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Anonymous

Sep 17, 12:07 AM

What men value most...beauty or character

At first glance everyone will choose character but is that the reality?I think men go for looks more than character.i have two lovely sisters.one is the defination of beauty fair,slim,tall mashAllah and the other is lets say averagely beautiful,shes a bit chubby ,she has this subtle beauty. thats their physical appearance.they are both my sisters and i love them both but the less beautiful one is so humble and a great cook wife material 100 yards,but babylast has this attitude our mum usually say her beauty has got to her.this got me thinking what do men want.guys lets hear from you beauty or character.

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Ahmad Aysha

Sep 17, 03:26 PM

AnDex_Blaq Sep 17, 10:48 AM

😂😂😂😂 but a disaster in real life. 😂😂😂 I barely talk offline unless I’m with close friends or family, and they are few.

That's why we have this platform to express ourselves and a sense of reasoning is more important than being an extrovert without a sense.

AnDex_Blaq

Sep 17, 03:28 PM

Ahmad Aysha Sep 17, 03:26 PM

That's why we have this platform to express ourselves and a sense of reasoning is more important than being an extrovert without a sense.

It is insightful, I use to be active on Nairaland forum but too much hate and tribalism on that platform made me move down here.

Ahmad Aysha

Sep 17, 03:29 PM

Bafferh Sep 17, 02:07 PM

People say its always the character that sustains marriage.. But then, it's easily said than practiced. Especially when you have sisters... Su zasu fara maganar meka gani ga wance da kake so. As in t[...] People say its always the character that sustains marriage.. But then, it's easily said than practiced. Especially when you have sisters... Su zasu fara maganar meka gani ga wance da kake so. As in there are better options than her

If you will always allow the opinion of others to rule you then you don't have a mind of your own. Am a lady but am my boss and I only take advice from sensible populace.

Ahmad Aysha

Sep 17, 10:33 PM

AnDex_Blaq Sep 17, 03:28 PM

It is insightful, I use to be active on Nairaland forum but too much hate and tribalism on that platform made me move down here.

I never heard of that platform before, I despise those kind of people in my life. I once hated this platform too. Due to being judgemental sometimes, once a victim

Al-ameen Abdullah

Sep 17, 10:44 PM

a dabi,ance na Dan Adam yanason abinda yake da kyau Kuma na yadda kyautatawa da kyawun hali yana sawa kaga kyan abinda maybe agurin wani bashida kyau Kuma idan kana zama da mazajen da suka auri kyawawa bbu hali zakaji suna cewa kwata-kwata basa samun kwanciyar hankali to indai kyawu wani abune a zamantakewa da bbu munanan zaurawa a duniya

AnDex_Blaq

Sep 17, 11:48 PM

Ahmad Aysha Sep 17, 10:33 PM

I never heard of that platform before, I despise those kind of people in my life. I once hated this platform too. Due to being judgemental sometimes, once a victim

One of the most popular online forum in Africa.

Ahmad Aysha

Sep 18, 07:10 AM

AnDex_Blaq Sep 17, 11:48 PM

One of the most popular online forum in Africa.

Wow that's nice

Xara

Sep 18, 10:23 AM

Tijjani Muhammad Sep 17, 03:58 AM

prioritize character over physical beauty because beauty may fade with time, while character is enduring and influences how she will raise your children, instilling good values and morals. many other [...] prioritize character over physical beauty because beauty may fade with time, while character is enduring and influences how she will raise your children, instilling good values and morals. many other reasons character is better than beauty

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Anonymous #2

Sep 18, 10:31 AM

Bafferh Sep 17, 07:11 AM

Seriously, me too this issue has been bothering me.. Though, am a Man but am stucked between two of my girlfriends thinking'bout who to choose between them. I like the first one because she's very hum[...] Seriously, me too this issue has been bothering me.. Though, am a Man but am stucked between two of my girlfriends thinking'bout who to choose between them. I like the first one because she's very humble, nice good.. But she's not good looking. While the other one is not as humble as d first one.... Believe me majority of people keep saying character is what sustains marriage not beauty and obviously it's a true saying.. But then, people highly regard beautiful ladies to the extent that some of your friends, family and relatives might mock you because of your choice...

I understand this and you are right. I'm a lady and people say looks doesn't matter when choosing a guy as long as he has money. but I prioritize looks over the money. At least let me look at him and be happy, let me satisfied with his physique. character matters more but if we can get both why then should we settle for less?

Tijjani Muhammad

Sep 18, 02:50 PM

Xara Sep 18, 10:23 AM

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thanks you prefer someone with character than beauty

Xara

Sep 18, 06:38 PM

Excuser Sep 17, 11:05 AM

A’ight it's calm still. say less i hope I didn't say nothing wrong? would you like to adopt a likkle younger brada Me.!!!

ah you better follow the protective big sis jejely and mind your toungue, you might be adopted and be placed under her wings.

Excuser

Sep 18, 07:18 PM

Xara Sep 18, 06:38 PM

ah you better follow the protective big sis jejely and mind your toungue, you might be adopted and be placed under her wings.

would you help out?

Abdulwaliyyu

Sep 21, 10:43 PM

like it or not looks comes first before character. cus the look is always the first point of attraction which makes one want to know more which leads to the character part

What men value most...beauty or character

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