till this day i still regret and feel ashamed of something i did since during my university days (4years yanzu). i fear kuma it doesn't happen to my daughter or close relative. i actually drug raped a girl and left her unconscious kuma nayi threatening dinta not to tell or i will publicize her nude pix. tsakani da Allah nayi regretting kuma i wish i can see her and deeply apologize to her i dont know what got into me that day amma yanzu i am a changed person. i can try finding her through Facebook do you think i should send her an apology message i really want her to forgive me kuma ina so in bata hakuri kuma Allah ya yafe min or what is the best way i can achieve this? please don't judge me but advise me
Walh if i were you,i will do everything in my power to look for that girl and deeply apologize to her,infact i will cry like a baby until she forgive me,Subhanallah what you did was truly painful and hard to take,but we are all humans and to "Err is Human and to forgive is Divine" Please brother make sure she forgives you,May the Almighty forgive us All...Ameen
Eyyah, dear u did something very very bad, dats y Allah(SWA) ya haramta mana shaye shaye, cox mutum ya fita a hankalinshi ya aikata laifukan da zezo yana regretting, but its nt too late, u shld pls do istigfar, and pls find her, apologize and if possible marry her
Try finding her my brother, but if u couldn't, don't despair from asking for forgiveness from Allah. Allah (SWT) said: "oh you people who have cheated themselves (by commenting numerous sins) do not despair from the rahma(blessings) of Allah, verily HE (Allah) forgives all sins for HE is the most forgiving, the merciful!!
Ameen. I also suggest he does everything in his power to look for her physically and apologize. only God knows the psychological pain he has cursed her just sending her a message on social media for such a big thing is not enough to me.
Masha Allah the best of human is someone who does wrong nd try to correct it. Allah yasa kaganta, kayawaita istigfar insha Allah God will forgive u. here is a piece of advice fr us all shiyasa Allah yaharamta muyagun ayyuka kuma yace kada mu kusanci zina don haka shaye shaye da duk wasu dabi'u marasa kyau hanyace da zaikai mutum ga zina pls mukiyaye
Assalam dear poster...First I'll say to you congratulations
This is because for you to have feel this regret then it means Allah yana sonka da rahma sabida shi haqqi na mutum Allah baya yafewa sai idan shi mutum ya yafeh
Find her
Apologize sincerely and seek for forgiveness from Allah the almighty
Sai dai that fear of not wanting something similar done to ur sister or daughter..You should know that the prophet Muhammad(SAW) said whomever transgresses his lines on any female should bear in mind that the circle will one day fall on him too
But then Allah is oft forgiving.. So find her n if possible marry her
Better try your best to obtain her forgiveness ko kuma you will be in a big trouble in the hereafter.
Thank you guys for the replies. i was able to get her on whatsapp through an old friend. i wrote a long apology to her then she read and said "she will never forgive me that i must face the punishment of what i did Allah must punish me, i am evil". i started begging her, before i knew it she blocked me. yanzu hankali na ya tashi tun jiya wallahi am deeply sorry i dont know what to do this is my biggest regret in life i don't know if i can get help on what do next or any du'a i can use to make resolve this, can Allah forgive me if i turn to him? please help me i am very worried and scared of what will happen to me if i die with this and i can't discuss this with anyone except here.
Allah will forgive you as long as you turn to him if it is between you n him.
But do u think forgiving you will be easy u r her worse nightmare . And u can't never ever return what u have taken away from her . Try n marry her if she will agree is not easy to forgive u. Is going to be very hard
i will never forgive the man that did similar to me on till i stand before Allah and report him again and he ask for forgiveness before Allah and that is when i know he mean it.
Inallilahi 😭
this reminds me of something painful
Look for her and continue making istigfar and sadaqa.
ayya sorry sis
May Allah forgive us all
marry he won't agree
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