I dated my Ex for about 4 years due to unavoidable circumstances we couldn't get married anma kowa yasan muna son Juna, Allah ne kawai ya kaddara ba mijina bane, yanzu i am married with 2 kids, and i just find out my younger sister is dating my Ex har ana shirin kawo gaisuwan Aure, nikuma ina ganin be dace ba tunda Ex dina ne, tunda akayi zancen mundena maganar arziki da sister na se fada, na rasa waze fahimtar dasu abunda nake nufi, wlh inna tuna raina mugun baci yake, nace Mata indai bata rabu dashi ba am not participating in her wedding,Dan Allah jamaa am i over reacting ?
gaskiya you are over reacting. even though zaki ji wani iri soboda ex dinki ne amma ai yanzu kun rabu you have a husband so your ex's business shouldn't bother you. he can date who he wants to same goes to your sister indai har suna san juna. that's all that matters. kawai dai you won't feel comfortable with them as a couple for a long time. ki hadiye abin kawai.
Yes over acting
its is normal to react this way. ba wai laifin sister dinki bane kawai hadda Ex dinki ai yasan sister dinki ce and he still proceeded with her. i dont know the main reason you are trying to stop the marriage,
1. is it because you have feelings for him?
2. is it because of some things you did in the past with him or what exactly?
please answer the above questions
anyway if there is nothing you can do about it its better you just accept it and take control of the situation not to affect you too much
Hmmmm.......ba haka ba nea....even if you are married for donkey years and you see your ex the feelings will come back ko ba duka ba zai da wo kadan....so it's not easy for her....the problem is from both the sister Nd d guy...the sister knew him ai....Nd d guy also knew that it's his ex sister....what if he is doing it to revenge....what if they meet when she visit her sister Nd she later meet with the husband shaidan ya shiga tsakanin su?? Think of all of that....its only reasonable elders that will be able to solve this problem....nd prayers...let's all remember marriage is a life time contract.....and they must surely be seeing each other in ba a'a gida ba gurun event Na family
Nidai i fear for the future, it seems you haven't gotten over him, if this marriage holds i think it'll be better if he takes his wife far away from you before shaitan misguides you, you are married and you have kids i believe you are happy, just focus all your energy and time on your family, if your sister's happiness lies with your ex then so be it, be happy for her and be the bigger person, you fighting her will never change her mind rather she'll be more determined.
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