Sometimes it gets so lonely
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Anonymous Nov 20, 08:38 AM

Sometimes it gets so lonely 1

Everyone of us is tested with one thing or the other. I believe my test is love/marriage. And Alhamdulillah I I have accepted my fate/my test in hope of being rewarded for my patience. Ever since I was little I have always loved the idea of a happy home. Kullum in muna drama I always play a mother/wife role. So my tests are the two things I love most. To find love and to have kids. My love for kids ko. Hmmm you guys won't understand before I got very busy with work, I always go to the hospital in ana wa yara vaccine. And I come back being so happy. The whole day zan dame yan gidan mu da kunga wata baby MashaAllah. Kunga kayan da aka sama ta etc. I try to be happy rather I will say I am happy and alhamdulillah I have a business that engages me . But when night comes and I lay down on the bed... With my phone checking messages it feels so lonely and sad no personal messages just business related or group chats.. alhamdulillah am not complaining. But having no one to talk too ba dadi. Dan chatting din nan before sleeping dan good morning text dinnan. 😆. And this aya also breaks my heart... "We have created you, males and females, from one type, so that each of them may find comfort in the other, so that there may be affection and compassion, which will result in offspring." Ince Allah kai fa kace haka... Unite me with my comfort too. Alhamdulillah ala kulli halin.
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Sgabdo Nov 20, 08:54 AM
Ameen Thumma Ameen
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Jibril saeed Nov 20, 08:56 AM
wow.....so amazing. where are you from?
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Anonymous #3 Nov 20, 08:58 AM
Allah Sarki, I bet many can relate. Alhamdulillah you have find something to keep yourself busy, May Allah make it easy on all of us. Keep looking and don't get tired though it can be exhausting....but definitely when the time is right it will happen. Jannah is the goal, keep striving for it, don't let this distract you dear sister, Allah said [Surah Al-`Ankabût: 2,3] "Do people think once they say, “We believe,” that they will be left without being put to the test? We certainly tested those before them. And ˹in this way˺ Allah will clearly distinguish between those who are truthful and those who are liars." In another place Allah said "[Surah Muhammad: 31] We will certainly test you ˹believers˺ until We prove those of you who ˹truly˺ struggle ˹in Allah’s cause˺ and remain steadfast, and reveal how you conduct yourselves." so the struggle is real and the reward is enormous, so be patient, fear and seek reward from Allah.....Insha Allah your wishes will be fulfilled soon.
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Trustee Nov 20, 09:12 AM
yeah it does.... but lokaci will come... have a lil Faith......
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Ahmad Muhammad kamba Nov 20, 09:28 AM
ameen thumma ameen
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Anonymous #2 Nov 20, 09:29 AM
Ameen ya Allah , ur age nd ur location huh.?
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Miemah Nov 20, 09:43 AM
Ameen ya hayyu ya qayyum
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Pearl001 Nov 20, 09:44 AM
Aamin yaa Rahman... We are together in this my dear.
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Anonymous #1 Nov 20, 10:00 AM
I’m also facing this too my dream was to be married at 22 max, give birth to my 4 kids , at 35 max I hv close d chapter of giving birth 🤰 den I’ll start enjoying life wit hubby lol.. but guess what I’ll be 29 next month nd I’m single, every man that comes my way wants my body, they say I’m extremely sexually attractive, I do not hv bad character or am I fleet oo.. but still they still want my body first nd if I refuse they go.. the only one who’s not loving me for my kuma is totally broke, no job, no money, no business,no money to even start business, nothing.. I hv accept my fate maybe I’m not destined to marry in my 20s only Allah knows .. may Allah make it easy on us all. Aminn and grant us that which is best for us in this duniya nd hereafter. Aminn
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Anonymous #7 Nov 20, 10:05 AM
Allah sarki! Allah ya bada mafita
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Anonymous #4 Nov 20, 10:11 AM

Be patient my dear, You also have to check yourself in some other way. We all know how it feels but we keep pushing. I hope you're not thinking too much and depressed at the same time. If you think you really need someone to talk about anything which you're feeling shy to say or you need any advice please email me okay and don't be shy or scared to talk to me. williamshanson26@gmail.com
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Anonymous #4 Nov 20, 10:12 AM
Be patient my dear, You also have to check yourself in some other way. We all know how it feels but we keep pushing. I hope you're not thinking too much and depressed at the same time. If you think you really need someone to talk about anything which you're feeling shy to say or you need any advice please email me okay and don't be shy or scared to talk to me. williamshanson26@gmail.com
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Anonymous #3 Nov 20, 10:51 AM

Yeah, I understand your pain. But you need to understand that nowhere does it say ine must get married in their 20s nor is it a bad thing not to be.... everyone has their life planned by Allah, there are aspects of your life that you have control over, take charge of thise things and maake the best out of it...things like your character, your knowledge, your well being keep yourself busy with those things why still been open to marriage..... those things that are beyond your power trust the one above, He knows what is best for you and will make it possible for you at the best time.. sometimes we'll love something and it's not good for us OR we'll hate something while it's best for us....the best thing is to trust the Knower of the Unseen, who loves you more than your mother does, things will unfold Insha Allah, just keep working and preparing for that time.
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Anonymous #5 Nov 20, 11:23 AM
hmmmm thought I was the only facing these,and the surprising thing is,ba dogon buri, like for me i never say Sai Mai mota,Koh Sai Mai kudi just rufin asiri,but till date no responsibile guy to hold on to,most especially at night like you said,no chatting,no good night messages,no morning messages,I really want to get married but I believe is not yet time😩now like these I have to continue school because I was given option to bring husband but there is no one to present so I have to continue with my Masters,even though deep down am not interested, Because wallahi am scared with the way things are going now,a girl with degree sef is struggling with husband talk more of the one with masters,the only thing is for us to keep praying 🥰🥰 Allah ya Mana zabi mafi alkhairi 🙏🥰
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Anonymous Nov 20, 11:56 AM

😊 30 Kano
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Anonymous Nov 20, 11:58 AM

Allah ya kawo mana dauki
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Anonymous #10 Nov 20, 12:35 PM
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Fatima Alfa Nov 20, 12:36 PM
may Allah Grant u ,ur heart desire
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Anonymous #11 Nov 20, 12:40 PM

ameen.wallahi that is wat am going through am more than 30 years it do disturb me somethings too,I will cry and cry something but am praying abt it now.its reducing small small
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Talatuwa Nov 20, 01:29 PM
The end of your msg says it all, alhamdulila Ala kulli halin, i can understand how u feel dear, but believe in every difficulty there is surely ease, it's not too early or too late just be stead fast in prayers and insha Allah it shall come to pass, some are destined to marry early, give birth early and some are not, i got married early gave birth to my kids b4 29 and now am close to 40 divorced. so u see its not too early neither it is too late, it's just by d will of Allah. May Allah make it easy for us all and chose that which best for us
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Anonymous #6 Nov 20, 01:54 PM
wani jikirin alherine sis nima tun abun bai damuna har yazo ya fara, abun haushi ma mutane bazasu barka kaji da damuwarka ba sai sun Kara da nasu, dis month nayi 23 Amma ji nakeyi Kamar 45 nayi saboda maganar mutane , kodan younger siblings Dina sunyi aure ne oho
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Aiza Nov 20, 03:02 PM
May Allah grant us spouse who will be the coolness of our eyes
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Yazeed Nov 20, 03:34 PM

Ameen ya Allah wlh u touch my heart am short of words but insha Allahu everything will be fine God never forget you and anyone in search of a good husband my advice to u is please keep it up by praying sadaqa it helps insha Allahu
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