Can shyness be too much ?
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Anonymous Apr 7, 08:20 AM

Can shyness be too much ? 0

I wanted to ask , is it possible for shyness to be too much ? Am often told am too shy and I should reduce it , And that how can I get married if am being this shy ? This is what alot tell me . I don't really like going out except it's for going to visit my relatives or seeking knowledge because of how shy I am , I don't look at people much ( females ) not to even talk of men , even when am with my friends , am still very shy . Or at times when I see someone I know , even when am wearing my niqab I feel shy to talk to them not to talk of me not wearing the niqab , but Alhamdullilah I muster the courage to say Salam because it's what our religion teaches . Even talking alot of times when am with people , I feel so shy to talk much except when absolutely necessary if not I just smile and listen to them . Shyness is part of Iman Alhamdullilah , May Allah bless us all and increase us in goodness and guide us to the straight path . But I wanted to ask , can shyness be too much ?
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Anonymous #1 Apr 7, 08:43 AM
I don't think so dear, because shyness makes a lady even more beautiful
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Nasir Mujahid Apr 7, 11:22 AM

Don't try to make her feel comfortable, obviously her own is too much because in this modern society every individual male or female should be able to interact socially else, it will be a set back. Not even being able to look at her own female kind is quiet too extreme. One day she may find her self in a situation where that shyness will negatively impact her.
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Anonymous #3 Apr 7, 02:09 PM
That's how Allah (SWT) created us. I am excessively shy but Alhamdullilah. At least this shyness will stop you from committing a lot of sins.
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Anonymous #2 Apr 7, 08:08 PM
Shyness and iman go hand in hand. One can't exist without the other. Being excessively shy as a female is not bad. In a world where being shy is considered backwardness, I think you've been blessed. It's as you mentioned and you know it, shyness is part of iman
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Nasir Mujahid Apr 7, 11:51 PM

Moderate Shyness, not extreme, Islam encourages moderation in everything. Her own case is extreme if you can't even interact with the outside world properly because you are shy, it will definitely affect you in many ways
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Bhillyamin Apr 8, 08:10 AM
Am also shy to this post🤗
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