I have someone that I've been together with for over a year and would like to get married to soon but my father is "strongly" recommending I marry his friend's (a former big politician) daughter. some acquaintances advise the politician's daughter based on potential benefits(which would be okay) but others say marry who you know because "you don't know the lifestyle that she's used to" while i am okay financially(not struggling but comfortable). And now my father expects an answer after Ramadan but I would prefer to at least meet the lady first to determine compatibility before making a decision.
Your demand is valid at the same time consider your father's decision...
obviously there's reason your father wants you to marry that girl just keep praying for the best inshallah ALLAH will guide you
This is a big decision, so i think the best step is pray Istikhara. Ask Allah to guide ur heart towards what is best for u if there is khair in marrying the girl u love ,Allah will make it easy and open the way. nd if there is khair in what your father suggests, Allah will put peace in ur heart towards it. trust that whatever Allah chooses after istikhara is whats best for you.
bro just keep praying. but respect your dad decision ko Kai ba za kaji Dadi ba. idan tana da tarbjyya ko baka sonta kayi hkri.
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