Why is it that working class guys like me only meet idle ladies
Anonymous Nov 10, 10:13 PM

Why is it that working class guys like me only meet idle ladies 0

I find it hard to understand why ladies that don't work or do business or have money wants to get married? how will they help the husband in the home?? I will rather marry a good lady who is hardworking and ambitious
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Amsal100 Nov 11, 09:31 PM
that's why know marriage collapse because of this hardworking ambitious girl if you are a man carry oll the burden that's how real men are we don't need sisi from them
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Anonymous Nov 11, 09:37 PM

ok real men slave away for their wives right?? enjoy your version of real men and live from hand to mouth. No rich man I repeat will rate the likes of you. Enjoy ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Reerah Nov 11, 11:04 PM
itโ€™s choice though itโ€™s not ok
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BabyG Nov 12, 12:21 AM

even Allah himself never said women should go out there and work for their men or to share responsibilities, men are instructed to provide for their family, food, clothing, hospital and everything she needs....... in Banda zamani dayazo da chanjin rayuwa iyayen mu na da nawa ke fita aiki ko yin business? kuna so a rinka girmama ku Amma baku son responsibilities, mazan da qasqanci ne ma ace sun Gaza wajen yiwa iyalan su hidima.lemme tell you wat u don't knw, even if a woman works, ra'ayin ta ne ta taimaka maka a wasu abubuwan na gida, Idan kuma bata ga dama ba babu wanda ya sata dole cuz ba hurumin ta bane. Allah ya dora muku responsibility na iyalan ku, so it's left for you to do it d best way u can if not Allah saiya kama ka da hakkin su kanka.
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Anonymous #1 Nov 12, 06:39 AM
As a lady having your own money and spending it is sweet and self confidence attached to it but spending your husband money is sweeter๐Ÿ˜‚ but that doesnโ€™t mean i wonโ€™t help him when need be. Like there are minor things you can help out in the house tho.
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Saudat Mansur Nov 12, 08:18 AM

pls wannan ba wani abu bane da zaku dinga arguing akai ba kowa yanada ra'ayi bakuma zaka canja Shi akan hakan ba,so better kowa ya zauna akan ra'ayinsa shiyasa hatta yatsun hannun mu ba daya bane Dan haka Hali,ra'ayi da fahimtarmu bazata taba zuwa daya ba ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Ayi hkr asha ruwan sanyi๐Ÿ™
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Anonymous Nov 12, 08:30 AM

the world has changed, change with it. help your spouses if you love them and you are not with them just because you are running from poverty
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BabyG Nov 12, 08:47 AM

Ai poverty ya kare a kanka tunda har kake neman mace ta taimaka maka a abinda yake hakkin a gareka, if u no fit take care of ur wife simply no marry, Allah yayi umarni da Abu Amma kace poverty, tsakanin ni dakai wake nuna harkar Tsiya a nan? ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I'm a working class girl with over 8yrs working experience, but I'll never be with a man with ur kinda mentality, a capitalist, ga mataccen zuciya. in Banda tsiya Ina zaka zauna kana neman mace ta dauki nauyin da Allah ya dora maka? kuma ka fito fili kana magana ba kunya ba tsoron Allah๐Ÿ˜‚ oga ur not Man enough Abeg, but shaa!!! Allah ya hada ka da wacce zata iya daukar wannan shirmen. but please, ka rinka sanin abinda zaka fada, it's ok if u want a working class girl dat will share ur responsibilities 50/50 zamani ne yazo da haka, wasu matan sun Riga sun kashe ma Irin ku zuciya, but stop saying it as if it's a crime or a taboo for a girl not to be working. Namijin kwarai shi yake daukar nauyin gidan sa saboda yasan haka Allah ya umarce shi yayi kuma yasan Allah zai tambaye shi a Ranar gobe qiyama.
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BabyG Nov 12, 08:55 AM

Ah Toh ๐Ÿ˜‚ Wllh wasu matan su suka jawo irin baka, Kuma daga karshe Abin yazo ya dame su, ni kinga Ina aiki for over 8yrs Amma Wllh Duk namijin danaga yana da irin wannan mentality din Toh ban bata lokaci kan sa, irin su ne Idan ka aura Saidai ki ciyar dashi da yaran da Zuku aifa, ni ban kyashin kashe kudi na ko bakayi magana ba zan iya yin abubuwa a gidan saboda ni mace ce ba mai son tambaya ba, ko a gida banayi. Amma mutuwar zuciya ce ban so๐Ÿ˜‚ dan ni Duk me irin wannan tunanin shirme nake daukar sa, I want a man that'll take care of me not the other way round Abeg๐Ÿ˜‚
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Anonymous Nov 12, 09:14 AM

lmao ๐Ÿคฃ, I feel your pain. God has commanded the man to take care of your jobless sef bah, i hope when the 2nd 3rd and 4th wife comes i hope you'll remember God
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Safiyah Ahmad Nov 12, 09:22 AM

Now, i can understand why no woman is ready to settle down with you, you seem to be a very toxic person that has no respect for the opinions of people, you are narrow minded. why will you respond to her this way? ask yourself that to start solving your problem
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BabyG Nov 12, 09:23 AM

and it baffles me how you can't even read through the lines ๐Ÿ˜‚ Kai taka matsalar ma ta wuce tunani๐Ÿ˜‚ pls go back nd re-read my comment, you wouldn't have made this comment trust me๐Ÿคฃ Allah ya kyauta dai, Allah ya baka brain din tunani da kyau. I rest my case here cuz you're not even worth my time๐Ÿ˜‚ stay blessed brother ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ
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Safiyah Ahmad Nov 12, 09:25 AM

Sister don't mind him, we all understand why he is not able to find anyone its because of this narrow mind and lack of basic regards for the opinion of others. He thinks only his opinions is correct, only a narrow minded person thinks like that and says harsh words to others that disagree with him Poster we are here to help you, change your approach.
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Aminarh Abdullahi Nov 12, 09:41 AM
dude are you ohkay????? there are some guys out there that wants a house lady and there are some that want a working class and there are some that don't care at all kawai find your pick and stop judging others
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Anonymous Nov 12, 10:08 AM
Anonymous Nov 12, 10:23 AM
A lot of you canโ€™t comprehend and Iโ€™m not even sorry for saying this, the world has change and somethings are now fact; our wants has increased, the quality of life we want has increased, you want to send kids to private uni or outside the country, good cars, expensive trips but also money is hard to come buy, two heads are better than one is all i said,for ladies twisting it and saying I told them to share bills 50/50, I never said that, some of you canโ€™t even bail out your husband if he gets broke, how do you hope to be a partner if all you do is expect him to provide even an ordinary pin, this is not being toxic, this is just how i grew up and people around me too. women say my money is my money but my husband own is our money, but you, yes you, you donโ€™t even have, so if tomorrow he decides to leave you or something goes wrong then youโ€™ll start from zero?? Iโ€™m not toxic if you know me and I make money maybe not a billionaire but at least a millionaire ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚, but it would be nice to see my daughter learn something from her mother and see that her worth is not dependent on me or any man. Thanks ๐Ÿ˜Š
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Ummi1 Nov 12, 06:50 PM

see that is how I meet one broke ass nigga that ask me for money, imagine he wants to marry me,but still telling me after marriage I will have to look for work am already working (online business at home) but this same dude that I spend on want me to go under the sun and work which is so crazy
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Ummi1 Nov 12, 06:52 PM

the werey no fit do carry him children responsibility
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