close d chapter of giving birth 🤰 den I’ll start enjoying life wit hubby lol.. but guess what I’ll be 29 next month nd I’m single, every man that comes my way wants my body, they say I’m extremely sexually attractive, I do not hv bad character or am I fleet oo.. but still they still want my body first nd if I refuse they go.. the only one who’s not loving me for my kuma is totally broke, no job, no money, no business,no money to even start business, nothing.. I hv accept my fate maybe I’m not destined to marry in my 20s only Allah knows .. may Allah make it easy on us all. Aminn and grant us that which is best for us in this duniya nd hereafter. Aminn
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Slm. email address please?
Nov 28, 05:59 PM
User -} Nov 27, 10:06 PM

Slm. email address please?

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Slm. I'm waiting...
Dec 10, 08:49 PM
User -} Nov 20, 11:58 AM

Allah ya kawo mana dauki

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Aamin yaa Allah
Oct 10, 11:51 PM
Assalamu alaykum, I'm here after a while and wish to ask how are things going now?
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