I honestly don't want to believe that I've enjoyed my own portion of this love thing for good.
I sincerely don't know if I would be able to make similar sacrifices that I used to make for love again. It's been a year since the breakup and yes I'm over her, but I'm finding commitment to be very difficult. I haven't dated since then until recently this past December, I decided to check if my heart still works. I proposed a relationship to my crush with good intentions cos I'm ready to find a partner for good and she took me in.
Itama tun tana hakuri dani har ta gaji. I used to forget to call her. I could go 24hrs without calling to check up on her and when she talks, I always have work as an excuse since she knows i work with a bank and my job role is a complicated one.
I've come to a conclusion that maybe my heart is numb!
Or am I being a coward?
You will heal. You just need time and the right person.
But to be sincere babu maccen da zata so haka ayi 24hrs babu text babu call haba abun yayi yawa pls if u fine d ryt person try and care for her even if it’s once in a day ko da tasan yanayin aikin ka zatama uzuri 😊
for too years now I'm still healing I don't want any relationship for now and may Allah ease your pain broh.
u wul heal n d ryt person wul come in shaa Allah
Gaskiya if one is hurt, he wont love to have another relationship. But life goes on. You are not a coward or your hrt is numbered. Is just that you are scared to be hurt again. May Allah make it easy for everyone who is undergoing this problem Ameen.
Your heart isn't numb, you are just a coward of the past experiences, amma zai wuce, cigaba da jarrabawa
don’t judge me buh going 24hrs without calling someone isn’t a big deal ,I’ll b glad to get that much space
I used to think something was wrong with me too buh not anymore
so I hope u finally get to be that person that calls her every now and then for peace to rain
Well I think going 24hrs without calling is OK....if tgere is understanding between u 2. ..but then again...don't allow a good woman slip away from your hand...let bygone be bygone nd meuvvveeeeeee bro
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I hope so and thanks for the vote of confidence
I'll try next time. thank you
seem like we're on the same boat
in an established relationship I'll understand but isn't very normal in a new relationship
that's actually my worry, to miss a good person
keep praying ....wat destined for you can never b missed,.....stop playing hard to get or hard guy.....open up nd allow yourself love someone....love is beautiful indeed .....but u can't enjoy one sided love..both parties have to play thier roles efficiently
yeah I c
word!! thank and bless you
i just want to advise you that don't start wat u cannot finish, just because u r in a new relationship then u will be available After some months then u tell her u r busy. my advice here is since from day 1 tell her, make her understand how busy u are so that she doesn't rely on u calling her everything hour, but make sure u create time for her even if it is 5mins of ur break time, I know u go to pray and eat, make sure in that time u call her and tell her u call just to hear who she is, then u go and continue with ur work. inshaa Allah with this ur relationship will be stable cause a lady wants only caring in a relationship
your heart isn't numb u are yet to heal just give it some time in sha Allah u gonna be fyn
same here I find it hard to love again after several breakfast
it's not because I'm too busy, I just care less
it's unfair ai. but it will pass
in sha Allah
because u were served breakfast several times or that's how u are naturally??
lol you are really a coward but we can talk about fixing it yeah??
lol that's comforting but okay 😂
no hard feelings man but that's the fact
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