I am thinking a person should mention his/ her own positive & negative behavior as it's going to help reduce marriage conflicts. e.g i am a jealous person, I have no anger control, but i am also fun to be with, crazy & simple personality... Also mention any underlying medical conditions i.e diabetic, Asthmatic, HTN, SCD etc...
gaskiya it's a welcoming idea
Seriously.
There are things couples don't discuss before marriage which could avert marital problems if they were discussed before marriage. Things like mental health (some people still find it funny when this is mentioned), libido, allergies, anger management, how hardworking or lazy one is, if one is extravagant, other medical conditions, etc.
Ina ma za a bada karfi da muhimmanci ga waɗannan ba wasu abubuwa marasa amfani ba
gaskiya Kam Allah ya bamu ikon ammfani da Shi
Amin ya Allah
it will help alot if both parties do open up gaskiya from there kaga/kinga idan ba irin march dinka/ki bane sai kowa yayi gaba.Amma kuma duda hakan still ana samun issues that's where our imperfection as Human comes in haka Allah yayi dan adam. Allah ya sassautamana Amin.
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