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Anonymous Oct 7, 05:34 PM

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After getting a request... Ideally who is suppose to say hi /hello/slm first? The person who requested or the one who accepted....
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Anonymous #2 Oct 7, 05:53 PM
Conventionally, the Man should say Hi first
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Anonymous #3 Oct 7, 06:00 PM
does it really matter
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Rahma usman Oct 7, 06:18 PM
the person who requested
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Fatima Muhammad husain Oct 7, 06:46 PM

it really doesn't matter.....will it reduce anything in u
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Yasmeen Oct 7, 07:45 PM

Does it really matter? as for me, kowa zei iya turawa. However, culturally and traditionally, Maza zei fara.
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Jibril saeed Oct 7, 07:52 PM
the person who's requesting.
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Safiyah Ahmad Oct 7, 09:50 PM

I think according to social Norms, the man should send the first message even if the lady sent the request out of courage.
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MARYAMmiimie Oct 7, 10:22 PM
Anyone can send the first message
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Amiinatu Oct 8, 10:03 AM
Lol! let's be honest here if the lady rushes in saying hi the men see her as too eager. I’ve learned that taking my time with guys get me a shedload of respect
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Rukkymj Oct 9, 02:31 PM
the person who send you a request.
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Asheefar Oct 9, 04:45 PM
my partner
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Asheefar Oct 9, 04:45 PM
my partner
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Aleeyu Muhammad kabeer fagge Oct 10, 10:25 AM
exactly
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Maryam Yaqub Oct 10, 05:23 PM
the person who requested
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Amiinatu Oct 11, 01:57 AM

Well am speaking based on what guys have said and a few experiences. My colleague at work said that if they see a girl they like on social media they send a message and if she's quick to respond, she hungry for man.
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Ahmad Muhammad kamba Oct 16, 07:22 PM
the person who requested
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Miss Ral Nov 27, 04:52 PM
well for me since she sent the request saying HI wouldn’t be an issue for her’’ I mean she already had the courage kawai de the annoying part would be idan beyi responding yanda ya kamata ba
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Amiinatu Feb 16, 01:30 PM

I'm talking from experience sir, and one time my colleague said the same thing that that's how they detect a hungry babe if she rushes to respond
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Bhillyamin Feb 16, 06:15 PM

am pretty sure you're not a hungry babe and that's y it took you a lifetime to respond the comments,but I wish to say hi to your dm if you drop your handle @bhillyamin
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