Anonymous
Apr 7, 08:20 AM
Can shyness be too much ?
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I wanted to ask , is it possible for shyness to be too much ? Am often told am too shy and I should reduce it , And that how can I get married if am being this shy ? This is what alot tell me .
I don't really like going out except it's for going to visit my relatives or seeking knowledge because of how shy I am , I don't look at people much ( females ) not to even talk of men , even when am with my friends , am still very shy . Or at times when I see someone I know , even when am wearing my niqab I feel shy to talk to them not to talk of me not wearing the niqab , but Alhamdullilah I muster the courage to say Salam because it's what our religion teaches . Even talking alot of times when am with people , I feel so shy to talk much except when absolutely necessary if not I just smile and listen to them .
Shyness is part of Iman Alhamdullilah , May Allah bless us all and increase us in goodness and guide us to the straight path .
But I wanted to ask , can shyness be too much ?
