I am a male, mid 30s but finding it hard to find a compatible partner
Anonymous Mar 13, 10:57 AM

I am a male, mid 30s but finding it hard to find a compatible partner 0

For the past 5 years, it has been a challenge to find the right partner for myself, I am a childfree person and believe in the childfree lifestyle, I met a few ladies along the way but it didn't workout for some reasons, its very rare to come across a lady that shares the same believe as me, hence the reason i am still not Married, Childfree people are so scarce in our society, For those that can relate.. lets discuss
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MuhammadS Mar 13, 06:49 PM

sorry to burst your bubble sir but chances of you finding someone with such opinion is more than slim especially within the hausa tribe. I can't judge for other tribes Sha. except she's barren and can't bear children. many have the opinion of having a few 2 or 3, but zero is a large number when it comes to this
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Zainab sani kazaure Mar 13, 07:21 PM
hmmm inda ranka kasha kallo #speechless#Allah y hada ka d irin ra,ayin ka bros
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Saadiya idris umar Mar 13, 08:49 PM
kada Allah ya jarabeka da ciwon da sai an kula dakai kuma babu wanda zai kula dakai,wallahi poster ka kiyayi duniya .dama cewa kayi yara 2 ko 1 kakeso wannan ne
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Anonymous Mar 13, 10:06 PM

Just because many people are wishing or desperate to have kids is not a valid reason for me to also want to have, It doesn't matter how many people want to have kids, that is completely their wish and i have my own wish too, which is not children.
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Anonymous #1 Mar 13, 10:17 PM

I find this space too public. I'm not judgemental incase you're worried about your identity. we could exchange views and opinions or perhaps, consider ourselves pen pals. if you're up for it, feel free to email me. rhiterr@gmail.com
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Anonymous #4 Mar 13, 10:36 PM
Hey poster, can we share contacts, I want us to discuss
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Hauwa'u B Mar 13, 11:09 PM
Anonymous #5 Mar 14, 12:50 AM
Just try to marry a woman that has enough kids and she don't want kids more(widow/divorce) or a woman that can't conceive.
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Reina Mar 14, 02:47 AM
i guess youre not alone on this honestly bcuz ive been having the same thoughts as well , gaskiya ko ni inta son raina ne banson yara nd banson na haihu even thou anchea yara rahma ne amman ni inada nawa personal reasons din☺️i was even searching for someone like you years back amman bansamu ba so I decided to move on with my life
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Anonymous #2 Mar 14, 09:58 AM
honesty, I can relate. personally, I like kids but would’ve wanted to spend a good time just with my spouse. being able to travel freely, go have fun, get back home late etc. The moment we had a child, priorities changed and there are certain things we can’t do. I travel for work a lot and can’t go with my wife coz of his school. I like having a nice time at parks but we can’t because he’ll be running around and you’ve to keep an eye on him. I absolutely love him, and with what I know today, I would still have a child, some times, it’s just inconvenient putting a little person priority first.
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Anonymous Mar 14, 11:56 AM

Exactly, what bugs me is the taboo and how people look at you abnormal for that, I think more people should speak up so childfree people can be confident and find themselves easily, cuz finding a partner is hard as many people who feel that are uncomfortable to speak up. I'm a type of person that doesn't like too much unnecessary stress as the world is now turning into something else and having kids is irreversible.
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Anonymous #2 Mar 14, 02:13 PM

matsalan mutanen mu is that they're judgemental. ai duniya ra'ayi ce, kuma as long as ba sa6on Allah bane, everyone should stick to their guns. even people that give birth to kids without taking care of them would be criticizing. stay safe man, and I hope you find happiness
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Anonymous Mar 14, 02:40 PM
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Sit there and keep getting surprised
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Anonymous #6 Mar 14, 03:25 PM
i clearly understood u guy....children are hard limit for me too,i don't even know where to start.i seriously need a child free relationship
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Anonymous #1 Mar 14, 05:54 PM
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Reina Mar 15, 12:13 AM

Alot of people are childfree just that when ever you try to speak up, the whole society will be against you ... most a times i tried to express myself sai a dunga maka wani irin kallo🤦‍♀️ Just recently i broke up with my love one over this just bcuz i insists on not having a child 🙃 i even gave him the chance of bringing a co wife sai ta haifa masa yace Ah ah 🤧
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Halima Ibrahim Abdullahi Mar 15, 10:00 AM
I think this is not a big deal,bawani abin tashin hankali bane,akwai mata wanda basa iya haihuwa at all I mean barren women out there you can get one kawai kutaumaki juna and get married, I think that's the best solution to ur problem.
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Mss mayyam Mar 15, 11:11 AM
ya Allahu ya Arrahmanu..Allah mai halitta
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Mrs Ibrahim Garba Mar 15, 12:28 PM
Toh kaii mallam ba’a haihuwa aka haife ka?
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Anonymous #3 Apr 15, 10:01 PM
Hello, have you found someone? If yes, Allah ya bada zaman lafiya and if not, reply on my comment
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Anonymous Apr 16, 04:33 PM

Your questionn does not make sense. re-think it
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Reina Jul 20, 02:43 AM
Hey Mr anonymous !! Have you find the child free or youre yet to ??🌚
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