Anonymous
Jun 30, 09:55 AM
(RANT)How do you handle being in a relationship with an introverted girl?
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I met this girl over a year ago , at first she was extremely quiet ,so I thought maybe it's because we haven't known each other for long. As times goes on I realized it's really hard getting her to talk and sometimes its stressful ๐ฌ She'll never tell you about herself until you force her, when chatting its worst , it'll be like interview. If I don't ask she won't talk , and if I ask it's short short replies. I've talked to her about it repeatedly. If I ask her how was your day ,it's not only fine that I want to hear,I want to hear her talk about her day went, things she did ,and all those interesting stuff . Ive talked to her but still no changes . To be honest sometimes I prefer talking to other people or going off to Facebook to read comments than having a conversation with my girlfriend.
There is no question or iota of doubt that she loves me ,if she doesnt hear from me for some hours she'll always call to check up on me and does all those things lovers do ,she always messages me good morning before I wake up but once she does that ,the conversation is finished on her part and it's is really stressing me out .
I've tried everything I can to change it but I can't .
Last night was the last straw for me , she told me she'll be traveling to see her relatives yesterday. After telling her about my day ,I was expecting her to also tell me about hers not until I asked her ,even when I did asked her ,all she gave me was fine , how is everyone at home ? Fine ? I told her about my day without she asking me for it ,and how I got called in to work due to an emergency,all I got was ok . I've tried to make conversation but it always ends with ok . Then she just slept off without good night or anything even though she knows I want to talk to her.
Once again I'm reiterating that she loves me hundred percent I have no doubt about that,she trusts me and we didn't have any issues . But this is just her nature , talking to a robot is even more interesting. Atleast it'll ask you back .
This morning I've made up my mind that I'm going to start keeping the conversation in tandem with hers . Once I greet and she replies that's the end of the conversation for me too . Abun da ke ci min rai shine ,if I do that she'll message after like 20 mins asking why I'm quiet ๐
