TO ALL THE MEN IN THE MATCHMAKING SECTION
Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 05:00 PM

TO ALL THE MEN IN THE MATCHMAKING SECTION 0

i don’t really know for what purpose you guys joined the app! honestly it’s kinda tough to deal with you guys once you send a request to a person yayi accepting sai ayi magana kadan that’s all i thought we’re all genuinely seeking for a partner right? then why all these? should i call it an ego or what? Most of you guys are operating same way why? i never thought this is how the app works honestly! this is not called matchmaking at all, what i observed is that you guys are thinking all the ladies in the matchmaking section are kinda desperate ha? or y’all are doing us a favour, well... it’s not like that y’all are mistaken ko so kuke yi muyi ta binku muna dan Allah gamu ku aure mune?😂 know something for a relationship to work out successfully a man has to put more and more effort to it. Take note please we’re not here to play Allah yasa an gane👏🏻
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Anonymous #1 Jan 12, 05:21 PM
not all I guess. what's your name on match site??
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Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 05:25 PM

i did not said all, i said most of you guys although bansan ko mace ne bama ko namji take/yake magana yanxu.
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Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 05:26 PM
Anonymous #2 Jan 12, 06:21 PM
I think I am speaking for SOME guys if I say, it's not ego or pride or the feeling that the ladies are desperate. The reason some guys opt for matchmaking online is because they cannot land a lady physically. They don't have the courage to do so. Even at that some still find it difficult to do it online. I myself find it easy to hold conversations with ladies I have nothing for or those I know I may never meet physically or those I don't care what the think of me, or those I know I am meeting for the first and last time. But the moment I feel otherwise, I get mental block. It becomes difficult for me to make conversations whether physically or online. Unless if the lady is chatty that's when I gradually begin to ease up and be myself again. But no be all o. I don't know why others do so. I've never registered on any matchmaking platform, so bazan iya cewa zan yi hakan ba koh bazan yi ba if I were in their shoes.
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Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 06:30 PM

If that’s the case then one should not register for matchmaking or try to send a request to someone you keep being ya self and enjoy the forum section period!
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Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 06:49 PM
Masha Allah hajia anzo inda nake so wlh nazo matchmaking don na samu partner Amma mata da kun fara chat dasu sai su daina kula kah
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Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 06:54 PM

but sai naga kamar dey are not interested kuma Ni walhy I'm serious about dat
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Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 07:02 PM

Eyya kasan kowa da kalan ra’ayinsa so maybe after sharing ya pictures one might felt out of interest you know that’s why ake ta emphasizing on kowa da dunga saka profile picture but people will no hear we are all here for matchmaking yes what’s there? but people keep themselves anonymous kamar suna tsoro don’t you have the guts and courage ha?
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Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 07:23 PM

it won’t be fair ka kalla mutum kace masa bai maka for me honestly i can’t do that but don’t know for others kawai zan maka shuru ne😅
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Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 07:35 PM

hhhhhhh haka ne ba kowa bane zai iya haka Bah..... but amma yana da kyau ka fada wa mutum sabida yasan abun yi .....amma in Sha Allah zamu samu mutanan kirki
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Anonymous #4 Jan 12, 07:37 PM

if a guy cannot approach a lady in physically and can also not approach a lady in a easy way as matchmaking online Tor gsky is better they shouldn't register for matchmaking because i don't see the need of it
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Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 07:43 PM
Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 07:44 PM

Ameen ya Rabb.
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Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 07:47 PM

Sister he’s expecting you to chat him first.
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Anonymous #4 Jan 12, 08:17 PM

even if you chat them and exchange number and pictures wallahi they will still keep mute
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Anonymous #4 Jan 12, 08:19 PM

Almost all of them sir
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Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 08:20 PM

Wasu haka ne amma Ni if I'm interested in u will do all my best make her happy idai muna mu'amala
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Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 08:29 PM

Eyya but majority basa yin hakan ae shiyasa ake ta samun more and more complains.
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Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 08:34 PM

hhhhhhh da yawa irin wannan mazan ba dan Allah suke sannu bah sunxo neman wani abu ne wajanku sunga kuma ba zasu samu bah
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Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 08:36 PM

hajia gaskiya wasu maza basa kyautawa Allah yasa mu dace amma dai matsalar tafi zuwa ta ban garan maza sosai
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Anonymous #2 Jan 12, 08:53 PM
You're right, but you know virtually everyone wants someone and will want to settle. So at some point one will have to take the step to get themselves a spouse. For some people, it is online matchmaking. But it is not as easy as it is for some people. Baby steps. Don't get me wrong, I'm not supporting the actions of those you're complaining about. I just want you to give people benefits of the doubt. It's like you're coming for my neck 😅😅 And besides, both gender are guilty of this. None of both is 100% clean
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Anonymous #2 Jan 12, 09:02 PM

Baby steps sister. Sai mutum ya ƙare rayuwar shi shi kadai kenan? Haba sister pity mana. Ai a hankali zai zo ya iya. After all there's a reason they registered. Mostly it's because they want to meet their life partners. But some are here for other reasons. There's also the possibility of mutum bai mai ba. Just as I read one of the reply above of the author of this post where she said one may no longer be interested after seeing your picture. And she added that idan ita ce shuru zata yi.
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Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 10:21 PM

hhhhhhh anzo wajan da kuke so ???....na tabo maza ko!!! gaskiya mu maza mu change halin mu plz
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