I have noticed that these days everyone is commiting zina. I have few questions
for the men:
1. can you marry a lady that has committed zina before even if she has repented? assuming you're a virgin and you're in love with her
2. Can you marry a lady that was raped?
3. is virginity a priority to you, assuming the lady has every other thing you want in a spouse but she is not a virgin any more.
pls let's be sincere and civil about this conversation
thanks
yes I can married her, because she repented. every thing in this life goes with intention. even in Islam
2) I can marry her
3, virginity isn't my priority. but her character, Include knowledge both religion and western education, caring, communication, her patient, trust and others
what if the man is a virgin. if a man can stay away from zina all his life, then I think he deserves a woman that is a virgin too
I can't married a lady that committed zina intentionally even if she repented but I can married the one with the issue of rape because it was done out of her intention.as far as she has good behaviours & manner.
1. yes I can add long as the repentance is genuine and she hasn't gone back to the act.
2. yes I can too since she was used against her will or deciev
3. depends on how she lost it
what if you're a virgin yourself. will you still say this
nobody said otherwise
can we stop all this virginity of a thing and focus on the focus
hhhhh which one is focus on the focused
posting about virginity is getting too much in this app let focus on what is good for us
you just wrote what's on my mind. thank you
hakane kowai da abinda ya damishi.
but what is this good for us, example
rape issues yes but zinah big No
How our parents will be proud of us nd hw to make it to jannah
hakane is good to have someone like you as friend you can reshape our negative thoughts to positive
not everyone plsš
thank you at least let bring another topic zaifi gaskiya sbd naga abinda wasu Maza ke Fadi anan it annoying
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this one sweet me I like ur respond
really thank you. kowa na so ya ye playing he is saints the fact is 99.9% we are not pure. kowa na da negative attitude nashi
exactly that's the fact fa kowa na dashi Allah sa mu dace
Yes! virginity is very important. See comitting zina is a big sin. I feel like you disrespected your parents and your deen.
1) That is why, I'll never say never, but I can't marry someone that committed zina because she did it with consent and enjoyed it.
2) On the other hand, rape is different. She didn't commit it willingly. So yes I can marry a raped victim.
3) Yes, it is a priority honestly because if I stayed away from all temptations hoping to marry a virgin. Start, learn, first time experience together. Whereas the nonvirgin might not be patient with you (first time).
Don't get me wrong, it's not about the virginity here but I've heard a lady said if a girl has been with someone before, she'll always have that in her mind, she'll compare, and it might be good or bad. And also there is a bond chemical attachment possibility.
I somewhat agree with you in a way.
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