Anonymous
Nov 20, 01:17 AM
Do good men still exist? Am i right to back out?
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Assalamu alaikum. There's this thing that has been really bothering me lately. do good men really exist? I keep wondering to myself bcuz all the guys I tend to meet are not what I wish for. I mean they are funny, nice, sensible and mostly religious alhamdulillah. The only problem I have with them is asking for inappropriate pictures, asking to make sex call so they can relieve themselves, asking very personal and uncomfortable questions. I mean all I want is someone that have self control and knows how to speak to a lady. I don't ask for much. but it seems I'm always unlucky with horny men. and for me it's a big red flag if you ask for my inappropriate pictures or to make erotic calls. I mean if I'm your wife it's cool but I'm not. it's like a normal thing to most guys which I find very uncomfortable. I tend to back out in any relationship that requires this bcuz I feel very uncomfortable, do you think I'm making a mistake by doing that bcuz I think I've left way too many guys bcuz of that which makes me start to think are there really good guys left?
