I was rejected because of my tribe
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Anonymous Nov 3, 07:56 AM

I was rejected because of my tribe 1

I thought we were over this thing called tribalism, I was actually rejected simply because of my tribe and nothing else am the type that speak fluent Hausa in shot you can never find the ascent of Yoruba on my tongue people hardly believe that am yoruba unless i speak because my mom is hausa, that doesn't change the fact that i'm yoruba and i'm proud to be one I've been with this guy which we really love each other as in I was really into this guy, he is really the type of guy I prayed for and when I met him it was a dream come true for me, Am the type that trust easily and falls in love so easily so long as am okay with you because I know what I want. We were doing great not until I noticed some changes, I asked him severally but he wouldn't just tell me what the problem his, until we had an issue which actually came from me that gave him the chance he have been waiting for. His family forbids him to marry Yoruba his mom to be precise, he had no option than to opt out of the relationship. Guys the breakfast ehhhn sha I tried so hard to get over it because I really loved this guy. Share ur view on this 😇
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Sgabdo Nov 3, 10:40 AM
this is Seriously Bad. Gaskia the Prophet ( PBH) set an Example for Use he Married women from Different tribe nd Nationality so Gaskia This should not be a Reason for Some To be tribalism. Its Individual difference Gaskia i Hope nd Pray we will change our Views. May Allah Bring the right For You Ameen
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Anonymous #1 Nov 3, 11:19 AM
May I ask where you reside? State I mean... Looking forward to your reply.
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Anonymous Nov 3, 02:53 PM

Sharp guy😀MAS what are you doing on this platform if I may ask
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Anonymous #2 Nov 3, 03:48 PM
dis s normal it happened to me too I'm Nupe ND I dated a Fulani guy for 4 years ND wen we want start marriage preparation his mom said nooooo, ND we hv no choice but to separate buh what I know is dat sum disappointment is a blessing becus of dat I ve met sum1 dat s lyk d guy of my dream ND we r from d same tribe, so just pray Allah ya sa hakan shi ne magi alkhairi, ND kar kiyi jayeyya insha Allah everything will b fyn.take 😘
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Anonymous #1 Nov 3, 04:08 PM

It's not about being sharp. I'm thinking about giving it a try with her if she's willing. Our house alhamdulillaah we don't mind about your tribe or ethnicity or whether you're a bazawara, a divorcee. Example is we gave out a house member (male) to a bazawara, just for the bazawara's family to come and say "yayi mata yaro" and he's older than her fa... All the house cares about is akhlaaq. And you are never forced. You're advised. After all "ka auro ta, kai zaka zauna da ita". Anyway, I'm asking because looong distance relationship akwai wahala. I can't be in say Bauchi and her in Lagos with no chance of relocation by any one of us. You feel me?
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Anonymous #1 Nov 3, 04:09 PM
It's not about being sharp. I'm thinking about giving it a try with her if she's willing. Our house alhamdulillaah we don't mind about your tribe or ethnicity or whether you're a bazawara, a divorcee. Example is we gave out a house member (male) to a bazawara, just for the bazawara's family to come and say "yayi mata yaro" and he's older than her fa... All the house cares about is akhlaaq. And you are never forced. You're advised. After all "ka auro ta, kai zaka zauna da ita". Anyway, I'm asking because looong distance relationship akwai wahala. I can't be in say Bauchi and her in Lagos with no chance of relocation by any one of us. You feel me?
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Anonymous #1 Nov 3, 05:39 PM

talk to me via abbamustaphab@gmail.com
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Jibril saeed Nov 3, 06:00 PM
my mom once said; sometimes is very hard to move on. But once you move on, you'll realize it was the best decision you've ever made. the best is yet to come be patient.🥰
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Safah Mahmud Ibrahim Nov 3, 07:35 PM
poster you have to than God you are Yoruba and been rejected by Hausa/fulani,my own case am a real Hausa/fulani and am rejected by them just because i came from katsina and they came from zari’ah,imagine fah wollah that people said no,so kiyi hkr Allah ya kawo miki wani i know is not easy nima am waiting for my parents to find a suitable one for me i can’t go into dating again.
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Anonymous #2 Nov 3, 07:44 PM

insha Allah dear 😘 may Allah make it for us
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Haruna Amina Gimbiya Nov 4, 12:16 PM
Going through thesame thing
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Anonymous Nov 4, 01:04 PM

May Allah see us through dear
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Anonymous #1 Nov 4, 06:43 PM

I'm the one with the family member with the bazawara of a girlfriend. Lemme have your IG or Twitter?
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Anonymous #1 Nov 5, 04:49 AM

32, Kano
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MARYAMmiimie Nov 6, 01:38 PM

Will love to get to know you(I am not the poster), what do you say? PS: I stay in Abuja but in Lagos for work at the moment, will be back to Abuja soon though.
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Yazeed Nov 10, 01:17 PM
subhanallah wlh sometimes am confused just because ur not hausa or ur not thesame tribe that will make most parents to think otherwise wlh am a living hausa man from kaduna but I don't have the intention of marrying a hausa lady
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