i am traumatized due to domestic violence between my parents
Anonymous Nov 23, 04:49 PM

i am traumatized due to domestic violence between my parents 3

I am traumatized, I was raised in a toxic environment which was our home. I was raised to see my parents fighting when I say fighting like boxing yeah and it break my heart 💔💔😭 ever since I was a child my parents are always fighting 😭 sometimes I will go to school and come back only for me to ask for my mom and neighbors will tell me "ur Mom left with her box" it was always been the phase . I can't count the times my Mom left home wallahi, and to think my dad have never divorce her is what is surprising me. they are always on each other neck fighting till the extent neighbor will come and separate them no day no night for fighting. fight in side the house , in the family house and in front of anybody present at the moment 😭😭.I can't count the number of times I went to school crying right for nursery till now when am in University 😭 as a child everybody will be happy when it is closing time but me my heart begins to break knowing what I will go home to face, it is either my mommy start reporting my dad to me or insult the generation of my father it has always been the routine. like is that how marriage is supposed to be?????????? I am traumatize now that I am 20 years always, I do not want anybody mentioning marriage to me because I don't want to leave the life my parents are living 😭😔 me and my siblings are sad nobody to confront. I will like to use dis medium to please with every parent that comes across this to please and please don't fight in front of your children 😭😭😭it break our hearts 💔 my heart and mind are going crazy 💔💔💔💔💔


Anonymous #2 Nov 23, 06:51 PM
put them in ur prayers in Sha Allah everything will be Fine In Sha Allah
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Sweetpie Nov 23, 07:15 PM
Allah sarki sister. You’re surely been tested by Allah with something difficult to handle as a child. But don’t despair and never lose hope. there are worst things that could happen. Allah knows you can handle it that’s y he’s testing you, be strong, be steady in your prayers and be there for your siblings. be strong for them and give them hope. if you’re already thinking about loosing hope in marriage how will you help your siblings? Not every marriage is like and I’m sure you’re going to get through this. pray to Allah to give peace to both your parents. Try to have a conversation with your mum if possible, a heart to heart conversation, there’s a way you can reach to her and if that’s not possible then just be there for her too. pray for them a lot and in sha Allah all will be fine. And in sha Allah you won’t have a marriage like your parents instead keep a clean heart and you’ll get the best.
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Sweetpie Nov 23, 08:33 PM
Don't mention pls🤗❤️❤️❤️
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Anonymous #4 Nov 24, 12:39 AM
i can understand because i was raised the same way. the fight is just one of the many ways they damaged us. my biggest fear is marriage. yes the trauma is always there but only one thing help me. don’t be far away from your quran and salat. that is my escape for peace. May Allah make it easy for us. Amin
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Reerah Nov 24, 01:13 AM
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Abubakar Usman Nov 24, 06:02 AM
Subhanallah where do you live?
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Anonymous Nov 24, 06:55 AM
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Abubakar Usman Nov 24, 07:03 AM
where in Abuja?
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