I feel hopeless because I might marry a poor man
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Anonymous Apr 24, 03:42 AM

I feel hopeless because I might marry a poor man 1

I am not posting this for laughs. This is real, this is genuinely how I feel. So, all the men that approach me are not rich or even moderately financially stable. It is embarrassing that I only get attention from the likes of tailors, drivers, shop keepers and jobless men. This is not a good sign. By all indications, I might marry a poor man. God knows I dream of marrying a rich man who will spoil me and let me live life lavishly like a queen. I want to travel the world and drive expensive cars, eat what I want, spend how I want and be free of all worries. The thought of not living this kind of life makes me cry myself to sleep. Can't a girls wishes come true? I am slowly falling into depression. Please pray for me.
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Nairobi Apr 24, 02:04 PM
U need to keep praying, use this holy month, pray like never before always wake up around 2am and pray if possible pray in the night for the whole 30days insha Allah ur dreams will come true..nothing is impossible!!
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Ayesha audu Apr 24, 04:22 PM
Sister, you should not always depend on a man to fullfill your dream also put in mind that you can't always get what you wish for in life. So i think you can work hard and through business, enteprenuship or a good Job. atleast you can be able to afford some part of your dream by yourself. Don't be depressed please. stay strong.
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Sadiqu Uba Apr 24, 09:47 PM
I don't knw if u r muslim or not. First knw that riches comes from Allah. You can marry a rich guy, after your marriage then he become poor, or marrying poor and later become rich. So put in your mind that riches is from Allah. Just look for god fearing and the one with what to do. The one that will make you happy. Secondly you tell yourself not every dream comes true. Allah knows the best for everyone amd he gives best to everyone. Lastly know marriage Is not business affairs, company contract or something like money exchange... No, Marriage is part of obedience of Allah. Don't attach your dream to your partner. Work for your dream. Travel around the world with your own money
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AMEER Apr 28, 01:26 PM
Am going to tell you only one think That is work for the money your self don’t depend on a man they are thousands girls outside for are not a millionaire without selling their body who disobeying Allah
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Suhail Abdulsalam May 20, 11:41 AM
My sister, you really get it wrong, marrying a poor man doesn't mean anything, it's not how far, but how well. Allow God Almighty to choose for you, don't choose for yourself, continue praying, anyone that God chooses for you let him be the best here and hereafter
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Hatty May 23, 12:46 AM
Dear Sister. You sound quite young and naive. Don't depend on anyone in this life for your joy, comfort or happiness. If you do, you will (god forbid) regret it. Build yourself and work hard then you can get comfortable on your own terms. But if you insist, how about upgrading your fashion/behaviour/getup and social circle to fit those that you want to marry. Remember every social class in society have their own bubble. Try and get to know people in a similar environment. There are many resources on the web for that but remember this is not the best option its better to depend on your self. Best of luck
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Anonymous #1 May 31, 12:47 PM
Have you also considered working to make your own money rather than waiting for a man? You have the same potential like anybody else to generate wealth.
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Bibi Dec 6, 01:47 AM
From your post, I don't know if you're a Muslim,but if you're I think there's a problem with your aqeedah and mindset totally. One of the reasons why qadr is part of articles of faith is to protect us muslims from depression. Cuz too much worry of what you can't control is what leads to depression. And I also think you're not being optimistic with Allah enough, that's why you're having those thoughts. You see he created you and he knows what's best for you, he loves you more than you love yourself, so know that he won't let anything harmful come your way. But you also have to trust him so that he won't let you down, and he will continue to test you to see your level of trust in him. So the moment you waver in an aspect, he can let go of you just to see how you'll manage your affairs by yourself. Pray for the best always and have full trust in your lord. ALLAH always want that little hope and belief you have in him. 2ndly your perception of happiness and enjoyment is also a problem. Don't you believe in jannah? don't you believe in having eternal happiness? Then why worry yourself into depression cuz of temporary happiness. The glitters of this world are just an illusion, try as much as possible not to get carried away, and whenever it comes to your mind, read about jannah and comfort yourself with that. Allah yasa adace
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