WHY IS IT DIFFICULT TO FIND A WIFE?! (SEARCHING FOR ONE ANYWAY)

I mean there are a lot of girls and women out there, everywhere, of all sizes, shapes, color, and physical beauty, but to find the one that is worthy of making a wife (as in a wife material) is very difficult. A lot are nothing to write home about. And this is not a case of incompatibility (in terms of education, tribe, religion, or social and financial status, etc), it's a case of good character, good personality, morality, and good manners. I'm not talking about perfection, but at least average, one that realistically any decent human can manage. To add to that, some are simply not serious about the whole thing and some have unrealistic and ridiculous standards, expectations, and views to start the journey with. The whole thing is frustrating. Nonetheless, if you're a female and in Kaduna or you're anyone and know a decent good sensible girl in Kaduna that is serious, actually wants and is ready to get married, takes marriage as something that is not just an escape or an avenue for fun and romance but something serious and sacred, and wants to do everything decently and by the Islamic book, kindly indicate. Age rage should be 18–23. Thank you.