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Anonymous

Oct 13, 06:07 AM

my expectations in relationships & why do women get so emotional?

I don't know if this is a question or a rant but once you get into relationships, women get so emotional and start expecting somethings and i am not naturally like that. I started dating this girl 2 month back and i just could not cope. If i tell her i am travelling she will call me like 4 times at different internals asking me i have eaten ( i really don't want anyone to ask me if i have eaten ) really and some other too emotional and cringing questions. I don't really like it and also they expect you to call everyday, like why? I am not an emotional person and i don't just like these behavior of constantly talking or asking some emotional questions or telling someone "I love you" i really can't I am a type of person that like to discuss serious or intellectual things and if something is necessary i will do it, lastly i told her i can't cope with that. can't you have a relationship with someone where you just support each other genuinely without too much emotions beings exchanged.

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Zash

Oct 16, 06:24 PM

so u left her because she is caring and all? i also don’t like dating guys like you that are emotionless and unromantic

Anonymous

Oct 17, 12:21 PM

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Yes i understand. i was just kidding really. Ameen wish you All the best

Anonymous #1

Oct 20, 08:45 PM

Sure.. But yiu have to define that kinda relationship b4 it get too far.. Be a man or woman, expection in a true relationship is normal but it must be definate.

Abdulmajeed A

Oct 20, 08:48 PM

Ameerahh Oct 13, 09:26 AM

let me tell you first, there’s this book called ‘the five love languages by Gary Chapman’ I think you should read it....secondly, let’s not lie, constant reassurance in a relationship is sweet[...] let me tell you first, there’s this book called ‘the five love languages by Gary Chapman’ I think you should read it....secondly, let’s not lie, constant reassurance in a relationship is sweet...she’s just trying to show you that she care...but one thing I know is that too much of it is exhausting especially if that’s the only thing you talk about.. take me for example, in a relationship, I want to know the person I’m dating and not just romantically but intellectually as well, I love having deep conversations with people...then I suggest you should communicate and let that person know the kind of person you are...and you should be the one to initiate such conversations before she gets used to it...you’re welcome💙

Absolutely!

Ameerahh

Oct 20, 08:58 PM

Anonymous Oct 13, 02:15 PM

I understand, its not just that her, all of the ladies i have engaged with are like that, Daily calls Love text ETC I am serious person, straight forward I will rather discuss educational or chal[...] I understand, its not just that her, all of the ladies i have engaged with are like that, Daily calls Love text ETC I am serious person, straight forward I will rather discuss educational or challenges topics with someone than just be exchanging some corny emotional phrases that really add no value to neither me nor her.

I understand where you're going, but let's be honest, I don't mean it has to be always...no, me for example, just because I love having deep meaningful intellectual conversations with a person doesn't mean I don't want some reassurance, tell me you love me, if you're thinking of me let me know, if something reminds you of me tell me, ba wai kullum muyi ta having intellectual conversations ba without romance in it, time to time let's flirt each other, Ko Manzon Allah (SAW) muka yi koyi dashi zamu ji dadi, rayuwar aurenshi akwae annashuwa da jin dadi, why?? because he's romantic...ni I'll lose interest in you ma if you're not romantic enough...Haba! rayuwar aure fa xamu yi...we need to connect not just in life but in love

Huzaifa Adamu muhammad

Oct 22, 10:01 PM

guy she is caring and must of the guys nowadays love someone dat is caring my advice to you is pls be patient and you will enjoy been with her inshaallah

Anonymous #2

Oct 22, 10:12 PM

Anonymous Oct 13, 02:10 PM

Yes I am, she is actually a good person to be honest, but i don't like the too much attachment she is dragging me into, she calls everyday and if i don't she will ask why. sometimes i just want a br[...] Yes I am, she is actually a good person to be honest, but i don't like the too much attachment she is dragging me into, she calls everyday and if i don't she will ask why. sometimes i just want a break irin 1 - 2 days haka. but ita kullun ai ta magana ana wasu emotional abubuwa i don't like it and she is not the only even other women i've dated have those traits. I am naturally not like that, it makes me uncomfortable really. As most of you have commented, mentioning ladies are naturally like that and see it as care and affection, then marriage is not for me gaskiya because i know i can't do all that genuinely and i will not fake it. I have given up on relationships. i believe there is alot to do in this world though and so much to accomplish and learn. I will just continue to live in my 2 bedroom apartment :-)

am lady but I don't like too much emotional talks bt it's mostly seen as uncaring attitude so yeah I like talking business,comedy nd discoveries yes we exist

Anonymous #3

Oct 23, 12:42 PM

Anonymous Oct 13, 02:15 PM

some men will now be asking y am not nice cause I don't do daily calls and all dose swt talk toh thank God I'm not the only one who feels d same way inshot I don't have time for all dos just intelligent discussion is my love language as a lady

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