is it normal for a guy to hate anything about marriage.
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Anonymous Nov 4, 07:13 PM

is it normal for a guy to hate anything about marriage. 0

advise. please I don't know if it's normal thing. am a guy that fear marriage, seeing how some people struggle to put food on table am scared I don't know why. even though am an average salary earner but don't know why am scared and my people are disturbing me to present a lady I want to marry am confused.
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Anonymous #1 Nov 4, 07:20 PM
Dear poster, I have little to no knowledge on marriage but I think it's only natural to be scared and if you ask me that's atleast a good sign because you are afraid of not being able to meet up with the needs of your family if you end up starting one, which means you really do not want your family to suffer if u end up starting one, but we are all risk takers and remember u will be fulfilling half of your deen, I will advise you give it a try with a full positive mind and InshaAllah with prayers and a good spouse Allah will ease your affairs.... I sincerely hope this eases atleast a bit of your fear
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Abubakar Usman Nov 4, 07:25 PM

Masha Allah!!! well said bro... technically speaking marriage is an avenue where Muslims can fulfill half of their Deen.
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Abubakar Usman Nov 4, 07:33 PM

oh my bad. well said sister 😁
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Suleiman Mukhtar Ibrahim Nov 4, 08:39 PM

😃😃😃
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Hafsah Tahir Nov 4, 10:52 PM
No is not..Buroda you’re not fine
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BabyG Nov 5, 12:47 AM
it’s ok for you to be scared but remember you will be fulfilling half of ur deen, so go in to it with positive mind and Insha Allah, Allah will make it easy for you……… you know, each marriage comes with its own blessings so wen the intentions is clean, Allah will surely help you out. All the best bro 😊
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Sabir Nov 5, 07:53 AM
Turn your fear into motivation and take the bull by the horn kawai. you go thy alright lass Lass
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Fatima Alfa Nov 5, 01:26 PM
put Allah first and make up your mind that U can make it insha Allah.pray Always u will see everything will come easy
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BabyG Nov 5, 03:17 PM

Ameeennn ya hayyu ya qayyum
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Feesah Nov 6, 07:00 PM
at the end of it all, don’t go into it on till you make up your mind!
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Zakariya Nov 8, 06:47 AM
I don't think it's normal, I don't know what was your experience about it, but it's wrong decision
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BabyG Nov 12, 12:04 AM

Ameeennn ya rahman🤲🏽
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