I am a male, mid 30s but finding it hard to find a compatible partner

😂😂😂 what if I'm not ready😂😂 zai iya yuwa suma ladies Inda ya hadu dasu before har abun beyi working out maybe they weren't ready suma

which one is child free again why did you dislike kids

would you like to discuss more? I know there's definitely substantial reasons behind your decision. If you're interested in discussing more, like this post and I'll drop my email so we can connect outside here.

man huwa childfree boss 🥲

unkule check urself again!! what is it dat u wnt, y dnt u want children? or should i say wat did u do dat mke u not to want dem. children re gifts dat God almighty bless us with, u myt be going through shtt nd one child will come with lots of blessings dat ill help u scale through. just sit down nd tynk well bout ur life do u really wanna end like dis or not

izzatly my thoughts, or is there something oga is hiding?

sorry to burst your bubble sir but chances of you finding someone with such opinion is more than slim especially within the hausa tribe. I can't judge for other tribes Sha. except she's barren and can't bear children. many have the opinion of having a few 2 or 3, but zero is a large number when it comes to this

hmmm inda ranka kasha kallo #speechless#Allah y hada ka d irin ra,ayin ka bros

kada Allah ya jarabeka da ciwon da sai an kula dakai kuma babu wanda zai kula dakai,wallahi poster ka kiyayi duniya .dama cewa kayi yara 2 ko 1 kakeso wannan ne

haha 🤣🤣 wallahi kuwa

yeah sure

Just because many people are wishing or desperate to have kids is not a valid reason for me to also want to have, It doesn't matter how many people want to have kids, that is completely their wish and i have my own wish too, which is not children.

Yes, i am open to discussions here in the Forum.

I find this space too public. I'm not judgemental incase you're worried about your identity. we could exchange views and opinions or perhaps, consider ourselves pen pals. if you're up for it, feel free to email me. rhiterr@gmail.com

Hey poster, can we share contacts, I want us to discuss

lol ai mr anonymous kayi nisa baka jin kira, duk wani bayani iska ne a gun ka.... Allah yayi mana jagora. Ma'assalam

Just try to marry a woman that has enough kids and she don't want kids more(widow/divorce) or a woman that can't conceive.

i guess youre not alone on this honestly bcuz ive been having the same thoughts as well , gaskiya ko ni inta son raina ne banson yara nd banson na haihu even thou anchea yara rahma ne amman ni inada nawa personal reasons din☺️i was even searching for someone like you years back amman bansamu ba so I decided to move on with my life

honesty, I can relate. personally, I like kids but would’ve wanted to spend a good time just with my spouse. being able to travel freely, go have fun, get back home late etc. The moment we had a child, priorities changed and there are certain things we can’t do. I travel for work a lot and can’t go with my wife coz of his school. I like having a nice time at parks but we can’t because he’ll be running around and you’ve to keep an eye on him. I absolutely love him, and with what I know today, I would still have a child, some times, it’s just inconvenient putting a little person priority first.

Alright, sure

Exactly, what bugs me is the taboo and how people look at you abnormal for that, I think more people should speak up so childfree people can be confident and find themselves easily, cuz finding a partner is hard as many people who feel that are uncomfortable to speak up. I'm a type of person that doesn't like too much unnecessary stress as the world is now turning into something else and having kids is irreversible.

Thanks for sharing your view, you understand the matter, unlike others that are condemning it

matsalan mutanen mu is that they're judgemental. ai duniya ra'ayi ce, kuma as long as ba sa6on Allah bane, everyone should stick to their guns. even people that give birth to kids without taking care of them would be criticizing. stay safe man, and I hope you find happiness

Sit there and keep getting surprised

i clearly understood u guy....children are hard limit for me too,i don't even know where to start.i seriously need a child free relationship