Jan 12, 05:00 PM

TO ALL THE MEN IN THE MATCHMAKING SECTION

i don’t really know for what purpose you guys joined the app! honestly it’s kinda tough to deal with you guys once you send a request to a person yayi accepting sai ayi magana kadan that’s all i thought we’re all genuinely seeking for a partner right? then why all these? should i call it an ego or what? Most of you guys are operating same way why? i never thought this is how the app works honestly! this is not called matchmaking at all, what i observed is that you guys are thinking all the ladies in the matchmaking section are kinda desperate ha? or y’all are doing us a favour, well... it’s not like that y’all are mistaken ko so kuke yi muyi ta binku muna dan Allah gamu ku aure mune?😂 know something for a relationship to work out successfully a man has to put more and more effort to it. Take note please we’re not here to play Allah yasa an gane👏🏻

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Jan 12, 05:21 PM
not all I guess. what's your name on match site??
Jan 12, 05:25 PM
Anonymous #1 Jan 12, 05:21 PM

not all I guess. what's your name on match site??

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i did not said all, i said most of you guys although bansan ko mace ne bama ko namji take/yake magana yanxu.
Jan 12, 05:26 PM
Anonymous #1 Jan 12, 05:21 PM

not all I guess. what's your name on match site??

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Deejah Almustapha
Jan 12, 06:21 PM
I think I am speaking for SOME guys if I say, it's not ego or pride or the feeling that the ladies are desperate. The reason some guys opt for matchmaking online is because they cannot land a lady physically. They don't have the courage to do so. Even at that some still find it difficult to do it online. I myself find it easy to hold conversations with ladies I have nothing for or those I know I may never meet physically or those I don't care what the think of me, or those I know I am meeting for the first and last time. But the moment I feel otherwise, I get mental block. It becomes difficult for me to make conversations whether physically or online. Unless if the lady is chatty that's when I gradually begin to ease up and be myself again. But no be all o. I don't know why others do so. I've never registered on any matchmaking platform, so bazan iya cewa zan yi hakan ba koh bazan yi ba if I were in their shoes.
Jan 12, 06:30 PM
Anonymous #2 Jan 12, 06:21 PM
I think I am speaking for SOME guys if I say, it's not ego or pride or the feeling that the ladies are desperate. The reason some guys opt for matchmaking online is because they cannot land a lady ph[...] I think I am speaking for SOME guys if I say, it's not ego or pride or the feeling that the ladies are desperate. The reason some guys opt for matchmaking online is because they cannot land a lady physically. They don't have the courage to do so. Even at that some still find it difficult to do it online. I myself find it easy to hold conversations with ladies I have nothing for or those I know I may never meet physically or those I don't care what the think of me, or those I know I am meeting for the first and last time. But the moment I feel otherwise, I get mental block. It becomes difficult for me to make conversations whether physically or online. Unless if the lady is chatty that's when I gradually begin to ease up and be myself again. But no be all o. I don't know why others do so. I've never registered on any matchmaking platform, so bazan iya cewa zan yi hakan ba koh bazan yi ba if I were in their shoes.
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If that’s the case then one should not register for matchmaking or try to send a request to someone you keep being ya self and enjoy the forum section period!
Jan 12, 06:49 PM
Masha Allah hajia anzo inda nake so wlh nazo matchmaking don na samu partner Amma mata da kun fara chat dasu sai su daina kula kah
Jan 12, 06:54 PM
Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 06:49 PM

Masha Allah hajia anzo inda nake so wlh nazo matchmaking don na samu partner Amma mata da kun fara chat dasu sai su daina kula kah

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but sai naga kamar dey are not interested kuma Ni walhy I'm serious about dat
Jan 12, 07:02 PM
Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 06:49 PM

Masha Allah hajia anzo inda nake so wlh nazo matchmaking don na samu partner Amma mata da kun fara chat dasu sai su daina kula kah

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Eyya kasan kowa da kalan ra’ayinsa so maybe after sharing ya pictures one might felt out of interest you know that’s why ake ta emphasizing on kowa da dunga saka profile picture but people will no hear we are all here for matchmaking yes what’s there? but people keep themselves anonymous kamar suna tsoro don’t you have the guts and courage ha?
Jan 12, 07:14 PM
Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 07:02 PM
Eyya kasan kowa da kalan ra’ayinsa so maybe after sharing ya pictures one might felt out of interest you know that’s why ake ta emphasizing on kowa da dunga saka profile picture but people will no[...] Eyya kasan kowa da kalan ra’ayinsa so maybe after sharing ya pictures one might felt out of interest you know that’s why ake ta emphasizing on kowa da dunga saka profile picture but people will no hear we are all here for matchmaking yes what’s there? but people keep themselves anonymous kamar suna tsoro don’t you have the guts and courage ha?
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hhhhh yes haka amma yana da kyau idan mutum bai muku just told him baku daina kulashi bah
Jan 12, 07:23 PM
Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 07:14 PM

hhhhh yes haka amma yana da kyau idan mutum bai muku just told him baku daina kulashi bah

