Stop worring about MARRAGE for once.
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Anonymous Oct 15, 07:44 PM

Stop worring about MARRAGE for once. 2

Honestly I think there’s one thing that’s is very Alarming and i feel no one is talking about it the rate at which lady think getting married is the only source of HAPPINESS or being in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, I just don’t know why we have that mentality like why????? What about making that money? What about being HAPPY? What about learning a new skill, doing that business you’ve always dreamed of doing? Why can’t we see the other aspect of life that doesn’t involve being worried About marriage of relationships We're all are going to be Happy when the time is RIGHT. But before it’s comes please let’s be happy with other aspects of our LIFESTYLE.
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Ahmadu20 Oct 16, 03:53 AM
a woman is a flower in a garden, the husband is the fence around it... I hope you get it🤷
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Anonymous #3 Oct 16, 10:47 AM
what increases this belief is the way parents and society pressures women in to marriage.
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Anonymous #1 Oct 16, 10:49 AM
we said wlh buh our parents and society are the ones making things unbearably for us. I just believe at the right time everything will fall in place. May Almighty Allah ease our affairs and give us spouses that will be the coolness of our eyes.
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Anonymous #4 Oct 16, 12:01 PM
the society will never allow a woman to do be happy if she’s not married. marriage is sunnah and encouraged but not compulsory and it’s okay to not want it at some point in your life but the fear of what people will say will never allow you rest as a woman. I am personally okay with not getting married and I believe I will be happier if I am not and I want to focus on my education and career and helping the society but the thought of what people will say if I ever voice this out does not allow me sleep at night.
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Anonymous #2 Oct 16, 03:14 PM
my sister bari nayi miki dalla dalla .am an advocate of mace ta dage ta zama independent Amma I despise the idea of mace ta dage with archiving goals like making huge money just to feel she’s okay without a man . Allah daya tsara miki rayuwa a matsayin ki na mace shine dolen ki you will never be complete without a man ,Allah daya hallice ki ya hallice ki ne sbd Kiyi ibada kuma Allah ya girmama aure shiyasa addini ya baya a mana cewa da akwai Wanda zaa umarta yayi ma wani sujjada bayan ubangji to da Allah ya umurci mace da ta yi ma Mijin ta sujuda;kuma ki duba girman da addini ya bama iyaye ,aya a alqurani ta nuna mana wala ta qulla huma uffin Amma kuma still a haka addini ya bama miji matsayin da maganar shi tana gaba da ta iyayen ki . ku dai na wannan tunanin that zaku iya finding eternal happiness without marriage ,wallahi idan mace Tayi saan miji wallahi ta gama samun Jin dadin duniya wani luxury duk bazai dame ta ba .wannan tunanin na Baku buqatan namiji in your life should be debunk pls l ku dage da addua akan samun partner na gari ,and please understand my point am not saying mace should rush into marriage ,nooo shop well my sister and have fate in Allah ,search for happiness in your partner and you’ll find companionship youll find solace in your marriage by completing half of your Deen,you are half way to jannah . am so sorry idan na fadi wani Abu wrongly ,with all due respect to everyone involved .
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