recently I have been coming across many post and comments regarding one's spec in choosing a partner or spouse. it's really good having a spec or desire partner whether busty, chubby, slim, tall, curvy, average, short, fair, dark and chocolate. what I will like to draw our attention to is that marriage is much more than having your desire spec. you might end up having your spec but not happy as you thought you should be, why because marriage is all about tolerance. your spec of partner might not have the attitude and characters you expect her to so what happened then is that you endure and tolerate some of his/ her negative behavior because no one is completely perfect and the sooner we realized that perfection is for the Almighty only then we will achieved the peace and tranquility for the rest of our lives
louder....Amma sadly ba'a dauka
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d fact you well said what is in my mind. May Allah bless you.
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ameen
shukran
Allah yasa su dauka
gracias
And what if the ones that are not our spec have a bad character, and the ones that are our spec have everything? I think it goes both ways.
it's goes both ways but reality is we both know mostly doesn't go both ways
You're right
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