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it won’t be fair ka kalla mutum kace masa bai maka for me honestly i can’t do that but don’t know for others kawai zan maka shuru ne😅
Jan 12, 07:35 PM
Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 07:23 PM

it won’t be fair ka kalla mutum kace masa bai maka for me honestly i can’t do that but don’t know for others kawai zan maka shuru ne😅

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hhhhhhh haka ne ba kowa bane zai iya haka Bah..... but amma yana da kyau ka fada wa mutum sabida yasan abun yi .....amma in Sha Allah zamu samu mutanan kirki
Jan 12, 07:37 PM
Anonymous #2 Jan 12, 06:21 PM
I think I am speaking for SOME guys if I say, it's not ego or pride or the feeling that the ladies are desperate. The reason some guys opt for matchmaking online is because they cannot land a lady ph[...] I think I am speaking for SOME guys if I say, it's not ego or pride or the feeling that the ladies are desperate. The reason some guys opt for matchmaking online is because they cannot land a lady physically. They don't have the courage to do so. Even at that some still find it difficult to do it online. I myself find it easy to hold conversations with ladies I have nothing for or those I know I may never meet physically or those I don't care what the think of me, or those I know I am meeting for the first and last time. But the moment I feel otherwise, I get mental block. It becomes difficult for me to make conversations whether physically or online. Unless if the lady is chatty that's when I gradually begin to ease up and be myself again. But no be all o. I don't know why others do so. I've never registered on any matchmaking platform, so bazan iya cewa zan yi hakan ba koh bazan yi ba if I were in their shoes.
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if a guy cannot approach a lady in physically and can also not approach a lady in a easy way as matchmaking online Tor gsky is better they shouldn't register for matchmaking because i don't see the need of it
Jan 12, 07:39 PM
Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 07:35 PM

hhhhhhh haka ne ba kowa bane zai iya haka Bah..... but amma yana da kyau ka fada wa mutum sabida yasan abun yi .....amma in Sha Allah zamu samu mutanan kirki

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Tau ka gani, shuru ma ansa ne ae😊 in shaa Allah kuwa👏🏻
Jan 12, 07:41 PM
Anonymous #4 Jan 12, 07:37 PM
if a guy cannot approach a lady in physically and can also not approach a lady in a easy way as matchmaking online Tor gsky is better they shouldn't register for matchmaking because i don't see the [...] if a guy cannot approach a lady in physically and can also not approach a lady in a easy way as matchmaking online Tor gsky is better they shouldn't register for matchmaking because i don't see the need of it
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Maa shaa Allah well said🙌🏻
Jan 12, 07:43 PM
Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 07:39 PM

Tau ka gani, shuru ma ansa ne ae😊 in shaa Allah kuwa👏🏻

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Allah ya kawo mana da alheri
Jan 12, 07:44 PM
Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 06:49 PM

Masha Allah hajia anzo inda nake so wlh nazo matchmaking don na samu partner Amma mata da kun fara chat dasu sai su daina kula kah

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samething to Maza they will accept your request and keep mute
Jan 12, 07:44 PM
Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 07:43 PM

Allah ya kawo mana da alheri

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Ameen ya Rabb.
Jan 12, 07:47 PM
Anonymous #4 Jan 12, 07:44 PM

samething to Maza they will accept your request and keep mute

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Sister he’s expecting you to chat him first.
Jan 12, 08:17 PM
Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 07:47 PM

Sister he’s expecting you to chat him first.

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even if you chat them and exchange number and pictures wallahi they will still keep mute
Jan 12, 08:19 PM
Anonymous #1 Jan 12, 05:21 PM

not all I guess. what's your name on match site??

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Almost all of them sir
Jan 12, 08:20 PM
Anonymous #4 Jan 12, 07:44 PM

samething to Maza they will accept your request and keep mute

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Wasu haka ne amma Ni if I'm interested in u will do all my best make her happy idai muna mu'amala
Jan 12, 08:29 PM
Anonymous #3 Jan 12, 08:20 PM

Wasu haka ne amma Ni if I'm interested in u will do all my best make her happy idai muna mu'amala

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Eyya but majority basa yin hakan ae shiyasa ake ta samun more and more complains.
Jan 12, 08:30 PM
Anonymous #4 Jan 12, 08:17 PM

even if you chat them and exchange number and pictures wallahi they will still keep mute

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Ae fa😂 sai dai hakuri kawai.
Jan 12, 08:34 PM
Anonymous #4 Jan 12, 08:17 PM

even if you chat them and exchange number and pictures wallahi they will still keep mute

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hhhhhhh da yawa irin wannan mazan ba dan Allah suke sannu bah sunxo neman wani abu ne wajanku sunga kuma ba zasu samu bah
Jan 12, 08:36 PM
Deejah Almustapha Jan 12, 08:30 PM

Ae fa😂 sai dai hakuri kawai.

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hajia gaskiya wasu maza basa kyautawa Allah yasa mu dace amma dai matsalar tafi zuwa ta ban garan maza sosai
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