wata cousin dina tazo gidan mu zama for a short time haka like 2 weeks from now ma zata tafi amma matsalar shine yanda take yi ni ban gane ba gaskiya, i am the only boy in the house she is really friendly with me and sometimes even come to my room muyi hira. da safe ma ita ke tashi na sallah sometimes ni gaba daya abin yana mun wani iri no one in the house suspects anything duk cikin gidan muke zama with my other sisters. ni ina tsoro kada wata rana a samu ba dede ba because i have alot of sexual urge whenever she comes, ya kuke ganin ya kamata in hana ta zuwa min daki at all, yanda baza ta yi feeling unwanted ba.
Bawan Allah tell her in a nice tone that kinsan ba kyau maceh ta rinka zuwa dakin maxa
Then u bck it up with that hadith that says kada ku bar wata maceh ta kebe a wuri da namiji faceh muharraminta which ure not
Comfirm yar uwa
You should stay away from her. Why not stay in the parlor when you want to talk or something? If it continues then i feel you should tell her to stay away.
You have to politely tell her to stop coming to your room to avoid unwarranted situations, your discussions with her should be in the sitting room and always avoid being alone with her. May Allah Guide Us All, Amin.❣️
Allah says in the Holly Qur'an chapter7 verse 32 "Do not go even near zina" if we all look at the meaning of these aya, it is clearly a prohibition of wat could lead to zina itself. Tunda kundan saba try and talk to her calmly in a way she won't feel affended or avoid staying alone with her let it be koda tazo dakinka kanunamata kuyi hirin a parlour hakan zaifimaka da kabari shaidan yayi galaba akanku. Maassalam
Allah says in the Holly Qur'an chapter7 verse 32 "Do not go even near zina" if we all look at the meaning of these aya, it is clearly a prohibition of wat could lead to zina itself. Tunda kundan saba try and talk to her calmly in a way she won't feel affended or avoid staying alone with her let it be koda tazo dakinka kanunamata kuyi hirin a parlour hakan zaifimaka da kabari shaidan yayi galaba akanku. Maassalam
Allah says in the Holly Qur'an chapter7 verse 32 "Do not go even near zina" if we all look at the meaning of these aya, it is clearly a prohibition of wat could lead to zina itself. Tunda kundan saba try and talk to her calmly in a way she won't feel affended or avoid staying alone with her let it be koda tazo dakinka kanunamata kuyi hirin a parlour hakan zaifimaka da kabari shaidan yayi galaba akanku. Maassalam
Tell her cikin hira that babu kyau maceh da namiji non muharrams su ringa kebewa su biyu so she should stop coming to your room if she thinks you're her Muharram explain to her that your are not muharraminka bazaka iya aurenshi bah. Whenever you feel those urges kayita istighfar and try to keep your body and mind occupied In Shaa ALLAH you'll be better
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