Parents treating siblings differently
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Zeeha May 9, 10:15 AM

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I really don't understand why parents treats siblings differently. I know a family su biyar ne yaran,mata 4 namiji 1. The four girls are very obedient suna da hankali sosai but the the boy sai a hankali ga shaye shaye da rashin kunya wa iyayen idan ya sha ya bugu sai yazo ya zagi maman su ya ci Mata mutunci wlhy he always makes her cry but duk da haka tafi son shi,if those 4 girls make little mistake you know nobody is above mistake a rayuwa,haka zatayi ta musu fada sometimes ma haka kawai zata hau kansu tana musu fada,shi kuma duk abinda yake yi bata ganin laifin sa in fact she doesn't want to hear a bad word against him, how do we tackle this problem?
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Rukayya May 9, 10:39 AM
This is so illogical gaskia The mistakes of some parents. But I think the mother is doing this unconsciously. Dealing with a truant as a child can be difficult she probably feels being more closer or showing much love and not correcting or chastising the child who abuses drug will make him stop or correct his flaws But this is at the detriment of the other kids who will feel unloved or left out, regardless he should be equally treated like the rest of the kids. The best thing to do is being moderate in everything No one is stopping her from showing him love but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be reprimanded too as he’s obviously bad mannered Allah yasa mudache!
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Rabi suleiman May 9, 11:23 AM
actually she is part of the problem and her behavior has made him continue his bad deeds. Bad kid does wrong and goes scott free and in his presence his siblings better than him ana masu fada on small things ai it will even encourage him. though akwai wasu da ko ana masu fada da nasiha sai sunyi iskanci, wasu har rehab ake kai su idan sun fito su ci gaba.
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Khadija Sokoto May 9, 03:15 PM
Jarabawa kenan 😢
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Aiesher sadiqq May 9, 06:12 PM
this mom doesn't know parenting and it can be the reason her son went astray i believe. parenting is not taking child to islamiya or beating him for doing wrong cuz that's what many people believe. some parents don't even listen to their kids at young age they discard it as "Yarinta" then how can you understand your Kid when you don't listen to him and try to understand his psychology. Parents need to study their kids and understand them in depth so that they can apply an approach thats suitable not using same approach for all kids, Human beings are different.
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Dat_malo_guy Jun 3, 10:38 PM
I feel like it seems tafi son shi coz he's like the only male so he's definitely going to get more attention (maybe hopefully some day zai riqe gida) and 2ndly going wayward is deeply hurtful, deep down I can't even imagine the kind of agonising pain this mother is going thru coz of the situation of her kid, nobody wants to see their kid wasting away their life and most parents feel like showing that much love may help turn things around which doesn't work in most cases. The best way is to try and help with du'a, Allah always listens, and try talking to mum. May Allah make it easy for us all.
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