Eid Palava
Relationship
Anonymous Mar 31, 01:35 PM

Eid Palava 1

Yesterday my girlfriend asked me to take her out for eid. I asked where she'll like to go to and she mentioned a certain place we visited last year. It wasn't really memorable due to the noise, the food wasn't delicious and it was expensive, and we are not familiar with like 80 percent of the food there as it's mostly frequented by foreigners. I calmly told her we can't go there, we'll just be going there to waste money ontop food that we don't even like , she was the one that complained the most last time we went. I suggested another place which we both liked but she declined it, saying what's my business with the food that I don't like, I should eat from home and she'll be the one to eat there not me. If she had pleaded that that's where she wanted to go I'll have gone there to please her against my discomfort. But the way she made it as if she's giving me an order where I don't have a choice made me decline her choice. Since then she's stopped talking to me. What's my offense in this?
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Mar 31, 03:17 PM
bro act as the head plz. you should have consider her choice but acting so rude isn't acceptable.
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Anonymous Mar 31, 03:40 PM

If you read the post you'll see where I said I would have gone there but the way she took it. You don't want to go to a place and the person insisting knows you don't like the place, there's a way you approach the person but not by forcing the person. What's worse, now if I did such to please, she's a type of person that can wake up tomorrow and say what have ever done for me? Last time I tried to please her, the response I got in the aftermath was I didn't send you, if you are doing it to make me happy and not for yourself then don't. There are times you need to say no as a man. It's not everytime they'll you to do this and your answer will be yes.
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Anonymous #4 Mar 31, 03:55 PM

My brother this is a red flag that she didn't love u the way u love her if too say she love u whole heartedly definitely she will try and make u happy so that another woman will not snatch u cause she know u haven't married her and can change her at any time give her time if she didn't call or text you in one week l swear she didn't love you 🙂 cause Through love requires patient
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Anonymous #5 Mar 31, 04:24 PM
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Anonymous #6 Mar 31, 05:50 PM
RED FLAG, ignore her for a couple and days too
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Anonymous #1 Mar 31, 09:18 PM
it's been 6 months now since I have as little as 10 minutes physical chats with my beb. she never ask for meetup and I hardly meet her ones in a month.
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His queeen Mar 31, 11:40 PM
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Anonymous #1 Apr 1, 06:27 AM

cos you can't meet her since you're not engage and I asked wether I should make it official like send my folks to ask so dat at least our relationship should be valid. har sister told me am I ready ?? even if I am ready their papa wants them to study so dat in future they could at least be independent.. I was like what😱😱 I think na audio love be dat, I don enter 1 chance. no matter what level of your ur child is, just pray for her to get supportive, lovely and religious husband if not she don die be dat. even if she be professor som dey reject good mens yrs back but now regretting bcos men no dey come any more
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Anonymous #1 Apr 1, 06:29 AM

wetin she be bro
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Abubakar Usman Apr 1, 12:29 PM
taking her out in first place is the offense you made.
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Anonymous #3 Apr 1, 01:46 PM

Why did you ask such a question?
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His queeen Apr 3, 07:44 PM

oops sorry but why not meet her dad and ask for his permission I think that will be better and you will know what is happening whether her sister is saying the right thing or rather they are lying to you
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His queeen Apr 4, 10:37 AM

great 👍🏻 wish you best of luck
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Anonymous #1 Apr 4, 03:18 PM

His queen 👑😄
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His queeen Apr 4, 07:26 PM

naam
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Anonymous #1 Apr 4, 08:49 PM

hope the king is treating you like a precious diamond. thanks for your concern
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Anonymous #2 Apr 5, 10:04 AM

Well a because I Met A lot of Aisha with this Type Of Attitude. now am Allergic to Aisha. Lols, 😂. I know am Just Unlucky
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His queeen Apr 5, 12:05 PM

hoping the king will soon be available but for now the king is not available. your welcome
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Anonymous #1 Apr 5, 10:50 PM

Ayya! may he be directed to ur home very soon may he be lovely, supportive, caring, religious and someone that can spoil u with pure love Ameen😂 may you never forget to reserve my takeaway on your wedding day😂
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Anonymous #3 Apr 6, 07:26 AM

I'm currently battling with one here They aren't easy-going-type at all..they lack human sympathy 😡
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Nana Fatima ALIYU Apr 9, 06:46 PM
I'm the only person that no get eid date abi.
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