Re: Issues we all need to address
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Mbmustapha Nov 10, 03:09 PM

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...favors those arewa girls the more... Not exactly. I don't think so. Ask the arewa girls, majority will tell you the same thing. See the thing is, getting married is way harder in this era of ours. Imagine this scenario: a girl, coming out to publicize that she's forfeited or relinquished the traditional requirements of marriage, like lefe and all of them ceremony rituals that consume chunks of money. She'll most likely have guys come in droves wanting to get married to her. Now I'm not saying they're all worth it. Probably majority of them are not. But you'll certainly be able to get just a few that your research will show you they've got good job/business prospects. Then you can filter who you think is the best for you, stick with him and grow with him. My point is, reduce the bar to which you require your prospective suitor to reach. Request for the barest minimum if you can. Lavish materials and lavish marriage ceremony isn't the barka and it isn't what's gonna keep you in your matrimonial home. This advice is meant for those that their parents/those with authority over them would agree to though, and subsequently, those that don't care what the society thinks. Peace ✌🏽🕊️
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Hafsah alhassan Nov 10, 03:16 PM
it’s true talk even me I don’t want wedding ceremony like that of dinner again.I see it as waste of money and it’s not necessary
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Arewa Up Nov 10, 06:16 PM
Good write up, but.. you could have replied on the original post. every new post is independent
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Maryam Sulaiman Nov 10, 06:33 PM

Same here too I sees it as extravagant.. That money wey dey go use do dinner abeg may dem gimme make I invest😂😂😂
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Anonymous #1 Nov 10, 08:05 PM
you are absolutely right, there's definitely no need of having a lavish wedding jst to please the society or a Calibre of people, after wedding comes marriage... may Allah ease all of our affairs
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Abubakar Usman Nov 10, 10:05 PM
there is nothing wrong to want to have a good wedding as long as the both parties are capable and it’s not against the Islamic teaching lie music and dancing of both genders… having a big walima is an act of sadaqa… and if the guy is not capable then it shouldn’t be an issue…
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