Yesterday my girlfriend asked me to take her out for eid. I asked where she'll like to go to and she mentioned a certain place we visited last year. It wasn't really memorable due to the noise, the food wasn't delicious and it was expensive, and we are not familiar with like 80 percent of the food there as it's mostly frequented by foreigners. I calmly told her we can't go there, we'll just be going there to waste money ontop food that we don't even like
, she was the one that complained the most last time we went. I suggested another place which we both liked but she declined it, saying what's my business with the food that I don't like, I should eat from home and she'll be the one to eat there not me. If she had pleaded that that's where she wanted to go I'll have gone there to please her against my discomfort. But the way she made it as if she's giving me an order where I don't have a choice made me decline her choice. Since then she's stopped talking to me. What's my offense in this?
bro act as the head plz. you should have consider her choice but acting so rude isn't acceptable.
If you read the post you'll see where I said I would have gone there but the way she took it. You don't want to go to a place and the person insisting knows you don't like the place, there's a way you approach the person but not by forcing the person. What's worse, now if I did such to please, she's a type of person that can wake up tomorrow and say what have ever done for me? Last time I tried to please her, the response I got in the aftermath was I didn't send you, if you are doing it to make me happy and not for yourself then don't. There are times you need to say no as a man. It's not everytime they'll you to do this and your answer will be yes.
My brother this is a red flag that she didn't love u the way u love her if too say she love u whole heartedly definitely she will try and make u happy so that another woman will not snatch u cause she know u haven't married her and can change her at any time give her time if she didn't call or text you in one week l swear she didn't love you 🙂 cause Through love requires patient
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RED FLAG, ignore her for a couple and days too
yes bro
na rush I dey rush to comment.
I don vex be dat oo
it's been 6 months now since I have as little as 10 minutes physical chats with my beb. she never ask for meetup and I hardly meet her ones in a month.
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why
is her Name Aisha ?
That's not your Beb guy
cos you can't meet her since you're not engage and I asked wether I should make it official like send my folks to ask so dat at least our relationship should be valid.
har sister told me am I ready ??
even if I am ready their papa wants them to study so dat in future they could at least be independent.. I was like what😱😱
I think na audio love be dat, I don enter 1 chance.
no matter what level of your ur child is, just pray for her to get supportive, lovely and religious husband if not she don die be dat. even if she be professor
som dey reject good mens yrs back but now regretting bcos men no dey come any more
wetin she be bro
taking her out in first place is the offense you made.
Why did you ask such a question?
oops sorry
but why not meet her dad and ask for his permission I think that will be better and you will know what is happening whether her sister is saying the right thing or rather they are lying to you
yes that's a nice suggestions
I'll do that asap
great 👍🏻 wish you best of luck
His queen 👑😄
naam
hope the king is treating you like a precious diamond. thanks for your concern
Well a because I Met A lot of Aisha with this Type Of Attitude. now am Allergic to Aisha. Lols, 😂. I know am Just Unlucky
hoping the king will soon be available but for now the king is not available. your welcome
Ayya! may he be directed to ur home very soon
may he be lovely, supportive, caring, religious and someone that can spoil u with pure love Ameen😂
may you never forget to reserve my takeaway on your wedding day😂
I'm currently battling with one here
They aren't easy-going-type at all..they lack human sympathy 😡
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