SACRIFICES FOR LOVE
MuhammadS Feb 13, 09:51 AM

SACRIFICES FOR LOVE 1

I honestly don't want to believe that I've enjoyed my own portion of this love thing for good. I sincerely don't know if I would be able to make similar sacrifices that I used to make for love again. It's been a year since the breakup and yes I'm over her, but I'm finding commitment to be very difficult. I haven't dated since then until recently this past December, I decided to check if my heart still works. I proposed a relationship to my crush with good intentions cos I'm ready to find a partner for good and she took me in. Itama tun tana hakuri dani har ta gaji. I used to forget to call her. I could go 24hrs without calling to check up on her and when she talks, I always have work as an excuse since she knows i work with a bank and my job role is a complicated one. I've come to a conclusion that maybe my heart is numb! Or am I being a coward?
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Anonymous #3 Feb 13, 10:52 AM
You will heal. You just need time and the right person.
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Ahjummaah Feb 13, 11:03 AM
But to be sincere babu maccen da zata so haka ayi 24hrs babu text babu call haba abun yayi yawa pls if u fine d ryt person try and care for her even if it’s once in a day ko da tasan yanayin aikin ka zatama uzuri 😊
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Isma'il Abdullahi Feb 13, 12:10 PM
for too years now I'm still healing I don't want any relationship for now and may Allah ease your pain broh.
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Maryam Yaqub Feb 13, 02:13 PM
u wul heal n d ryt person wul come in shaa Allah
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Nanamimi Feb 13, 04:18 PM
Gaskiya if one is hurt, he wont love to have another relationship. But life goes on. You are not a coward or your hrt is numbered. Is just that you are scared to be hurt again. May Allah make it easy for everyone who is undergoing this problem Ameen.
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Mai Nama Kano Feb 13, 06:02 PM
Your heart isn't numb, you are just a coward of the past experiences, amma zai wuce, cigaba da jarrabawa
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Anonymous #1 Feb 13, 07:02 PM
don’t judge me buh going 24hrs without calling someone isn’t a big deal ,I’ll b glad to get that much space I used to think something was wrong with me too buh not anymore so I hope u finally get to be that person that calls her every now and then for peace to rain
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Musa mufida sanda Feb 13, 08:06 PM
Well I think going 24hrs without calling is OK....if tgere is understanding between u 2. ..but then again...don't allow a good woman slip away from your hand...let bygone be bygone nd meuvvveeeeeee bro
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MuhammadS Feb 13, 10:03 PM
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I hope so and thanks for the vote of confidence
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Musa mufida sanda Feb 13, 10:55 PM

keep praying ....wat destined for you can never b missed,.....stop playing hard to get or hard guy.....open up nd allow yourself love someone....love is beautiful indeed .....but u can't enjoy one sided love..both parties have to play thier roles efficiently
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Firdausi Ahmad Feb 14, 07:48 AM
i just want to advise you that don't start wat u cannot finish, just because u r in a new relationship then u will be available After some months then u tell her u r busy. my advice here is since from day 1 tell her, make her understand how busy u are so that she doesn't rely on u calling her everything hour, but make sure u create time for her even if it is 5mins of ur break time, I know u go to pray and eat, make sure in that time u call her and tell her u call just to hear who she is, then u go and continue with ur work. inshaa Allah with this ur relationship will be stable cause a lady wants only caring in a relationship
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Nafeesaher Feb 14, 02:37 PM
your heart isn't numb u are yet to heal just give it some time in sha Allah u gonna be fyn same here I find it hard to love again after several breakfast
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Nafeesaher Feb 15, 04:29 PM

in sha Allah
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Firdausi Ahmad Feb 15, 06:19 PM

because u were served breakfast several times or that's how u are naturally??
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Anonymous #2 Apr 1, 09:32 AM
lol you are really a coward but we can talk about fixing it yeah??
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MuhammadS Apr 1, 06:41 PM

lol that's comforting but okay 😂
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Anonymous #2 Apr 1, 06:44 PM

no hard feelings man but that's the fact
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