Why do men select languages and appearance

Exactly...so true. Everyone's got his thirst but still adjustment should be made. All this selection by appearance make other ladies loose hope and feel they are not good enough😔. Thank u for bringing this topic in.

Sorry to say but same applies to ladies, I'm a lady and I'm saying this let's be honest with each other but still your point is good one. If we are all ready to settle down we must adjust and focus on our connection and character of the person. For instance I've not seen any man's profile that wants my own tribe and it's a pity I don't even speak the language I only speak Hausa and English. May Allah help us all.

My Sister.. We all have our specs.. why would you marry a person u're not physically attracted to.. don't you think it will affect the marriage. Physical appearance is very important to many people. About language, some select specific language because they know their family background and the tribes that are accented within their family