I have a confession to make. Please don't judge me for I'm only seeking for advice. I am a lady of 27yrs, but I'm addicted to masturbation. I started since I was in boarding school at 14yrs old. I really don't remember how it started, but if I could turn back the hands of time to reverse it, I would. I used to masturbate every single day, but now, it's just like twice a week. I just want to stop it completely but I don't know how to. I used to have sex before, but Wallahi I have repented Alhamdulillah, I haven't done it in a long while coz wlh Ina tsoron Allah sosai, Amma na kasa daina masturbation. Please I need an advice, and as I said earlier, please don't judge me for I'm only human and I'm not perfect. wannan jarabawan daga Allah ne. Thank you
Allah ya yaye mana abinda yafi karfinmu, amin. Kiyita rokan Allah kina azumi da adduoi sosai sannan duk abinda ke tada miki shaawa ki gugesa ko wayane nema ki ajiyesa a gefe for some time haka. Allah ya yafe mana baki daya, amin 🙏
the Way You Tried Not Decrease from Daily you can Also Stop it. but its Not Going to be Easy you Just Have to Keep Fighting nd Don't Give Up Even If you Comes back to It Repent. nd Get Rid of anything that Triggers your Sexual orgies.Try and Establish the Link with Allah By Praying fasting reading the holly Qur'an...nd If possible Marry pls... may Allah help us All
Thank you soo much. I've already met the man of my dreams and we've even started talking about getting married. Hopefully zuwa next year. I'll try my best inshaAllah. thank you for your kind words
Ameen ameen fah. InshaAllahu I will. thank you so much
My pleasure 🙏
Masha Allah. May Allah forgive your past and put barakha in your Marriage and You Life
Allah ya yayemaki matsalarki,kidena kebantuwa ke kadai lokacin shedan zaisamu ingizaki
Wen ever u feel u want to just don't b alone b with someone u respect maybe a sis or parent. You see if u r together wit one of dem u won't have d chance to, wit dat it may reduce slowly nd u won't b interested anymore. And always pray kodah Naphilah 2 raka'ah b4 sleeping
Gaskiya. Being alone brings a lot of thoughts. thank you very much for the advise 🙏🏾
InshaAllahu I'll try. Thank you so much 🙏🏾
Hello,
Will it be okay if we chat privately?
stop sitting alone and always listen to Qur'an on your phone stay away from music and romantic movies.insha Allah you'll stop.
I'll do that InshaAllahu. Thank you 😊
Allah y kawo mafita ameen
Ameen ameen 🙏🏾
try fasting Mondays and Thursdays it will help Insha ALLAAH and also avoid being alone like being isolated and get married for as soon as u find someone if u are not married! may ALLAAH make it easy for u amen.
InshaAllahu dear. thank you so much
kidage da addua
trust Allah surely uh'll achieve ur aim
Assalamualaikum Mallama please ID my and Post for me hmmm Mallama masturbation ciwo ne wallahi since from childhood on many occasions ana taba min private part by people older than me,I remembered of scenarios while some ban Iya tunawa bah since from then I became use to touching my private part with my fingers Kuma the moment I feel that urge wallahi Bana Iya resisting Sai nayi before I will start having the feeling of regret am upto the age of marriage but I don't know how to come out clear and tell my parent though I have tried to give then sign like most of my friends are male and they do come home though we don't indulge in anything bad Mallama Ina son aure though Bani da tsayaye ni a yanxu din nan Koh match making ne in xa'ayi min I will not mind cos I want to be cure of this bad habit of mine please to our parents out there if your daughter show signs of wanting marriage do the needful some of us are dying within masturbation is not something that you will go out and be telling everyone sometimes we want to voice out but scared of how people will look at us.For me I guess writing it here will less the burden from my heart Nagode
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