Dec 24, 12:39 PM

EXTREMELY SEEKING ADVIY😭😩😭😩

Assalamualaikum dear brothers and sisters of this platform as your muslim partner I need to advice me my heart is bleeding badly, I'm totally mix up I'm 20+ at time that I supposed to build my future, but something mysterious restricted me I'm student department of electrical engineering technology (EET) I'm so calm and good-looking guy and I'm a good Muslim practicing, I have a good relationship with anyone impact everyone respected even my friends, and obeying my parents sosai kullum suna saka min blessing then it just happened that I was very addicted with MASTURBATION (subhanallah), it's almost 3-4yrs matter, and I tried the best i can to help out but it doesn't work, and it begins to affect my whole life, I don't know what sin I commit da Allah ya jarrabe ni da wannan, And I pray a lot but nothing change😩 and the worst pact of the matter is even my parent are aware of it, but it worst than they know, I having a matsalar jinn and it's related to this problem, My parents oneday called Mai rukiyya ask the jinn inside me, ask them like this:(why are you forcing this boy committing sin) they said Wai suna sona ne and he tortured them badly at the end yayi warning nasu suka ce sun daina, and he prescribed many traditional medicine for me to use, alongside with prayers, and I performed exact he told me har na samu sauki sun Dan daina. and after a while they recently continued, and I'm feeling shyness nakara fadawa iyayena, it is not formal thing tell anyone, then i sought advice to our big brother and he show his concern upon me he said there no solution but to fast in order decrease my sex desire Amma tin kafin ya fada mun haka I have being fasting for years saboda na rage shaawa impact I get very starved, but the concern is, even it decreased idan abin ya dawo however I tried to stop my self they will come even in the dream suna samun shi arai, Sai duk shaawa ya dabaibayeni Ina reciting qur'an everyday Reading morning and evening athkar and I used to wake up during nighttime and pray, Amma wallahi sai dai na rage or even stop and daga baya kuma continued, how ever I tried to remove it in my mind wallahi sai sun saka munshi, kuma wallahi I'm afraid to affect my study and my brain, and whenever i remember that ko pregnant bazaka iya giving ba when you addicted, with this, kawai tears ne zasu rolling down my face, kuma wallahi abin mamaki I never committed to any romance relationship with any girl, impact i never looked any girl dasunan soyayya, bana ko ra'ayi let alone to say it happened because of my relationship with girls, wallahi kullum tinanin future nawa nake wannan matsalar is consequently destroying life take Yi, wallahi even my enemy I don't want to see within this condition, PLEASE I NEED EVEN YOU YOUR PRAYER IDAN BABU ADVICE, Allah ya tsare al'ummar musulni da irin wanna jarrabawa Ameen🤲😩😩😩

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Dec 25, 12:44 AM
bro since you are able to confront your parents with this issue. just ask them to arrange marriage for u
Dec 25, 02:30 PM
User -} Dec 25, 12:44 AM

bro since you are able to confront your parents with this issue. just ask them to arrange marriage for u

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Bro it's not possible At this stage, I'm studying, and despite of this I'm too young to get marriage
Dec 26, 12:25 AM
User -} Dec 25, 02:30 PM

Bro it's not possible At this stage, I'm studying, and despite of this I'm too young to get marriage

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ok
Dec 26, 09:58 AM
User -} Dec 25, 02:30 PM

Bro it's not possible At this stage, I'm studying, and despite of this I'm too young to get marriage

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what makes it impossible should study restrict your from worshipping Allah. marriage is also part of worshipping Allah you're too young to get marry but not young to be addicted with masturbation. bro your solution is to have a wife since you have high sex drive. I think I also have high sex drive to the extent that if I saw my bebs text , listen her voice or just thinking about her, I totally get out of my mind. but with prayer my body will reset. I'm 29 so just get married bro. and keep on praying and try as much as possible to not get into fornication plz fornication kills fornication invite poverty fornication destroy life Allah ya Hana mu aikata wannan aiki damu da family namu da abokan arzuki
Dec 26, 10:37 AM
User -} Dec 26, 09:58 AM
what makes it impossible should study restrict your from worshipping Allah. marriage is also part of worshipping Allah you're too young to get marry but not young to be addicted with masturbation. [...] what makes it impossible should study restrict your from worshipping Allah. marriage is also part of worshipping Allah you're too young to get marry but not young to be addicted with masturbation. bro your solution is to have a wife since you have high sex drive. I think I also have high sex drive to the extent that if I saw my bebs text , listen her voice or just thinking about her, I totally get out of my mind. but with prayer my body will reset. I'm 29 so just get married bro. and keep on praying and try as much as possible to not get into fornication plz fornication kills fornication invite poverty fornication destroy life Allah ya Hana mu aikata wannan aiki damu da family namu da abokan arzuki
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bro you have said it all I'm so satisfied with what you said I can't marry now but as you adviced I will put more effort inorder to get fired of this problem whenever it comes through my head I will do whatever it take to pray domin allah ya cire min wannan tunani uphead jazakhallahu khairan Muslim brother😀
Dec 27, 06:31 AM
User -} Dec 26, 10:37 AM
bro you have said it all I'm so satisfied with what you said I can't marry now but as you adviced I will put more effort inorder to get fired of this problem whenever it comes through my head I will [...] bro you have said it all I'm so satisfied with what you said I can't marry now but as you adviced I will put more effort inorder to get fired of this problem whenever it comes through my head I will do whatever it take to pray domin allah ya cire min wannan tunani uphead jazakhallahu khairan Muslim brother😀
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chill bro since you can't marry marry earlier enjoy your life earlier don't fear of responsibility anyway make keep my mouth shut before people start dragging me
Dec 27, 07:29 AM
User -} Dec 27, 06:31 AM

chill bro since you can't marry marry earlier enjoy your life earlier don't fear of responsibility anyway make keep my mouth shut before people start dragging me

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bro hope you too is married bcs only a married man deserve to say this, you say don't fear responsibility hhhh you go suffer
Dec 28, 06:47 AM
User -} Dec 27, 07:29 AM

bro hope you too is married bcs only a married man deserve to say this, you say don't fear responsibility hhhh you go suffer

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u go suffer when u no trust and believe Allah will assist you in one way or another if you truly wanna marriage for sake of Allah. and make sure you doing business or any halal source of income
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