Zamani ne

Don't just blame it on zamani, the problem is that women don't know their value because of cultural brainwashing. They believe aure is an obligation on them and they should serve as toys to their husbands shiyasa mazan suke treating din su with no dignity. You will see some giving their wives orders and dictating their lives. Ba Dole su Raina wives din ba and after all they are financially dependant on the husband. How on Earth can someone playing such role earn respect and value?

Ah toh the founder of amazon is divorcing his wife or divorced her i don't know...what i know is she'll be given a high percentage of his wealth and become a billionaire, all I'm saying is if this is done in Nigeria then Adamu Zango or whatever his name is will not be doing this, most men sef

I'm telling you, it's because they feel like they have nothing to loose.

To be sincere the causes of sake-saken aure In Arewa are many but let me talk about the major factors. 1- Rashin wadataccan illimin addini 2- Rashin kyakkyawan bincike kan wanda za'a baiwa matan. 3- Rashin gina relationship akan hanyar da ya dace. 4- Rashin hakuri tsakanin ma'aurata.. 5- Rashin tsadar aure And so on. 1- RASHIN WADATACCEN ILLIMIN ADDINI. A zahirin gsky wasu daga cikin ma'auratan they don't have knowledge of deen especially about the life our prophet and his companions, sbd haka auren kawai ana yinsa ne sbd sha'awa badan cika sunnar Manzon Allah ba. 2- RASHIN KYAKKYAWAN BINCIKE. Some parents are to be blame in this factor, due to the lack of proper investigation or money of the person, some men it's just their character they don't want to stay with a wife for a long as soon as they achieved what they want, they will start looking for a reason to divorce the wife eventually. 3- RASHIN GINA RELATIONSHIP AKAN HANYAR DA YA DACE. Some relationships are built on fakes life, ko kuma dama tun kafin ayi auren sun saba neman junan su which will makes them loss trust on each other and at the last resulting in divorce. 4- RASHIN HAKURI TSAKANIN MA'AURATA. Wasu ma'aratan rashin hakuri shine matsalarsu sbd each one of them take so much ego, to the point that she/he can't apologise his/her partner whenever he/she does wrong. Da kuma rashin hakurin rike sirrin mijinki ko kuma matarka, wanda ya wanci wanda ake fadawa sirrin domin su bada shawara basu fiye bada shawaran kirki ba sai ta banza. 5- RASHIN TSADAR AURE. Saukin aure a arewa yayi leading na wasu mazajen da saurin sakin aure sbd sun san cewa suna da kudin wani auren kuma in sun nema za'a basu, Ace namiji yana kashe kamar 3 millions to above a aure In arewa I don't there would be so much sake-saken aure like now. Allah yasa mu dace daga nin wannan wata mai girma na ramadha ya kuma sa mu gane karya karyace, gaskiya gaskiyace.

Ba Adam a zango kadai ba dukkaninmu mutane y kamata muyi tunani akan rayuwar mu da kuma rayuwar aurenmu na farko kafin ayi auren nan ya kamata iyaye mu rika bincikar halenyen waye yar mu zata aura ba wai kawai a rika duba nasaba ko kuma dukiyar mu y kamata mu duba yana da dabiu na gari Sannan yana da addini sannan na biyu y kamata iyaye a cire kwadayi da San zuciya itama haka yarinya ta cire San zuciya ayi tare domin Allah another key for a successful marriage is patience y kamata duka maza da mata a rika hakuri mu San cewa zaman da ake a rayuwar aure ibadah dukkanin ibadah Nada wahala amma Idan akayi hkr Zaa samu kyakkyawan karshe Sannan a cire gasa a cikin aure yau kaga abokinka wancan yayi and u go ahead Kaima sai kayi without thinking what may be the outcome shiyasa da an fara zama an ji Ba dadi sai rabuwa y shigo y kamata mutane alumma gabaki da musamman yan Arewa mu duba mu kuma gyara zamantakewar aurenmu Sannan mu rika hakuri domin shine ze ceci rayuwar auren mu

Wallahi hakane, ya kamata hizbah suyi wani abu akai