May 2, 01:11 PM

Is virginity important nowadays?

I have noticed that these days everyone is commiting zina. I have few questions for the men: 1. can you marry a lady that has committed zina before even if she has repented? assuming you're a virgin and you're in love with her 2. Can you marry a lady that was raped? 3. is virginity a priority to you, assuming the lady has every other thing you want in a spouse but she is not a virgin any more. pls let's be sincere and civil about this conversation thanks

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May 2, 01:37 PM
yes I can married her, because she repented. every thing in this life goes with intention. even in Islam 2) I can marry her 3, virginity isn't my priority. but her character, Include knowledge both religion and western education, caring, communication, her patient, trust and others
May 2, 02:39 PM
what if the man is a virgin. if a man can stay away from zina all his life, then I think he deserves a woman that is a virgin too
May 2, 02:50 PM
I can't married a lady that committed zina intentionally even if she repented but I can married the one with the issue of rape because it was done out of her intention.as far as she has good behaviours & manner.
May 2, 04:41 PM
1. yes I can add long as the repentance is genuine and she hasn't gone back to the act. 2. yes I can too since she was used against her will or deciev 3. depends on how she lost it
May 2, 04:43 PM
MuhammadS May 2, 04:41 PM

1. yes I can add long as the repentance is genuine and she hasn't gone back to the act. 2. yes I can too since she was used against her will or deciev 3. depends on how she lost it

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what if you're a virgin yourself. will you still say this
May 2, 04:48 PM
Iamaisha May 2, 04:43 PM

what if you're a virgin yourself. will you still say this

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nobody said otherwise
May 2, 04:59 PM
can we stop all this virginity of a thing and focus on the focus
May 2, 07:51 PM
Anonymous #2 May 2, 04:59 PM

can we stop all this virginity of a thing and focus on the focus

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hhhhh which one is focus on the focused
May 2, 09:17 PM
Anonymous #1 May 2, 07:51 PM

hhhhh which one is focus on the focused

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posting about virginity is getting too much in this app let focus on what is good for us
May 2, 10:48 PM
Muhammad najib May 2, 02:50 PM
I can't married a lady that committed zina intentionally even if she repented but I can married the one with the issue of rape because it was done out of her intention.as far as she has good behaviour[...] I can't married a lady that committed zina intentionally even if she repented but I can married the one with the issue of rape because it was done out of her intention.as far as she has good behaviours & manner.
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you just wrote what's on my mind. thank you
May 3, 01:24 AM
Anonymous #2 May 2, 09:17 PM

posting about virginity is getting too much in this app let focus on what is good for us

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hakane kowai da abinda ya damishi. but what is this good for us, example
May 3, 05:15 AM
rape issues yes but zinah big No
May 3, 07:01 AM
Anonymous #1 May 3, 01:24 AM

hakane kowai da abinda ya damishi. but what is this good for us, example

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How our parents will be proud of us nd hw to make it to jannah
May 3, 04:06 PM
Anonymous #2 May 3, 07:01 AM

How our parents will be proud of us nd hw to make it to jannah

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hakane is good to have someone like you as friend you can reshape our negative thoughts to positive
May 3, 04:17 PM
not everyone pls😊
May 3, 04:41 PM
Anonymous #1 May 3, 04:06 PM

hakane is good to have someone like you as friend you can reshape our negative thoughts to positive

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thank you at least let bring another topic zaifi gaskiya sbd naga abinda wasu Maza ke Fadi anan it annoying
May 3, 04:45 PM
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May 3, 05:20 PM
Anonymous #1 May 2, 01:37 PM
yes I can married her, because she repented. every thing in this life goes with intention. even in Islam 2) I can marry her 3, virginity isn't my priority. but her character, Include knowledge both r[...] yes I can married her, because she repented. every thing in this life goes with intention. even in Islam 2) I can marry her 3, virginity isn't my priority. but her character, Include knowledge both religion and western education, caring, communication, her patient, trust and others
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this one sweet me I like ur respond
May 3, 07:17 PM
Anonymous #4 May 3, 05:20 PM

this one sweet me I like ur respond

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really thank you. kowa na so ya ye playing he is saints the fact is 99.9% we are not pure. kowa na da negative attitude nashi
May 3, 09:18 PM
Anonymous #1 May 3, 07:17 PM

really thank you. kowa na so ya ye playing he is saints the fact is 99.9% we are not pure. kowa na da negative attitude nashi

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exactly that's the fact fa kowa na dashi Allah sa mu dace
May 4, 06:14 AM
Yes! virginity is very important. See comitting zina is a big sin. I feel like you disrespected your parents and your deen. 1) That is why, I'll never say never, but I can't marry someone that committed zina because she did it with consent and enjoyed it. 2) On the other hand, rape is different. She didn't commit it willingly. So yes I can marry a raped victim. 3) Yes, it is a priority honestly because if I stayed away from all temptations hoping to marry a virgin. Start, learn, first time experience together. Whereas the nonvirgin might not be patient with you (first time). Don't get me wrong, it's not about the virginity here but I've heard a lady said if a girl has been with someone before, she'll always have that in her mind, she'll compare, and it might be good or bad. And also there is a bond chemical attachment possibility.
May 29, 10:26 PM
Anonymous #5 May 4, 06:14 AM
Yes! virginity is very important. See comitting zina is a big sin. I feel like you disrespected your parents and your deen. 1) That is why, I'll never say never, but I can't marry someone that commi[...] Yes! virginity is very important. See comitting zina is a big sin. I feel like you disrespected your parents and your deen. 1) That is why, I'll never say never, but I can't marry someone that committed zina because she did it with consent and enjoyed it. 2) On the other hand, rape is different. She didn't commit it willingly. So yes I can marry a raped victim. 3) Yes, it is a priority honestly because if I stayed away from all temptations hoping to marry a virgin. Start, learn, first time experience together. Whereas the nonvirgin might not be patient with you (first time). Don't get me wrong, it's not about the virginity here but I've heard a lady said if a girl has been with someone before, she'll always have that in her mind, she'll compare, and it might be good or bad. And also there is a bond chemical attachment possibility.
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I somewhat agree with you in a way.
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