Mar 13, 10:57 AM

I am a male, mid 30s but finding it hard to find a compatible partner

For the past 5 years, it has been a challenge to find the right partner for myself, I am a childfree person and believe in the childfree lifestyle, I met a few ladies along the way but it didn't workout for some reasons, its very rare to come across a lady that shares the same believe as me, hence the reason i am still not Married, Childfree people are so scarce in our society, For those that can relate.. lets discuss

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Mar 14, 05:54 PM
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Mar 15, 12:13 AM
Anonymous Mar 14, 11:56 AM
Exactly, what bugs me is the taboo and how people look at you abnormal for that, I think more people should speak up so childfree people can be confident and find themselves easily, cuz finding a part[...] Exactly, what bugs me is the taboo and how people look at you abnormal for that, I think more people should speak up so childfree people can be confident and find themselves easily, cuz finding a partner is hard as many people who feel that are uncomfortable to speak up. I'm a type of person that doesn't like too much unnecessary stress as the world is now turning into something else and having kids is irreversible.
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Alot of people are childfree just that when ever you try to speak up, the whole society will be against you ... most a times i tried to express myself sai a dunga maka wani irin kallo🤦‍♀️ Just recently i broke up with my love one over this just bcuz i insists on not having a child 🙃 i even gave him the chance of bringing a co wife sai ta haifa masa yace Ah ah 🤧
Mar 15, 10:00 AM
I think this is not a big deal,bawani abin tashin hankali bane,akwai mata wanda basa iya haihuwa at all I mean barren women out there you can get one kawai kutaumaki juna and get married, I think that's the best solution to ur problem.
Mar 15, 11:11 AM
ya Allahu ya Arrahmanu..Allah mai halitta
Mar 15, 12:28 PM
Toh kaii mallam ba’a haihuwa aka haife ka?
Apr 15, 10:01 PM
Hello, have you found someone? If yes, Allah ya bada zaman lafiya and if not, reply on my comment
Apr 16, 04:33 PM
Mrs Ibrahim Garba Mar 15, 12:28 PM

Toh kaii mallam ba’a haihuwa aka haife ka?

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Your questionn does not make sense. re-think it
Apr 16, 04:33 PM
Anonymous #2 Apr 15, 10:01 PM

Hello, have you found someone? If yes, Allah ya bada zaman lafiya and if not, reply on my comment

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are you also childfree?
Jul 20, 02:43 AM
Hey Mr anonymous !! Have you find the child free or youre yet to ??🌚
Jul 20, 08:42 AM
Reina Jul 20, 02:43 AM

Hey Mr anonymous !! Have you find the child free or youre yet to ??🌚

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i am yet to
Jul 27, 03:12 AM
Anonymous Jul 20, 08:42 AM

i am yet to

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okay there here i am , am also a child free person and am finding difficult explaining myself in the society we live in 😒
Jul 29, 09:59 AM
Reina Jul 27, 03:12 AM

okay there here i am , am also a child free person and am finding difficult explaining myself in the society we live in 😒

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Yes, people think you are weird for not wanting children, anyway.. i am already used to it. just keep yourself busy and change your perspective of life, that will take you a long way.
Aug 15, 04:07 AM
Anonymous Jul 29, 09:59 AM

Yes, people think you are weird for not wanting children, anyway.. i am already used to it. just keep yourself busy and change your perspective of life, that will take you a long way.

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same here... i am also used to it now ive gotthen the confidence to express myself anywhere that this is what i want without me thinking twice , like let everyone goes for what he/she wants
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